Girlfriend takes boudoir seriously. Something makes me uncomfortable. Am I narrow-minded?

I think if you are upset because he takes his best friend seriously, you are actually a little narrow-minded in this matter. Because friends and lovers can't be compared, maybe you want to be her most important person, but in fact, for her, she needs others besides you in this life. Or when you didn't show up, this best friend was with her all the time. Maybe she has existed longer than you, and two people have been together longer than you.

So after you come to her, you may hope that you can be her unique person, but you can't ask her to give up her feelings with her best friend for you, or you can't take her so seriously. Because before you appeared beside her, her relationship with her best friend was actually better. And you feel uncomfortable because you may have compared your position in her heart with that of her best friend, but in fact this comparison is wrong.

Because you and her best friend are different identities to her, people with different identities can't be compared, because you are her boyfriend to her, then her best friend is her friend to her. As her boyfriend, if someone makes you uncomfortable, it can only be your rival in love. In fact, no one will pose any threat to you except your rival in love.

Then her best friend has nothing to do with you. Actually, it's her friend and her world. You can't feel uncomfortable just because she takes her best friend seriously. On the other hand, she values this relationship very much, which means that she is a person who values feelings very much, so she will also bear the feelings between you, so it is likely to make you feel better if you think so.