How to give children sex education?

First, how to educate children about sex?

Sex education is not limited to sexual knowledge, but covers physiology, psychology, religion, culture and so on. Sex education is a part of family education and an education of personality growth. It is an education to cultivate children's outlook on life, world outlook and values and promote the all-round development of children's personality. Sex education is based on sex, so that children can learn to think, make responsible choices for themselves and others, and respect their own choices.

During adolescence, children have sexual desire and impulse, which is a normal phenomenon of physical development and psychological development. Children who enter adolescence will have a strong curiosity about sex, have a lot of doubts about sex, are extremely sensitive to information about sex, and want to know everything about the opposite sex with great interest. At this time, parents should help students master the sense of communication, educate their children to establish a relationship between men and women in ethics and pay attention to manners.

Second, the urgency of sex education for children.

(1) The age at which children are exposed to pornographic information is constantly advancing, and someone needs to guide children to avoid premature sexual behavior.

(2) When children are curious about sex, if no one guides them, they will use their own methods to find the answer. We can't guarantee whether the information they get through themselves is healthy or pornographic.

(3) Now the reports of sexual assault cases make people realize that sexual assault actually happens around children.

Third, when to give sex education to children?

(1) sex education in infancy (0- 1 year): mother's nurturing and feeding of children, physical contact between mother and children, etc.

(2) Children's sex education (1-3 years old): Know your gender, boys care about and respect women, and wash their hands after defecation.

(3) Childhood sex education (3- 10 years old): basic knowledge of sexual health, how to protect yourself, the difference between men and women, self-esteem and self-love.

(4) Adolescent sex education (10- 18 years old): adolescent physical health knowledge, menstrual health knowledge, principles and precautions of communication between men and women, how girls protect themselves, preliminary moral principles of marriage and love, and clear legal and moral relations between men and women.

(5) Adolescent sex education (18-40 years old): how to assume the responsibilities and obligations of the family, the knowledge of husband and wife's life, the knowledge of children's education, the knowledge of family economy, and the preparation for establishing a family.

4. How do parents educate their children about sex at home?

(1) Understand the laws of children's sexual development and treat children's sexual activities correctly. Avoid scolding children for misunderstanding. For example, it is normal for a boy aged 1-6 to have an erection. Parents should not think that their children are precocious.

(2) Answering children's sex-related questions in a language that children can understand. Parents should first put their minds right. If even you find it difficult to talk about sex, you should be careful when talking about sex-related issues with your children. Even if the child doesn't feel mysterious, it will be influenced by your attitude and state. Secondly, parents should bravely answer their children's questions, and they will answer whatever the children ask, without avoiding or making up stories. Of course, parents can also give their children sex education better and more easily through parent-child reading of children's sex education picture books.

(3) Parents express your values to their children by dribs and drabs of life. For example, parents and children watch TV together and see two people kissing. Parents should not cover their children's eyes, but seize the right time to tell them. This is a way to express their love. The premise is that two people like each other and need to respect each other's wishes. When parents and children see pictures of son preference and sexual harassment on TV, you can express your views on the wrong information to your children and tell them what the correct information is. Pass the scientific attitude of equality between men and women and respect for others to children.

As parents, it is necessary to have a frank talk with children about sex education.

Adolescent children must be curious about sex. If parents can't teach their children scientific sexual knowledge, then other wrong ideas on the internet will become children's "sex textbooks", which will affect the formation of correct ideas.

Parents should let their children know that it is normal to have sexual desire or impulse at this time, and it is not a shameful thing. At the same time, they should teach children the correct way to get rid of rational desires and impulses.

Only by knowing your sex, your organs and your private parts can you know how to protect your body from being touched by others.

Sex education runs through the educational process of children's growth and is an indispensable part of children's healthy growth. I hope more and more parents can talk about sex bravely and scientifically.