How to chat with senior green tea

This is more macroscopic and abstract.

I have heard many people say that I have a lot to say with familiar people, but I don't know what to say with strangers, especially the opposite sex; Talking to some people is always superficial and serious, and talking to some people can go deep.

We can recall, when chatting with girlfriends, friends and girlfriends, what kind of topics are we talking about? If you can have such a close relationship, you must talk to them about everything. If you apply what you have learned from work and study to love, you will talk about work, workplace and planning. You are colleagues, not lovers. ...

Occasionally, I can have a deep chat with some people, mostly because they are guiding your topic.

So if even if you are doing topic expansion, these topics are still professional content, basic information or work household registration, you can't spark, and the content of your chat determines your relationship.

Skip the basic information and your major, jump out of these familiar areas and leave your comfort zone. If you are on WeChat, you'd better say less serious content (you can save it for meeting) so that you can chat and relax. Handy children's shoes can be pulled up completely and go straight to the subject, with the highest efficiency and the best effect. This little song is also a master, so I will write it later. )

2. formally

Here, back to the micro level, the technology flow has started again.

In fact, the core logic should be developed in various ways, and the more unexpected, the better. Try to think of several replies before each reply, and then choose the best one.

Don't rely on expression! Less expression, more brains to expand the text, make yourself interesting, not teasing!

Let's make a copy of my previous chat records.

Asked what the boy was doing, the boy provided a noun: noodles. At that time, I habitually began to evaluate: so simple. Although it is harmless, it should be done better.

So if you see the "face" now, how should you expand it?

Direction 1: expand the topic according to the scope of things.

The simplest is the types of noodles (instant noodles, Yangchun noodles, Lamian Noodles, clear soup noodles, egg noodles, beef noodles, etc.). ), can be used with food (pickles, broccoli, hot sauce, etc. ), there is nothing to eat (fried rice with eggs, jiaozi, steamed bread, bread, etc. ), as well as the stalks related to noodles in film and television dramas/lyrics.

According to these instructions, I just thought of a few new replies:

"Instant noodles? Remember to add an egg, which is more nutritious (insidious). "

"steamed buns can't attend the dinner, which means they are not satisfied ~"

"Who are you going to feed (cover your face)" (With that famous TVB stalk, I am covered with pollution.

Direction 2: according to the development direction of things.

The idea is: what to do before cooking, what to do when eating noodles, and what to do after eating.

"Do 50 push-ups to warm up first ~"

Watching XXX while eating noodles (it can be a recent hit drama)

"After eating, you can walk your dog in XX ~"

However, at that time, I didn't expand anything, only replied "so simple". Fortunately, boys take advantage of gender and continue to take responsibility for the topic, expanding the "Double Twelve Waves", from which I expanded a "hand" and he expanded an "arm". I gave up my cooking skills, and the boy praised him for his good cooking and threw out a "husband".

"Husband" is a good word. There are many things that can be done here, which can be refined (how to be happy), expanded (what skills will I have to make my future husband happy), connected in relationships (if I have a good impression on each other) and so on.

However, I didn't pick up this conversation, only evaluated the craftsmanship, and finally lost a "pot".

The boys worked hard and made contact. "You can teach me when you have a chance", and put the matter of making soup on "you" and "me".

"good apprentice", "master's gift" and role-playing, which was probably the only reply I could have at that time ... so the boys took the time to start flirting.

Those behind the scenes don't even know where they are going now. ...

Now, when I see these "meat", "soup" and "black shop", at least several groups of words will pop up in my mind: Tang Priest, Master and Apprentice, Sun Erniang, Human Steamed Bun and Song Wu, etc. But there was nothing to expand at that time, and finally I couldn't go on, so I changed the subject directly. ...

* Role substitution, film and television drama lines, lyrics and small game rewards and punishments are all very useful methods.

It is quite interesting to do this kind of resumption when you have nothing to do, and you can clearly see your growth trajectory. When I first closed my brain hole, I always felt very difficult. After repeated practice, the thinking will be clearer. In the case that most girls are "lazy" and "working", if you can spend some time to expand, you can basically talk to everyone until you can't stop.