Why is long-distance love so hard to be together?

Love needs both temperature and energy, which long-distance love can't give.

We all think that long-distance love has lost time and space. Indeed, long-distance love has problems in time and space, and the real feelings are lost to different places because of the alienation of distance and the sense of indifference brought by different places.

First, love needs temperature to grow gradually.

Love needs mutual warmth, and a warm feeling can't be brought by just a few words. We can only be separated from each other by radio waves or letters. Traveling through time and space can not only keep abreast of each other's recent situation, but also help each other when they need it.

Far apart. If the other person doesn't say anything, you don't know his mind. If you are too busy, you won't even have a word. What about the temperature?

No matter how warm the language is, it can't compare with the warmth of greeting in person.

Second, love needs energy to be integrated with each other.

Couples need energy transfer, share when they are happy, stay in a daze when they are sad, and even when they are bored. This is an energy flow, which makes people feel understood and liked.

If you can't give each other energy in time, the existence of love is unnecessary, just like a mirage, which looks beautiful, but it's actually just an illusion.

Two places apart, no amount of energy can give each other.

Third, love exists as a partner and needs interdependence.

Love exists to find a lifelong partner. A partner refers to a person who lives, works or travels together. Husband and wife are the most special kind of partners. They not only live and travel together, but also spend the rest of their lives together. If the two places are separated, "* * *" will become a myth, and partners will become rootless. How can it last?

You are tired, who will make soup for you? If the other person is ill, who will take care of him? After a long-distance relationship, you want to do a lot for each other, but there are very few things you can do for each other. After a long time, the so-called love will also be covered with dust and dust.

It is said that all shall be well, jack shall have Jill, but wherever he goes, he is still alone. This is the most embarrassing and unbearable pressure of long-distance love. Who will find a long-term partner? Even in the same city, lovers who don't meet each other after working overtime will have bad feelings after a long time, not to mention two people separated.

Therefore, long-distance love can succeed, and finally one party must give up long-distance love and go to the other's place; Therefore, in real life, if you don't want to face the dilemma of different places, it's best not to accept lovers from different places. It sounds romantic, but it's actually a flower in the mirror. It looks beautiful, but it feels nothing.

Why is it so difficult to get together? After talking for three or four years, I finally didn't fly separately because of different places.

After breaking up, I actually reflected for a long time and felt that there were several reasons.

The first one: what she wants is not the identity of a boyfriend, but someone to accompany her.

At that time, I would visit her, invite her to play, have dinner and go to the movies. Sometimes twice a month, she looked very happy, talking and laughing, but every time we were apart, she always looked at me reluctantly and explained something, but I couldn't help it. I have something to do here too, so I can't stay long. Although I can often make video calls, where can I be accompanied? Many feelings, just like this, lack communication and slowly move towards separation.

Second: because of the distance, there will be no shortage of admirers around her.

Because of the distance, if she doesn't want to tell you anything, there will always be an audience. After a long time, the girl's heart will follow. Even if she says she likes you and loves you, it's no use, because you can't give her what she wants, and there are people around who are willing to accompany her. I seldom believe in love at first sight, but I prefer to believe in love over time. So later I asked her why she broke up, and she said someone was there.

These are all my thoughts after breaking up. Actually, I know there are other reasons why she didn't tell me. Even if I ask her, she won't tell me. Then four years of love suddenly disappeared. Since then, I have forgotten the feelings of the rivers and lakes. Sometimes when I am sorting things out, I will be in a trance for a long time when I see those hundreds of train tickets. After all, it was my first love.

Running in the sunset is my lost youth.

Long-distance relationships are really hard to get together. But the long-distance love that comes together will be especially cherished!

The two sides of long-distance love are separated by a distance, and life is separated by a mobile phone screen. What I fear most is anger and betrayal, and trust between two people!

Let me talk about a few things I have seen in a long-distance relationship!

First, my two junior high school classmates walked all the way from junior high school to college, but they didn't walk to graduation. It's the first time a girl gives it to a boy. They haven't attended the same high school since they graduated from junior high school. My male classmate met another girl in the second year of high school, and has not yet developed into a couple. That is, when my male classmate quarreled with his female classmate, he often went to find the girl he later knew. Later, my female classmate found out and broke up several times. Then there was a holiday in the middle of college. My female classmate went to see him and gave him the first time, but they didn't get together in the end. What a pity! Now the female classmate hasn't found the object yet, thinking that he just can't be with him!

The second is that two people meet each other on a blind date, not very well, and they are both engaged and married. Later, the two worked in different places, not in the same city. They just don't trust each other. Boys send messages to girls, and girls don't reply in time, so she will think about it. Girls send messages to boys, but boys don't reply, and girls think they have been arguing so much. Finally, because boys can't bear the pressure in their hearts, they always fantasize that their partner will follow other men to scare something and break up on their own initiative!

Long-distance relationships are really painful. Two people can't see each other. Every time I see the young couple shopping hand in hand, I am especially envious of shopping, but I think the days we spent together are also wonderful! Couples in long-distance relationships are bound to quarrel, often trivial matters. If two people were together, it would never be so fierce. But chatting on the screen of mobile phone may be misunderstood as something else.

Couples in long-distance relationships are also particularly hard and stick together. In fact, there are often more suitable things in life, and only true love supports you to go on!

Boys and girls in long-distance love need to be concerned, at least when she is sick and helpless, you are not around, and you can't give her a hug between her boyfriend and girlfriend. Because long-distance love is far away, it is difficult for the woman's parents to accept the man, and the girl is under great pressure. Some of them will fall out with their families. Take good care of the long-distance relationship and don't hurt her. I hope every long-distance couple can finally come together, and every long-distance girl is loved!

The biggest feature of long-distance love is the separation between the two places. Many people think that the test of long-distance relationship is this distance. In fact, the test of long-distance love is not the distance between two people, but mutual trust. Trust is the basis for two people to get along, and it is also the most important basis for long-distance love. If there is no trust, it is all doubt and speculation, and such a relationship is difficult to go on.

You all need to have such confidence. Thank you for your trust in me, and please believe in my trust in you. Again, as long as you didn't tell me yourself, I would never believe it! ! !

The most precious memory, hearing a song and seeing a sunny day, will subconsciously think of that day, that moment, that minute, that second, and think of happiness. Love is nothing more than the throb of love at first sight, the love that lasts for a long time, and the ignorance of some lush years. In fact, every time I think about these loves and see them, I will be warmed up instantly. When life gives us a little stress and fatigue, I can say those touching love words to you, and I will feel instantly cured.

Long-distance love needs such determination. You must tell each other. Loving you is my decision without regrets, because I know I love you the most in my life. Because I decided to gamble on an uncertain future for you. In the future, I will build your happiness, make up for your confusion and accommodate your willfulness. Love you is mine.

In the meantime, you should tell her! Thank you for letting me meet you. I knew at first sight that this life was her. So you have to be firm and domineering and say that you don't want to go anywhere. In short, the years are long, dear you, it's worth waiting for ... I hope every long-distance relationship between us is like this. Gambling, domineering, romantic. Because after a long love run, we will have a lifetime of happiness.

Valentine's day is not about throwing dog food, but telling everyone what attitude to take towards long-distance love. thank you

Back to the question, why long-distance relationships are so difficult to be together:

1, Long-distance love is often inconvenient to communicate and accompany because of the long distance. If one party in love can't help being lonely at this time and there is a little temptation around him, it must be mentally or even physically derailed.

2. Human nature is gregarious and companionship. Why do we call the other half partners? Long-distance love is often absent because of many trivial problems and decisions in study, life and work. After a long time, this person naturally becomes a dispensable person. At this time, loving someone will become a multiple-choice question. In short, long-distance love, why is it difficult? Because it tests human nature and goes against it.

3. There are only two kinds of love, love at first sight or long-term love. It's incredible to say, why many times seemingly vigorous love at first sight will be lost to indifferent love over time? As the old saying goes, plain is true, and companionship is the longest confession. Long-distance love can be said to be basically supported by an idea and spirit. Love is a matter for two people. If one of them reaches the limit, then the relationship collapses.

4, lovers break up for two reasons, anger and betrayal, long-distance love because of the distance, indicating the need to make a phone call, or take a train or plane, at this time it is probably too late to misunderstand. Chatting through the screen of a mobile phone, messages that may have been sent in the past may be misinterpreted as other meanings.

5, love is sweet, very much in love, if this object is not around, and there are many other couples around, of course, you will envy, be in a bad mood, you will quarrel, so many times it will be a vicious circle, and sometimes I even wonder if the other person will be chased by others and will suffer. In short, long-distance relationships are super hard.

6. Long-distance love seems to be that two people are separated. In fact, the fundamental test is the trust of two people. Trust is the basis for two people to get along and the most important basis for long-distance love. If you really trust, you will naturally understand that long-distance love is not a problem at all through this most difficult time. The fundamental question is whether your love really trusts, understands and is full of confidence in the future. After all, no one talks about a long-distance relationship for life!

Long-distance love is really hard to get together, but it doesn't mean there is no hope. Once long-distance love comes together, it is definitely the most sincere love in the world. Therefore, if there is no true love, don't choose long-distance love, because it is too difficult to support! If it is true love, long-distance love is not a problem!

Distance, trust, communication, economic pressure

Let's talk about distance first

It is said that distance produces beauty, but it is temporary and takes a long time.

Both parties in love will feel tired and disappointed.

For example, when one of them is sick, both men and women always want their lover around when they are sick. Even if they don't talk or hug, their hearts are sweet.

But long-distance love, because of the distance, the other party can't appear when you need it most. You may feel helpless once or twice, but you will feel lost if you have more. . . Especially at this time, it is even more unpleasant to have friends around to show their love.

In addition, trust

Trust is very important not only in long-distance love, but also in long-distance love.

For example, you have been chatting through chat software every day.

Suddenly one day, one party stopped contacting you.

You will be flustered, worried, suspicious, and all kinds of emotions will come up at this time.

It would be nice if the other party had a reasonable explanation afterwards. If you don't have that explanation, your direct questions will accumulate in the future.

Then say communication.

Two people are not in the same place, and communication mainly depends on mobile phones and computers.

There are many times when you can't see this person, and it's hard to know his (her) expression, especially when chatting in words, you don't know his tone, and sometimes you get upset when you are busy with work and don't want to communicate.

There will be a backlog of problems again

Finally, economic pressure, because in different places, it is estimated that boys and girls are particularly concerned about giving gifts to each other. On special holidays, the two sides should meet, and transportation and accommodation are expenses. Every time they meet, they should consider their wallets.

Will also face economic pressure.

But there are still many long-distance relationships, even long-distance relationships, which have turned into positive results.

Therefore, although long-distance love is bitter, since you have chosen it, you must be brave.

Be strong inside and try your best to go to a city in a city.