How to learn to choose a name?

Naming refers to naming something, people or animals, things, places, products, etc. A personalized name, usually used to distinguish another name. Names can identify classes or things, or single things. Naming is to use traditional and modern naming principles to determine social and conceptual symbols for people or things to distinguish one thing from another.

The influence of name on people's fate

The Cultural Connotation of Names

The history of baby's birth name

Five-grid nomenclature, naming taboo Chinese characters

The concept of naming

This paper puts forward the method of choosing a good name in the application of the language of the State Language Committee.

New rules of naming

Naming precautions

Twelve elements of baby naming: likes and dislikes of birthdays (numerology)

Second, the five-grid dissection method (this article is attached separately)

Third, the year of birth

Fourth, the zodiac and fonts.

Five, the word meaning glyph

Sixth, pronunciation

Seven, Yin and Yang

Eight, the gram of the five elements and the eight characters.

Nine, named hexagrams

X. Names and parents' horoscopes

Eleven, can't be like parents.

Twelve, in line with the allocation of three types of talents

The influence of name on people's fate

The Cultural Connotation of Names

Baobao ru Ming da quan

An analysis of the five historical grids of names

Naming, Naming-Banning Chinese Characters

The concept of naming

The naming of Master Xuanzhenzi refers to the use of various methods to give people or things a name that is easy to identify and distinguish. Mortals must be famous, and names must be divided into surnames and first names. Names are not only symbols of people, but also symbols of differences between people. Since ancient times, people have cherished their names, and our surnames and first names have gone through a long process of evolution before they developed into names that people are used to today. In ancient China, surnames and first names were not used, and surnames were used first, followed by first names, characters and posthumous title.

The ancients said: "It is better to teach children a skill than to give them a thousand dollars;" Give him a good name, it is better to teach him a skill. "That's true. People in China always pay attention to naming. It is not unreasonable for China people to attach importance to names. In the eyes of China people, names are of great significance in people's lives, not just a symbol with no practical significance.

As a symbol, surnames and first names can't determine people's fate, but they always carry the information of the times, engrave cultural concepts, leave the brand of family lineage, condense parents' deep affection and ardent expectations for their children, imply different ideals, interests, hobbies and goal pursuits, and play a subtle role in life. Name is the beginning of family education, the information code lock of parents on their children's life prospects, and the "curing agent" to strengthen personal wishes or social responsibilities. Names full of life beliefs will regulate, function and influence people's lives.

It is popular to name pets, children, companies and products at present; First of all, the name should be atmospheric, easy to remember and easy to call, and unforgivable-this is the most basic requirement. In China, children's names cannot be stressed or duplicated with their elders' names, which is regarded as disrespect for elders. In recent years, individual names have emerged one after another, which not only destroyed the traditional culture and folk customs of China, but also caused many unnecessary troubles for themselves and others. Therefore, the exercise of citizens' right to name should also give consideration to social responsibility and civic responsibility.

Naming is a very complicated process and a very complicated knowledge. We should not only combine the Zhouyi with the eight characters of the name, but also choose the appropriate number of strokes according to the geographical view of the sun, and then make an atmospheric, pleasant and smooth name according to the principles of sound, meaning and bel canto.

[Edit this paragraph] Suggestions on the language application of the State Language Committee

Naming precautions

1. No matter what name you choose, don't have vicious or unlucky words and meanings.

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2. First, check whether there are any defects in the congenital four pillars, discharge the eight characters of the namers, find out the five elements of likes and dislikes, and make up for the shortcomings when naming. For example, in the article Runtu, Mr. Lu Xun wrote "Runtu, the five elements lack soil, hence the name Runtu", but he did not add soil to the meaning of this word. The correct way is to take the strokes of the five lines in the mathematical connotation of the name.

3. Voice selection:

(1), avoid the same initials and vowels as names, such as "Wang Wenwei" and "Bob Bang".

(2) Avoid homophonic and indecent words of names. Such as Li Si, Han Yuan, Epic, Du Zida, etc. They all mean gentle, but in spoken language it is easy to pronounce you dead, crying injustice, corpse, big belly and so on.

(3) Avoid four identical names, such as Liu, all three, Zhang Xiangshuang, all one, which is not easy to read.

4. Word meaning selection:

(1), don't use vulgar words, such as Li Er and Hu Ping Eva.

(2) Don't take foreign names, such as Mary, Henry and John.

(3) Don't use too obscure words, Zhou Yong.

5. Font selection:

(1) Don't use too many strokes.

(2) The radicals of names should avoid being the same, such as Jiang Bolang and Tong Xinxiu.

(3) Pay attention to the size, length, strength and falsehood of the font.

Fertilizer: application, roundness, abundance, application, posture, preparation, etc. , the action is cumbersome.

Thin: seven, small, dry, bu, zi, depression, card, money, although energetic, but weak.

Length: grass, mustard, Shen, strange, flat, pungent, bamboo, bud, can stretch but not bend, know how to advance but not retreat, lack of endurance.

Shortness: Fourth, the earth, righteousness, mountains and rivers, hills, students, women, perseverance and not good, it is rare for nobles to support.

Strong: energetic, successful, Thai, strong, energetic, brave, martial, flying, active, easy to be cold and hot, good at communication and decisive.

Weaknesses: dress, mind, beauty, dream, flower, seedling, posture, passivity, indecision.

Virtual: quiet, high-profile, self-sufficient, door, mouth, empty, lack of goals, at a loss, it is difficult to achieve volunteers.

Reality: country, happiness, prosperity, room, suitability, phoenix, phoenix, respect, stability, conservative, diligent and a little stubborn. The choice of font should match the innate eight characters. If the figure of eight is too strong, it will be weak, if the figure of eight is too weak, it will be strong and fat to help it, and so on.

6. The five elements have names. Whether it is a brand name or a person's name, whether it is Chinese or English, it has mathematical and symbolic significance. There are four Taoist laws: birth, restraint, restraint and culture. The circulation of words is the key. Everything in the world is a biological chain, and any problem in one link will affect the survival of other chains. A brand, a link broken, unable to circulate, just like a broken DNA chain. Such a brand is short-lived. Such a personal brand can't play the role of 100%.

7. Numerology is the root of a name. Personal name and numerology must be the same, if different, it is not conducive to personal development. If the five elements of a name go against personal numerology, there will be more disasters. The decline of the rich is mostly related to the ups and downs of life.

8. You should give each other a name. Each word has five lines. The best choice is that the front word gives birth to the back word, and the development will be smoother and smoother.

9. Don't be fierce when naming names. Both Chinese characters and English have their mathematical and symbolic meanings, and it is forbidden to combine them into bad meanings such as "incompatible with water" and "damaged mountains and rivers". This step is also to check the name.

10. The meaning of the name cannot be missing. For example, "Guang" is not suitable for people who like "Jin". It is indecisive, lacks leadership and can't get the support of leadership.

1 1. The name font should be balanced between yin and yang. Fonts are divided into explicit and implicit levels, and auspicious appearances are not enough. To do both internal and external training, it is necessary to analyze word segmentation.

[Edit this paragraph] Twelve elements of baby name words

Naming experts remind everyone that the popular name grading on the Internet is purely entertainment, so don't take it too seriously! Naming is a systematic knowledge. People usually only pay attention to the literal meaning and pronunciation of a name when changing it. It's not that simple. A good name should consider the following twelve elements:

First of all, the likes and dislikes of birthdays (numerology)

In the study of names, there is also a relationship between yin and yang and five elements, which can make up for the deficiency of congenital eight characters and change the fate of the parties from bad to good. On the contrary, if the relationship between the acquired name and the five elements of Yin and Yang plays an auxiliary role in the abuse of his innate eight characters, then this person's fate will also change from good to bad, and it may also bring serious disasters at a critical time. As the saying goes: "One life, two luck, three feng shui, four students and five studies." Therefore, the role of acquired naming in this process ranks fourth and cannot be underestimated. To this end, the ancients said: "Give your son a good name, it is better to give him one million." In practice, when naming a name, we should first exclude the date of birth of the party concerned, see if he likes or dislikes, and give priority to the name of God. Never put jealousy in your name, otherwise, you will kill people invisibly. For example, Wang Xing, male, prefers fire to water, so his five-element configuration can be defined as "earth fire and soil" or "earth fire and fire", but never "earth gold water" or "earth water and soil". This is the first principle to consider when naming.

Second, the five-grid dissection method (this article is attached separately)

Third, the year of birth

The years when a person is born are like the roots of a tree. In order to make this tree a useful tree, it is necessary to have a solid foundation and a well-developed root system rooted in the soil, which is called deep roots. Only when it is deeply rooted can it flourish. When naming a name, don't hurt its root: Niangan. On this basis, it should be more concerned and cared for, so that this tree of life can flourish through wind and rain, sun and rain. For example, a person born in 1984 is Jiazi, and Jia Mu is a poplar. If it is not destroyed and cared for, it can grow into a towering tree and become a pillar. When naming, you can't see the words such as knife, sword and axe in the font, because cutting with a sharp knife is not conducive to growth. Also: A and G collide, and the fonts such as "G" can't be seen. Oracle Bone Inscriptions should be rooted in the soil, and "A" and "Ji" are integrated into one, so it is appropriate to put "Ji" and "Ji" in the font. I am an analogy.

Fourth, the zodiac and fonts.

The zodiac is Jupiter's position on the earth that year. It represents different information and energy. Our ancestors used the twelve words "Zi, Ugly, Yin, Mao, Chen, Si, Wu, Wei, Shen, You, Shu and Hai" to express it. This is the so-called zodiac. Because its principle of action is the attraction of celestial bodies to the ball, it belongs to the knowledge system of astronomy, so it has a very scientific theoretical basis. When naming a name, it should be considered comprehensively on the basis of the animal sign of the party concerned and the font of the five elements of mathematics. For example, people who belong to rats. Rats belong to vertebrates. Since ancient times, rats have formed many "bad relationships" with human life, and people hate rats. Therefore, there is a saying that "when a mouse crosses the street, everyone shouts". Rats are cunning and treacherous by nature, like dark places, like to haunt at night, and like to eat omnivorous grains. Mice are afraid of cats, people, dogs (some dogs bring mice) and snakes. Among the twelve earthly branches, rats are water, while northern rats collide with afternoon horses, and rats harm sheep. The mouse and the cow are six in one, and Shen (monkey) and Chen (dragon) are three in one. Therefore, when people who belong to rats choose their names, they should first avoid radicals such as "horse" and "noon", such as "jun" and "pestle", because meridians collide; Words like "sheep" and "Wei" should be avoided, because children don't hurt each other. Such as "Xiang", "Qun" and "Wei". The words "fire" and "water" should be avoided. The factor is water, and fire and water are incompatible. Such as "soldier", "fierce", "Yu" and "bear". The words "sun" and "light" should be avoided, because it is more dangerous for mice to see light. Such as "the sun, bright, crystal, sunny". Fonts such as "Zhi", "Ji" and "Bow" should be avoided, because these fonts are snake-shaped and snakes eat mice. Such as: "Da, Deng, Qiang, Zhang, Chi". You should avoid using these characters "Yao Yao" and "Yao Yao" or that side. Because mice are afraid of people. Such as "Wei, Ren, Zhong, Xu and Fa". You should avoid the two radicals "Miao" and "Gui". Because mice are afraid of dogs and cats. Such as: "dogs, mountains, seedlings" and so on. The words suitable for mice are "rice" and "valley" to symbolize eating; It is appropriate to use "rice", "light" and "cave" to symbolize home, cave and security. It is appropriate to use "fu" and "harmony" to cover it up. "King" and "Jun" should be used, because rats rank first and can be called kings, symbolizing power and majesty, symbolizing the prosperity of nobles, good luck and success everywhere. It is appropriate to use the words "color, cloth, grade, prestige and benefit" to symbolize that mice like to wear colorful clothes and beautify their bodies. The rest of the genus is similar.

(This is debatable. From the traditional numerology, the zodiac has nothing to do with the glyph. The personification of Zodiac animals is a dogma and a fake of fast food culture in recent years, which has nothing to do with numerology. Numerology is eight words. Is there any reason to support happiness and jealousy in a year? -Shanghai is serious)

Five, the word meaning glyph

When naming names, people are pinning good hopes and expectations. In particular, it is the wish of parents all over the world to name their children and wish them success. Every family places great hopes on their children according to their own family's likes and dislikes. But the first name is generally only three words, and the last name cannot be easily changed. According to the custom of our nation, what is your surname means that you have inherited the ancestral incense of your family, taking your father's surname, that is, your father's blood; With the mother's surname, belonging to the maternal side of the blood. And the remaining two words, it is really not easy to express this hope of parents.

First of all, choose auspicious, healthy and meaningful words; Secondly, the meaning of the phrase after formation is good, consistent and auspicious; Neither too vulgar nor too revealing, nor far-fetched; It is necessary to have high hopes and profound meanings; We should be formal, upright and artistic.

Secondly, when naming names, we should avoid some fonts that are too full and too narrow, such as Yan and Bu.

When naming a name, we should fully consider the image and strive for perfection. Don't take foreign names. Such as Lisa, Mary, Jenny and so on. Because our Chinese nation has its own long history and splendid culture, its own morality, ethics and values, adopting a foreign name and lacking affinity is not conducive to establishing good interpersonal relationships. Besides, our Chinese characters are beautiful in form, meaning and sound, which have unique cultural connotations and profound implications after forming words. Foreign names are purely for pronunciation, which makes no sense at all, and also gives people a strange and uncomfortable feeling, thus affecting their luck and career.

Don't use too tacky names. Such as Wang Youcai, Li Fugui, Zhang Goudan, He Cuihua and Wang Caigu. Such a title will make the parties feel inferior in future social interaction and make people look down upon it.

Don't use uncommon words. Such as flies, flies, etc. Chinese characters in China are hieroglyphics, so people can't read them, let alone people. Generally speaking, most people who use uncommon words in their names are withdrawn, introverted and unsociable, which damages their reputation in society and hinders their personal development.

As far as the meaning of naming words is concerned, it can take the following meanings: 1, erudite; 2. Help the world and people; 3. Excellent intelligence; 4. Successful career; 5. Strong financial resources; 6. Handsome; 7. happiness; 8. Health and longevity; 9. Smooth sailing; 10, noble character; 1 1, with excellent reputation; 12, with strong will; 13, Gu Mu Xian Liang, etc.

Sixth, pronunciation

A clearly pronounced name can give people a frank and cordial feeling. When naming a name, it should be easy to read and remember, catchy and loud.

1, coordination of initials: several different initials should form a word (word) group, and three words cannot have the same initials. For example, Jiang's surname, such as "Jiang Haitao", is more distinctive. All three characters have three water points, and the word means water, which is magnificent. The pronunciation is Jiang's initials J, Hai's initials H and Tao's initials T, but if it is called "Jiang", all three initials are J, which is really not easy to read.

2, the difference between vowels: the vowels of people's names should also be distinguished, otherwise it is indecent. Such as: Wang Xing, if called "Wang Yuhua", the pronunciation is better; But if it is called "Wang Shangguang" and all vowels are "Ang", it will be bad.

3. Homophonic: Homophonic has two meanings, one is homophonic with local dialect, and the other is homophonic with Putonghua. For example, Zhang sounds better, but if the surname is Du, it is the homonym of Du and Du. "Wang Junzhi" sounds better, but if the surname is Wei and the name is Wei Junzhi, it will be homophonic with "hypocrite". Of course, if this homonym can be skillfully used, it can also play a very positive role, with profound implications and thought-provoking. For example, "Pan Feng" and "climbing the peak" are homophonic, which means climbing the peak; "Wen Yanbo" and "erudite" are combined, which means a person who is well-educated and knowledgeable.

4. Tone: The so-called tone refers to flat tones, and China's couplets and ancient poems pay attention to flat tones. One or two tones are flat, and three or four tones are awkward. It is also quiet and too heavy. Be straightforward, so that it is catchy to read and easy to remember.

Seven, Yin and Yang

In mathematics, odd numbers are yang and even numbers are yin. When naming a name, the odd number and even number of strokes should be reasonably matched. In the Yi-ology theory, pure yin does not develop and solitary yang does not last long. Just like us humans, if all men don't see women, or women don't see men, there is no mating between yin and yang to reproduce. Similarly, when naming, pure yin and pure yang are not conducive to development and fate. In the theory of traditional Chinese medicine, the imbalance between yin and yang will lead to diseases. Traditional Chinese medicine treats diseases with the purpose of regulating and balancing yin and yang. Therefore, the theory of yin-yang balance is equally important in naming. Generally, taking three-word names as an example, Yin and Yang are the most auspicious; Yin and Yang, Yang and Yang are auspicious; Yin and Yang are the fiercest, and so on.

Eight, the gram of the five elements and the eight characters.

The five elements in numerology are based on ten heavenly stems: A, B, C, D, E, Ji, Ke, Xin, Ren, Gui, 1 and 2 are wood, 3 and 4 are fire, 5 and 6 are earth, 7 and 8 are gold, and 9 and 10 are water. Where odd numbers are positive and even numbers are negative. The relationship between yin and yang in our body is expressed as follows: 1, 2 is the hepatobiliary system, 3, 4 is the cardiovascular system, 5, 6 is the digestive system of the spleen and stomach, 7, 8 is the respiratory system such as lungs, and 9, 10 is the renal and urinary system. The five elements are born together, symbolizing that everything goes smoothly; Five-phase interference symbolizes that everything goes wrong, everything goes wrong, and people are in poor health.

Nine, named hexagrams

Eight diagrams and six hexagrams are commonly used prediction methods. This can prove the unlucky name and predict when and what will happen. There are many ways to start divination, and the common methods are: using personality number as the upper divination and geographical number as the lower divination to predict the good or bad name; Taking the total number of squares as the upper divination and the number of squares as the lower divination can predict the good or bad luck of life. According to the law of six changes, we can accurately predict what will happen in the year, month and day.

X. Names and parents' horoscopes

According to the theory that the zodiac signs of the earthly branches are mutually reinforcing and mutually damaging, parents' zodiac signs should be taken into account when naming children. For example, if one parent is from Ma Xiao, the child's name cannot contain the word "Zi" because of the collision of meridians, such as "Zi, Zi"; You can't use the word "ugly" because ugliness hurts each other in the afternoon; Such as "grazing and breeding"; We can't take "Ma Wu" as an example, because "Ma Wu" is a kind of self-punishment.

Eleven, can't be like parents.

When naming, the names of the elders in the family should be listed aside. Generally speaking, children's names cannot be equated with parents, grandparents and uncles to show respect for their elders. However, there are also some special circumstances that can skillfully solve such problems and make children's names easy to remember. For example, the father's name is "Wang Dahai", and children can choose "Wang Jinghai", which symbolizes the younger generation's admiration for their parents. If we can give consideration to the above eleven factors when naming a name, and then on this basis, we can take idioms as the key link, ancient poems as the content, ancient sages as the model, or some auspicious implication as the pursuit goal, we will certainly be able to get a more perfect and better name. I wish you a fair name and all the best!

Twelve, in line with the allocation of three types of talents

When naming a name, a senior naming expert not only considers my eight characters and other basic information, but also has a more important point, that is, he should integrate the factors of weather, geography and people into the name, and finally get a good name, avoid some injuries, make the road of life smoother and play a role in increasing luck.

[Edit this paragraph] The influence of names on people's fate

The ancients said: "It is better to teach children a skill than to give them a thousand dollars;" It is better to teach your son a skill than to teach him a skill. "

Naming takes a lot of effort and learning. Speaking of which, there are many topics. Let me briefly talk about my personal views on naming.

First of all, the most fundamental question is: does a person's name have an impact on his fate?

The so-called irregular name is not smooth, and the importance of name is self-evident.

To analyze the influence of a name on people, let's first analyze the elements contained in a name. As we all know, Chinese characters in China are different from pinyin characters. Chinese characters are the perfect combination of sound, form and meaning, including sound, form and meaning. Below I will discuss it from these three aspects.

First, from the perspective of pronunciation.

Before discussing the influence of pronunciation on people, let's discuss the influence of voice on people first, so that everyone can understand it easily, and also dig out some mysterious factors to avoid superstition. (Original author: Jiangnan Yilin)

The sounds are obviously good and bad, the melody is as beautiful as nature, and the noise is deafening. Sound can affect our daily routine and mood, and then affect our personality habits and behaviors, and ultimately affect people's destiny to a certain extent. I think this truth should be obvious. If you don't believe me, you can compare the mood, personality and mentality of a person who lives in flowers, birds, fish and insects all day with that of a person who lives in noise (such as car noise and mahjong noise), and it's easy to know.

The name is very strange and unique. Its ownership belongs to ourselves, but others shout the most. Moreover, in our lives, our names have been called thousands of times, and the impact on people should not be underestimated. This power is similar to chanting. When someone calls our name, our brain and nervous system will instinctively produce various psychological activities and actions according to the level, height, strength, rigidity, thickness, sharpness and clarity of audio, melody and tone, and thoughts and actions are one of the reasons that affect our fate.

Sound affects people's emotions and actions, which is one of the reasons why the medical profession advocates prenatal education, and it is also one of the reasons why many people commit suicide after listening to the legendary "Black Friday".

Second, from the perspective of glyphs.

The aspect of glyph is not difficult to understand, that is, the feeling given after the name is written. For example, the older generation always likes to name their children "Fu, Guo, Tian, Xing, Bai and Tang" (original author: Yilin in the south of the Yangtze River). Why? Because the parts under these names are smooth, square and thick, these parents also hope that these children can be steady and honest.

Let me give you another example. You should be familiar with it. You should have heard of the saying "Yan Liu Jin Gu" in calligraphy. "Liu" here refers to Liu Gongquan, a master of calligraphy in the Tang Dynasty. In addition to being famous for his achievements in calligraphy, Liu Gongquan's "pen admonition" of "correcting the heart and writing correctly" is also known to the world. Once Mu Zong asked Liu Gongquan how to write calligraphy well. Liu Gongquan said to him, "Use a pen in your heart, and your heart is right."

It can be inferred from this case that writing different styles of fonts will have different effects on people's personality. For example, most of the words written by great people are big and powerful (original author: Yilin in the south of the Yangtze River), while the words written by ladies are often sober and beautiful.

If a boy with weak personality can practice Liu Ti more, his mind will gradually become stronger, because Liu Ti pays attention to "bones", and his words are vigorous and powerful. If he writes too much, he will bring people's minds to "rigidity" or "strength". And people with strong personality should practice generous and vigorous fonts.

For another example, in order to be unique, some parents deliberately give their children a very complicated name with many strokes, or use uncommon Chinese characters. This kind of harm is both positive and serious. First, it's not convenient to write (I remember a joke that two primary school students were taking exams at the same time, one was Wang Yi, and the other was Wang Kui. The former made seven or eight multiple-choice questions, while the latter was still writing their names:). Second, uncommon names are not easy to identify and write. There are several generous families in history, but their names are so uncommon that their popularity is seriously affected (I read them in a book, but I forgot their names, which just proves that their names are not easy to remember:)

Third, from the perspective of word meaning.

The meaning of words is easy to understand, which means the meaning of words, such as symbolic meaning and homophonic. People always want their names to contain positive meanings such as good luck and wishful thinking, rather than negative meanings. Some people don't pay attention to homophonic or ambiguous names, and as a result, a person's name becomes a swear word. This is not a case. Presumably in real life, you will always see several examples of bad names. (Original author: Jiangnan Yilin)

The principle of my name is to consider the fundamental elements of sound, form and meaning inherent in Chinese characters, and to analyze the characters of the parties, taking into account the likes and dislikes of the five elements and the zodiac. The power of the five elements is very powerful. Although invisible and intangible, it is everywhere. It is a classic and traditional practice of China to type a certain five elements and fill them in the name.

With regard to naming, the so-called "five-grid dissection method" introduced from Japan in the last century (original author: Yilin in the south of the Yangtze River) is the most widely circulated on the Internet. I don't quite agree with this method (sometimes this need will be taken into account if there is no way). According to this method, many people with surnames can choose few names, resulting in many people with duplicate names. There are many comments on its shortcomings on the Internet. (Interested friends can Baidu: Criticism of Five-grid Anatomy)

As the saying goes: a thousand dollars is easy to get, but a good name is hard to find. In the future, I will sort out my famous cases in recent years and share them with you.

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