Can you accept marriage when you are married?

I can't accept it. Getting married is a joyous event. It should be time for everyone to get together and share the happiness of the new couple and send them blessings, not the time to toss the bride and groom.

Marriage is a traditional wedding custom in China, including "disturbing the bridesmaid", "disturbing the bride" and "disturbing the bridal chamber". Legend has it that the purple star came to earth to protect the newlyweds and instruct the guests to drive away the demons in the new house in a playful way. However, with the development of the times, the current wedding scene is more and more like smashing a venue, bullying the groom and bullying the bride, with the aim of humiliating the newlyweds.

Now I watch the news, because the contradictions arising from marriage abound, because this marriage makes both husband and wife unhappy, both the host and the guest unhappy, and an occasion that should be happy and relaxed makes everyone unhappy. Why? Wedding is the beginning of marriage, it should be beautiful, not an occasion for guests to mess around.

In the past, ancient people quarreled because they were blind and dumb in ancient times, and the husband and wife were unfamiliar, so it might be difficult to get close, and people around them needed help to break the deadlock. But now that the times have progressed, we can all fall in love freely. There is no need to let this custom break the deadlock, so I think marriage is meaningless.

Therefore, when I get married, I will never accept marriage. Weddings are happy moments. There may be only one wedding in a person's life, and this wedding will become a permanent memory. I will hope that the memories in the future will be happy, joyful and full of blessings, rather than painful memories troubled by marriage.