Daughter-in-law can't let go of the unfair treatment of her husband's family. How should she deal with it?

The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good. In fact, when they enter the door of marriage, they must be ready to get married. Marriage can be husband and wife, but marriage life is not just you two. The first obstacle before us is not the contradiction between husband and wife, because husband and wife quarrel. If there is no affection between husband and wife, they are too lazy to quarrel. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is the first thing to face. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seems complicated, but it also seems simple.

The mother-in-law and daughter-in-law come from two families. For an ordinary person, getting along needs an adaptation period and an adaptation period. In this process, it is inevitable that the daughter-in-law will be wronged. Over time, some people and things will let go and relax. The so-called contradiction is just a piece of cake. If you are treated unfairly, your daughter-in-law should keep silent, because her mother-in-law will not point out a reason. She should seize your weakness and use it to let her know that you should keep silent. If you are like your mother-in-law, your behavior has obvious weaknesses, so you are guilty and cover up your weaknesses. Patience is a kind of high emotional intelligence, others will pay attention to your mother-in-law, think that your mother-in-law is not considerate and sensible, and others will like her.

But you can't always endure and choose the right opportunity to break out. For example, when the family is eating or chatting together, your mother-in-law is still criticizing you, so you don't have to endure saying to her mother-in-law: Mom, what did I do wrong? What is wrong with me? You tell me, I will change. You killed too many people, and you targeted me again and again. If this goes on, this family will fall apart.

After that, you go straight out and your family understands everything. The next day, as usual, you will be filial to your mother-in-law, and her mother-in-law will reflect and exercise some restraint. When the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law heats up, you can also talk to your husband and let him mediate. As long as his position is fair and reasonable, the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be alleviated. People don't get along well with their mother-in-law because they inadvertently touch each other's pain points in daily life. As long as you are more tolerant and understanding, always put yourself in others' shoes and communicate sincerely, there will be no bumps in your family.