I've been in love several times, and all I met was love rat. How can I avoid love rat in my future love?

If you want to avoid love rat, you should first know what love rat looks like and get to know them. Only if you have the ability to distinguish can you avoid them.

Many boys don't want to take you out to play, never take you to parties with friends, and don't want others to know your existence. He goes out to a party, and you want to meet his friends, but he always has countless reasons to refuse you. Let alone take you to meet his family. There are only a few reasons for them to shirk: they are busy with work, have no time, don't know each other, and are afraid of being embarrassed. There will never be a "next time".

He's giving himself a back seat, which means he doesn't want to be with you at all, let alone in the future. They just want to play with you now. Of course, they don't want their families to know. Only girls who really want to get married can take it home. Besides, when you are in love, you want to have an affair with other girls, so how can there be your picture in your circle of friends?

Some boys are very emotional and irrational no matter what they do. Most of these boys are self-centered and don't know how to understand others and take care of their feelings. Many things are often thought and done without considering the feelings of others. In love, he is often like a child, very willful, and needs his girlfriend to take care of him and understand him. If he is unhappy, he may break up. It's tiring to fall in love with such a boy. You may be too busy to coax him.