Why did Song Meiling get married at the age of 30?

The three sisters of the Song family are definitely the most important figures on the stage of the Republic of China, each with its own achievements and wonderful performances.

Compared with elder sister and second sister's composure and dignity, younger sister Song Meiling is more lively, cheerful and free and easy. Because she went abroad in her early years, she was also the most westernized of the three sisters.

Westernization is not only manifested in her words and deeds, but also in her attitude towards feelings and marriage.

Getting married at the age of 30 is really a "late marriage" for women in the Republic of China. Why wait until you are 30 to get married? Personally, there are mainly the following factors:

1、? There is no pressure to urge marriage.

The Song family is not only rich, but also a very avant-garde family. It can be seen from the fact that all six children in their family went abroad to study that such a family was unique in Shanghai at that time.

Song Meiling's father, Song Jiashu, traveled to many countries in his early years and was influenced by modern western civilization, so he was also very open-minded in educating his children. He hopes that all children have their own independent thoughts, take control of their own lives and live their true selves.

Under his influence, the family atmosphere of the Song family has always been democratic and open.

There is a girl at home who is not married at the age of 30. If it was an ordinary family, she would have been worried. But unlike the Song family, she never urged marriage, nor did she put too much pressure on it. Even though her sisters introduced her, she never forced her to accept it.

I don't want to marry myself.

Although her family and two sisters have introduced her boyfriend, Song Meiling, who is free and easy by nature, doesn't want to get married so soon.

She advocates freedom and doesn't want to get caught up in daily necessities and be bound by marriage. She even felt bored after marriage.

Most importantly, she is not an ordinary girl. She is ambitious. /kloc-Song Meiling, who returned to China at the age of 0/9, wants to make a difference in her career, so she has a strong ambition to pursue the life she wants according to her own plans and ideals, and is not in a hurry to get married.

I didn't meet the right person.

I don't want to marry myself. After all, I just haven't met anyone who wants to get married.

According to Song Meiling's personal conditions at that time, the boys who pursued her should be as many as the crucian carp crossing the river, but few of them could enter her eyes.

Marriage is suitable for all ages. In ancient times, matching means that both men and women have equal family wealth status, but in modern times, matching is a spiritual match, that is, whether they have the same frequency or not.

For such a top-notch Bai Fumei in family, knowledge and face value, the man's economic conditions are secondary, personal knowledge and ability are more important, and spiritual harmony is what she wants most.

She won't just walk into the marriage hall until she meets the right person.

The family is democratic, there is no pressure to urge marriage, and people are also very nice, which makes her have enough ability to decide her life and marriage, so even a 30-year-old girl will not feel tired of getting married.

But not getting married before the age of 30 does not mean that Song Meiling's emotional world is blank.

On the contrary, Song Meiling, who lived in the United States since childhood, actually had quite rich emotional experiences. She had too many boyfriends, but in the end they all broke up for various reasons. After all, the fate is shallow.

Later, after meeting Chiang Kai-shek, Jiang fell in love with Song at first sight and pursued it for five years. 1927, they finally got married.

Some people say that this is a political marriage, but it does not rule out that it is a happy marriage with the intention of a romantic princess. For Song Meiling with heroic plot, Chiang Kai-shek is the most suitable marriage partner. In her eyes, Chiang Kai-shek is the most handsome man.

Later, it was proved that the two were indeed the most suitable couple, and this match was reflected in many aspects. In fact, many times, the right one is also the best.