Looking at my marriage from Wei Zi's astrolabe, when can I find a husband?

In love, you are a tolerant, accommodating and active person. Therefore, when you get along with the opposite sex, you should say yes more, nod more, try to cooperate with each other's ideas, take the initiative to try, make persistent efforts, and occasionally tell jokes to create a pleasant atmosphere, so as to effectively spread your charm.

From the picture, the key house is "four", which is the house of congenital couples. As far as personality is concerned, it will be clever. Zuo Fu, You Bi, Tiankui and other lucky stars will shine together, which means that the attitude of tolerance and respect will be strengthened, and evil stars such as air and land robbery will enter the house again and be caught by alpacas.

These stars and patterns are all showing your innate love advantage:

1

It has emotional connotation, pays attention to feelings, and is easy to fall in love at first sight, but it soon disappears, but it is a pity, so it is easy to change feelings. If the two sides have to be together for a long time because of work, don't be too exclusive, because this can keep each other fresh and make their feelings more happy.

2

Emotional attitude contains a kind element, which is quite sympathetic and can't bear to see the other side sad. If the other person looks delicate and touching, he can often accept it with emotion, but it is also easy to make himself feel annoyed by making the wrong choice emotionally.

three

There is a large space for self-adjustment, and I can adapt to reality, correct my feelings and attitudes, think from multiple angles, and increase the harmony of interaction. You can give each other more space and increase the buffer of getting along. The conditions for choosing a spouse are relatively broad, which can increase one's contact range and objects and increase the chances of choosing.

four

Emotionally enthusiastic, handsome and slightly elegant in personality. I can take the initiative to please people, show myself in front of the opposite sex without losing my temper, increase my enthusiasm, accept twists and turns more easily, and learn to keep trying, which adds more freshness to my emotional life.

As for the shortcomings, you are more likely to ignore love, impulsive, and more likely to ignore each other's feelings, neglect the management of love, and sometimes even avoid problems, it is more difficult to resist emotional impulses, and communication will be more acute and direct.

It must be noted that because you are easy to highlight shortcomings, that is, your love fortune has strong bad luck. This is not doomed marriage failure, but your attitude towards love is unstable and you are not good at dealing with gender issues. Love is prone to unexpected changes, which will increase troubles and bring considerable resistance. So, in the face of love, you should not be optimistic. You should lower your expectations or standards and learn how to get along, not just love and not love, so as to have a chance to create a stable love.

The following detailed analysis of your shortcomings, as your usual attention and adjustment reference:

1

Looking at different emotional characteristics of things is easy to produce short-term love. Because I can't keep a long-term interest in a fixed relationship, I will eventually turn back after the affair. But you should still keep your distance from other members of the opposite sex and avoid emotional regrets.

2

Emotionally, sometimes there will be unwilling loneliness. For example, although they don't necessarily like each other, sometimes they will ask each other out for a date and have dinner together when they are bored. Although it is difficult to ignite feelings, it will still be better than nothing.

three

Because your attachment to your children, your younger generation and your peers is the part you should pay more attention to.

four

Pay little attention to love, even ignore it, and have a weak sense of responsibility. I often change my love life because of neglect of management. With low investment, it is easy to feel sorry for emotional injury, and sometimes even have more extreme ideas. The influence of relatives and friends around you is also obvious. When you meet the right person, you often lack courage and miss the opportunity. Sometimes, even if you feel that the other person is not suitable, you can't bear to flatly refuse, making things drag on and on, making it difficult to solve.

five

Rational thinking in communication is often impacted by emotions and cannot be effectively restrained. Although there was a heart of peaceful communication, it eventually turned into a quarrel. When encountering twists and turns, the rhythm of handling is more intuitive, which complicates things and increases emotional changes.

On the whole, your life's love fortune is not good. It is not easy for you to seize the opportunity of love, and love is weak. The development of your feelings is often different from your expectations, so your view of love is not optimistic!

The worst time is from 2003 to 20 12. Love is unpredictable, one's mastery is not good, frustration is greatly increased, and charm disappears, which are not the right time to start a relationship.

Suitable object

The object that suits you should be gentle and clever, a little bookish and charming. When I am with you, I can imagine for you and try to match your thoughts. I am not very persistent. His personality should be eager, positive, energetic, enthusiastic and cheerful, often doing and changing, relatively independent, and does not like waiting.

He should have special intuition, be good at observing words and feelings, quickly capture the information and changes around him, bring humor and laughter, have good adaptability, have a flexible mind, like learning and be resourceful, so he has many novel ideas.

The teacher suggested

The correct attitude towards love is respect, and then respect. We should consider each other's thoughts and feelings more, and we must review ourselves before accusing each other to reduce the negative impact of our shortcomings. I don't seem to be able to calm down emotionally. The chances of making mistakes or making bad friends are greatly increased, and the degree of emotional changes is intensified. Therefore, managing love should be based on prudence, carefully choosing the object, focusing on several goals, concentrating on strength, not impulsive promiscuity, giving yourself more observation time, reducing the influence and reducing the chance of sadness. Dealing with love is not a temporary argument and clarification. We should strive for more buffer and review, exchange time for space, and effectively resolve conflicts or misunderstandings when both sides are relatively calm. Sometimes parting is better than getting married, and both sides don't have to be bored with each other all the time. Separate care can avoid the appearance of shortcomings, reduce the boredom of love and increase missing. Late marriage is also an option that can be considered, which can make you more mature and stable in managing your love life.

In practice, we should adopt the practice of "strengthening responsibility and learning to be considerate". Efforts should be made to reduce their shortcomings of being easily distracted, hesitant and neglecting their feelings. We can help them make up their minds and strengthen their will with the help of external forces, and at least maintain a high ability to implement key issues to enhance their sense of responsibility. Don't be too direct and sharp in communication, which makes people feel wronged. We should learn how to be considerate of each other to reduce or alleviate our emotional impulses, and learn from experience to make our feelings more mature.