How to deal with the relationship with ex-husband after divorce?

Divorce and breakup are always different. Breaking up is breaking up, it doesn't involve anything, it won't let the other party lose anything, and we will forget each other over time. But divorce is different. People who have lived under the same roof with you, people who have slept with you, how can you say that you are not in touch with each other? If you two have children, even if the marriage is dissolved, you will still be linked by the children. Unless one of them is really "heartless" or does something that touches the bottom line, he doesn't even care about his children. So how should you handle the relationship with your ex-husband after divorce?

1. Don't disturb each other.

Respect each other's lives. Since you have chosen divorce, you don't need to have any contact with each other. At this time, you must keep your distance. At this time, you will definitely face new feelings. If you find that the other party has remarried, don't disturb the other party at this time. Keep your distance. If you keep in touch with your ex-husband, this period of time is not conducive to starting a new life, so you must be open-minded and forget the past. After the divorce, the two are already different individuals. At this time, you must keep your distance, don't meet if you have nothing to do, and avoid unnecessary misunderstandings. When you divorce, you need to handle everything well, avoid meeting after marriage and add trouble to yourself.

If both parties are married, they should avoid being alone.

After divorce, many couples will choose to get married, but they have to meet because of their children. If both parties are married, it means that their relationship can't be repaired. It is very important to deal with each other's relationship. Because of the children, we should meet more often. If you are alone, it will inevitably make the existing husband or wife feel uncomfortable and affect each other's feelings. Since we are divorced, it is best to meet each other's partners, and to be with children to reduce family disputes is conducive to the harmony of existing families.

Since you are divorced, don't interfere in each other's family.

After the divorce, although the two sides still need to meet often because of their children, it should be clear that if they get married, their fate will be exhausted. It's just that it's hard for us to get involved in each other's emotions because our children meet often. Everyone has his own best choice. Ex-husbands and ex-wives try not to interfere in each other's family affairs, because your relationship is very delicate, not just a friend relationship, but an ex-husband relationship. Interfering with the other party's existing family will make the spouse of the existing family uncomfortable, cause more disputes and destroy the other party's existing harmonious family.