Why can't parents abuse or even shoot in front of their children?

Many parents will quarrel or even fight in front of their children. Children who grow up in such an environment for a long time will become extremely inferior and timid. On the contrary, some children will become anxious, irritable and even violent. Parents are the best teachers for their children, and their words and deeds are also influencing their children.

If parents don't consider their children's feelings, make a hullabaloo about in front of their children, abuse each other, and even hurt people, they will be reconciled after a while, but this will leave a very big psychological shadow on their children. Home is a warm, safe and comfortable place, but when parents quarrel, home becomes a place that scares children. The picture of parents quarreling will always be printed in children's minds, and parents quarreling will also become ugly and ferocious bad people in children's hearts. According to some surveys, 30% of children will have psychological problems when their parents have domestic violence or divorce. Therefore, parents quarreling in front of their children will have a greater impact on children than divorce, and even affect their fear of marriage in the future.

Children have always regarded their father as an omnipotent superman and their mother as the closest person. However, when two people quarrel together, there is only fear and escape in their hearts, which makes them feel insecure and insecure. Children's educators once said that children's eyes are video recorders and their ears are tape recorders.

However, we have to admit that every family will have conflicts and every couple will quarrel. Sometimes quarreling is also a way for couples to express their inner feelings and to explore the position in each other's hearts. Husband and wife should also grasp the rules to reduce the psychological harm to children. Parents should try to avoid children and communicate slowly when quarreling. Nothing can't be solved by communication. Try not to have a cold war. The cold war will only cause greater psychological harm to children. Only when children grow up in a loving family will their hearts be full of hope and yearning, and they will become confident and strong.