Who is in charge of Jia Baoyu's marriage?

Jia Baoyu, the hero of A Dream of Red Mansions, is the grandson of Jia Fuyu. He was born with the title of psychic Baoyu, and his appearance is similar to that of his grandfather in the former motherland. Therefore, he was especially loved by Jia's parents and ancestor Shi Taijun from birth.

In addition, Jia Baoyu is also the only son of Jia Zheng, who is the only official of the Jia family (after Jia Zhu's death), so it is no exaggeration to say that he is a "thousand hectares of seedlings"! The government pinned its hopes for family rejuvenation on Baoyu, but it was really afraid of falling into the palm of its hand and melting it into its mouth.

With the growth of Baoyu, his marriage problem was gradually put on the agenda. According to the situation at that time, there are at least two options. One is the "golden wedding" between Xue Baochai and Jia Baoyu, that is, Xue Baochai wears a golden lock engraved with "Never leave, never leave" and Jia Baoyu wears a psychic Baoyu embedded with "Never forget, never forget, live a long life", which seems to be a natural couple.

Especially after Baochai's mother, Aunt Xue, entered the Jia family, she announced with great fanfare that this golden lock was given by a monk, saying that only those who have jade can match it in the future! We must keep this fate in our last life.

Another option is the so-called "wood-stone marriage" between Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu. According to legend, Lin Daiyu was a crimson pearl fairy grass (flowers and plants were woody) beside the Sansheng stone on the Xiling River in the past, and Jia Baoyu was the last piece of 3650 1 stone left at the foot of Geng Qingfeng in "The Goddess of Heaven". This stone was forged by spirituality and turned into a human form, so it was named as the waiter of Chixia Palace by the police in the dreamland, so it was stony.

Waiters in Shen Ying "irrigate with manna every day". After their reincarnation, the waiter in Shen Ying can only "give him back all my tears, give him back", which is also the innate fate of Sister Lin Cry and Lacrimosa in the future.

Throughout the Jia family, there are only three and a half people who can be called Jia Baoyu's marriage, that is, Jia Mu, Jia Zheng, Mrs. Wang and Wang Xifeng.

For Jia Baoyu's marriage, Mrs. Wang's idea is well known: let her son Jia Baoyu marry Xue Baochai, the daughter of her own sister Aunt Xue. The question is, can Mrs. Wang's personal thoughts count? In a big family like Jia, this is a very complicated problem, and it can't be simply said that it counts!

First, let's see why Mrs. Wang likes Xue Baochai as a daughter-in-law. Xue Baochai is the queen of Gong Xue and the imperial merchant Wei Zi. He owns millions of property and is extremely rich. He is a nominal businessman of the Ministry of Housing and leads the money and grain. There is nothing to say about this family background.

Xue Baochai was an educated student since childhood, with profound knowledge and good cultural influence. She follows a set of principles that people call it hiding fools, but in fact it is self-discipline. While possessing noble, elegant, delicate, loyal and other qualities, she is low-key and modest, tolerant and generous, gentle and dignified, generous and decent, which can be described as a kind of worldly wisdom and won the universal love and praise of Jia family from slave to master.

What Mrs. Wang appreciates most is that she respects the social morality prevailing in feudal society at that time, and often advises Baoyu to study hard, make progress, read less casual books, become famous as soon as possible, repay his kindness and comfort his parents.

In Jiafu, Mrs. Wang entered the palace early because of the early death of her eldest son. After going to the "shady", his relationship with her husband Jia Zheng gradually weakened. The book describes several times that Jia Zheng and Mrs. Wang finished talking and went to find Aunt Zhao to have a rest at night. Mrs. Wang's temperament is also changing day by day. Baoyu's fame and career can be said to be all her sustenance and hope except chanting scriptures and worshipping Buddha, and Baoyu is her lifeblood.

So when Jia Zheng hit Baoyu, Mrs. Wang cried, "You are alive, I don't care if a hundred (Baoyu) die." Although this is an angry remark, it also reflects that Baoyu is all her concern now and the only backer in the future. Naturally, Xue Baochai, who wholeheartedly advised Baoyu to take the traditional road of official career and economy, didn't fully agree with Mrs. Wang's mind?

All these, together with Xue Baochai's better physical condition than Lin Daiyu, make her natural fertility potential more reliable and vigorous. In the eyes of the ancients who paid great attention to the inheritance of their children, her conditions were much superior; Not to mention that Xue Baochai is Mrs. Wang's aunt and niece. Being a daughter-in-law for yourself is definitely a "single-minded" member of the family. What a wonderful thing!

As Jia Baoyu's mother, Mrs. Wang pays attention to her children's marriage. "Parents' orders and matchmakers' words" show that the mother's right to speak is still very great. Where is Father Jia Zheng? According to the ancient tradition, Jia Zheng works hard outside and is chic at home, and doesn't like the world. Basically, she only grasps macro principles, such as family background, talented personality and so on. On the operational level, Mrs. Wang Can is independent.

This is an example. Mrs. Wang once said to Jia Zheng: Pick a girl first and put it in Baoyu's room (that is, take a concubine). Jia Zheng replied: always put schoolwork first, let it go first, don't worry, and discuss it later. However, Mrs. Wang quietly ceded Hua Xiren to Jia Baoyu as a "big girl" after notifying Jia, so that Jia Baoyu, who was arrogant, had a "first-try sex" or even a "first-try sex" object, so as not to cause a messy and romantic-destroying case.

Until Aunt Zhao told Jia Zheng, "Baoyu has been a concubine for two years, and your master doesn't know?" Jia Zheng listened and asked, "Who gave it?" In other words, Mrs. Wang promoted xiren as Baoyu's concubine in a low-key manner.

Mrs. Wang only gives xiren two taels of silver every month. Only a limited number of people, such as Jia Mu, knew about this move, but they didn't make a big splash, and even didn't tell Baoyu themselves! In this way, even without Jia Zheng's consent, it basically conforms to his principles, does not affect Baoyu's "schoolwork" and solves Baoyu's "urgent need". Jia Zheng's attitude is that there is neither demand nor opposition.

Also, considering that Rong is actually the husband and wife of Fannie and Freddie Jia Zheng (Wang Xifeng is the CEO before the stage), and Jia She, the big family who inherited Jia Fu's career, is actually sidelined, this is always a bit "unreasonable"! Fortunately, Jia She's sons and daughters-in-law, Jia Lian and Wang Xifeng, shouted after their predecessors, and the specific deacons also maintained the general balance of family power distribution.

Although Wang Xifeng is Jia She's daughter-in-law, she is also Mrs. Wang's niece. After all, she and Mrs. Wang have the same historical experience. Jia Zheng is undoubtedly in favor of marrying Mrs. Wang's aunt and niece Xue Baochai as a daughter-in-law, so that she can be a housewife in the future.

The problem is that Jia Mu, the ancestor of the supreme authority of this big family, is the one who loves Lin Daiyu and Jia Baoyu the most. At the same time, she also knows that they are congenial and there is no speculation. From the bottom of my heart, Mrs. Shi wants to fix Baochai's wooden marriage, not Baoyu's golden marriage with Baochai.

Once, in front of Baochai and others, Xifeng played such a "joke" with Daiyu. "Since you have eaten our tea, why don't you be our wife?" "You made a daughter-in-law for our family. What is missing? " "You see, people, family, foundation, furniture? Who else is insulting? " .

Who is Wang Xifeng? She is extremely clever and delicate, but she is actually a worm in her grandmother's stomach. She is good at reading grandma's mind and is familiar with manners. Wang Xifeng dared to expose the relationship between Baochai and Daiyu in public (especially in the presence of Baochai), which must have been inspired by the old lady. As a matter of fact, my grandmother tactfully denied the "golden marriage" preached by Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue through the mouth of Xifeng.

Moreover, the Lady Dowager also used Zhang Daoshi to set the tone for Baoyu's marriage proposal: "Last time, a monk said that this child should not get married early in his life until he was old. You can ask now, no matter how rich he is, as long as his looks match, you can tell me. That family is poor, just give him a few taels of silver. It's just hard to look good. "

Ancestors this recruit is also a hidden needle, just like Jia Yingchun's marriage, it is inconvenient for her to replace her parents, and it is not good to directly deny Mrs. Wang's claim to Baoyu's marriage. However, the mystery in Jia Mu's words is a delaying tactic.

Baochai is 2-3 years older than Baoyu, and Daiyu is 1-2 years younger than Baoyu. Since Xue Baochai failed the list, she has been staying in Jiafu and pointed out that she is the "second grandmother" of Master Bao! Jia's strategy is procrastination. Baochai, who should have been married, will become an old maid if she delays 1-2 years. If she doesn't get married, she can't do it. I don't think it will delay you!

Interestingly, on the one hand, the "golden wedding" has caused a lot of trouble in the city, on the other hand, it has to "inquire" for "no candidate"; On the one hand, the "monk" said that "you can only get married if you have jade in the future", on the other hand, some "monks" said that you should not get married early in life.

Back to the fiftieth session, in front of Baochai, Baoyu and Daiyu, Grandmother Jia openly proposed marriage to Xue Baoqin. On the one hand, it is a hundred-year-old marriage, on the other hand, it is openly proposing to Miss Xue, who has made a promise. Jia's seemingly confused behavior is actually a clear hint to Aunt Xue that I didn't think about Baochai, so don't waste your time!

Lin Daiyu, who has always been sensitive, suspicious and fond of searching, did not express any dissatisfaction at the scene. On the contrary, Xue Baochai was a little half-truths jealous and said, "... I don't believe I'm not as good as you (Xue Baoqin)? ”。 It can be seen that Jia's move is mostly for the sake of good fortune!

In addition, in the fifty-seventh chapter of the novel, Aunt Xue, the "spokesperson" of Mrs. Wang, also had a brief, charade-like "fire fighting from a distance" for Jade's marriage. At that time, Daiyu's maid, Zi Juan, deliberately frightened him, saying that Miss Lin would soon return to her hometown in Suzhou, in order to test Baoyu. Baoyu, who was worried about Sister Lin, suddenly fell into a slump. If he was struck by lightning, he suffered from phlegm fan and became a silly Woodenhead.

When the grandmother learned from Zijuan that this was only caused by her "joking", the grandfather realized that Baodai's love had developed to the point where it could not be avoided. Grandmother Jia comforted Baoyu with tears, saying, "I should have something important. It turned out to be such a stubborn sentence. " And reprimanded Zijuan: "You know he has a foolish root. Why did you coax him for no reason? "

Jia's appeasement attitude clearly recognized Bao Dai's relationship with her husband, which was not bad. At this time, according to everyone's rules, it is not appropriate for the younger generation to interrupt. Besides, Aunt Xue is a guest, so she has to quickly take over the conversation (for her sister, Mrs. Wang, and for her own daughter): "Baoyu was sincere, but Miss Lin has come since she was a child. His two sisters have grown up so much that they are different from the other sisters. At this moment, Tottenham said that he is a sincere stupid boy, and even an adult with a heart of stone will be sad! "

Aunt Xue's remarks are intended to bring Baodai's urgent marriage problem back to the ordinary level of brother and sister affection. Grandmother Jia refused to accept Aunt Xue's words and comforted Baoyu, who was crazy about Daiyu. "You can rest assured." At this time, nothing can reassure Baoyu more than the authoritative and formal confirmation of "wood-stone marriage" Compared with Aunt Xue's ambiguous "set things right", Jia's words are obviously "declared".

However, Mrs. Wang not only occupied the commanding height of feudal morality of "parents' orders", but also used her daughter, Queen Yuan, as an imperial sword and adopted the method of combining monarch and minister to carry out her own strategy. In the 28th time, Jia Fei expressed "the will of the Empress Dowager" with the "specifications" of "reward": Baoyu and Baochai were the first class, while Daiyu, Yingchun, Tanchun and Xichun were the first class.

It is obviously difficult for Jia Fei, who lives in the palace, to come to the conclusion that Baochai is more suitable for her younger brother as a daughter-in-law than Daiyu after a short return to the province (you should know that the sisters who were given gifts on the night of returning to the province are the same as Baoyu). There is no doubt that this is Mrs. Wang's original intention, that is, Mrs. Wang did the work of the queen to promote the "golden marriage."

As a result, Mrs. Wang and Mrs. Jia, who have considerable decision-making power on Jia Baoyu's marriage, have been insinuating and deadlocked. Of course, with the death of Yuan Fei, Jia Fu was copied, Jia Zheng was diverted, Baoyu went crazy, and Jia Jia went from bad to worse. Maybe the old lady is getting at a loss. Perhaps Gao E's continuation of the book has deviated from Cao Weng's original intention, and Wang Xifeng finally used an "alternative plan" after her grandmother agreed, which made the marriage between gold and jade fall to the ground.

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