I get angry every time I look at my children. What should I do if I have a bad temper in tutoring homework?

In recent years, there has been a heated discussion about how parents help their children with their homework. Parents help their children with their homework, and they are half angry. Good-tempered parents are also tempered by their children, and some parents beat and scold their children angrily. Obviously, beating and scolding children can't solve the problem. So, what should parents do in the face of this problem?

What should I do if I have a bad temper in tutoring?

Control your emotions. To change this situation, parents should start with their own emotions. Parents' anxiety and irritability will directly affect their children's mood. In this atmosphere, how can children continue to do their homework? Beating and cursing will only bring children's rebellion and introversion. Such children are not what we want, and we can only start with our own emotions. Controlling one's emotions is the first step to open a harmonious parent-child relationship.

Help children analyze the reasons. Seeing children make mistakes in their homework, we should help them analyze the causes of the mistakes and see how they are wrong. Is it because the class is not attentive, or because the child can't judge the problem. Find out the cause of the child and give timely guidance to avoid making the same mistake again.

Learn to encourage children. An encouragement is often much better than losing your temper. Parents should not be stingy with their encouragement. Children will get better and better with repeated encouragement, because children also want to hear their parents' encouragement all the time, instead of seeing their grumpy parents every day. Beating and scolding children will not have any positive effect on children, but will only make children farther and farther away from their parents, and parents will hate iron and steel more and more. Try to encourage, and parents will find changes in their children.

Lead by example and set a good example for children. Children follow the trend, and parents' words and deeds, including expressions, will have a subtle influence on children. When children communicate with others in the future, such as peers or brothers and sisters, they will unconsciously imitate the bad example of their parents when there is a dispute. A happy family atmosphere is conducive to cultivating children's cheerful personality, and affirmation from parents and relatives is conducive to cultivating children's self-confidence.

Parents should listen to their children's voices and help them out of trouble. Good education is not scolding and beating, nor forcing children, but equal communication. Parents should respect their children's choices, guide them to overcome obstacles in their growth and make them truly independent and complete.

In the process of accompanying children to write homework, parents can calmly restrain their grumpy emotions when facing their children's wrong questions, and regard their children's wrong questions as a normal learning state in their own learning process. Children can be allowed to make mistakes and correct mistakes, so that children can grow up step by step in making mistakes and correcting mistakes.