Recasting Lagerstroemia indica with stone beads and jade

"Xunzi Flying" said: Giving people words is more important than Shi Yu; Persuading people with words is more beautiful than articles; Listen to people,

A gentleman is good at expressing his opinions, which is the virtue of a gentleman and the difference between him and a pedant.

There are many difficulties in persuading others, so a gentleman can show tolerance and accept other people's opinions when interacting with others. The method of persuading others mainly lies in distinguishing different situations and proceeding flexibly.

The art of talking: respecting the village, being sincere, being strong, metaphor, analogy, clarity, being fond of fragrance, giving, being precious and being noble. If so, it is often said that there are no exceptions. Although we don't talk about people, people are expensive, and my husband calls them expensive. Chuan said, "Only a gentleman can be expensive." This is also called.

A gentleman must argue. Ordinary people can't say what they are good at, but what a gentleman does. It is built on the basis of small civil air defense and gentleman's defense of benevolence. Words are unkind, words are silent, and arguments are silent; Speak with benevolence, those who are good at words will go up, and those who are not good at words will go down. Therefore, benevolence is great. Top-down, down the road, decree also; Bottom-up, so loyal to the world, help the world also, so the gentleman's trip is also insatiable. Good intentions, safe actions, Le Yan's, so gentlemen will argue. It is better to see the end than to argue; It is better to see the responsibility than to see the end. Small debate and observation, see the end and understand, duty and reason, sage and gentleman.

There are villains, scholars and gentlemen, and saints: those who don't think first, don't plan early, take what is done, write it down, move the wrong place, and be resourceful are also saints debaters. Think well first, make plans early, listen to what you have to say, practice what you have to write, and be honest with the party. He is also a debater of scholars and gentlemen. If you listen to him, you will argue about disunity. If you use his body, you will be cheating and futile. It is not enough to obey the Ming king, nor is it enough to be with the people. However, the balance of your breath is enough to be a strange and restrained one. The husband is called a traitor and a saint, so he will be punished first. Then the thief comes second. Thieves have to change, but this can't be changed.

general idea

A gentleman must be a talkative person. They talk about loyalty and love in parallel. After their comments, the difference between saints and others is obvious.