What divorce is Wendi Deng doing now?

The divorce between Murdoch and Wendi Deng was undoubtedly the most concerned celebrity marriage case last year. Hu Ziwei commented on Deng Wendi's article from a novel angle, drawing lessons from the most popular sentence on the Internet: People over 40 must be responsible for their own faces. Because phase is born of heart. Because his appearance is the appearance of his soul.

However, many media have taken it out of context in the process of reprinting, such as "Hu Ziwei: Why Deng Wendi is becoming more and more ferocious", which really makes people speechless ... It happened that a good friend shared this article on WeChat, and I turned it out for you to enjoy.

Look, she's threatening me ...

Text/Hu Ziwei

A few days ago, the British "Guardian" awarded the annual divorce case to Murdoch and Wendi Deng when taking stock of the memorable people and events in 20 13.

Oh, of course.

Not just the past 20 13. No matter from which angle, among women in the new millennium, Wendi Deng is an uncovered sample and a difficult existence.

Once upon a time, there was a powerful kingdom. There lived an old king and his four blond children in the kingdom. Later, a dark-haired witch broke into the kingdom, and she roared in a dark cloud. The witch had ulterior motives, practiced evil witchcraft and killed the old king. The king threw the kind queen into the cold palace and ignored his children. The old king controlled by witches became weaker and weaker, the original harmonious and quiet order within the royal family was broken, and the rich kingdom was in jeopardy.

This is the blueprint of many fairy tales. The magic of fairy tales is that the scripts of real stories are often performed according to this. Although I don't want to be in it, I still play the Millennium old man in others' mouths like a marionette. Unless ... unless you have the ability to reconstruct the tone of the story. As a result, this ancient fairy tale, under the personal manipulation of the heroine, has lengthened the starting point of the story again and ironed out an inspirational version belonging to 2KY. so

A beautiful girl, Ran Ran, rose in the southern town of this ancient eastern country. She is a good student, a good daughter and the main force of the school volleyball team. She is filled with the charming atmosphere of youth and book fragrance, sunny and sensible, which makes people irresistible. Thanks to fate, I got a green card on the other side of the ocean at the right time, won a prestigious school on the other side of the ocean at the right age, won the favor of celebrities on the other side of the ocean with a proper glass of red wine and an ambitious plan, and succeeded in ranking among the falcons in the British Empire. ...

The heroines of these two fairy tales are both called Wendi Deng-the masters of these two contradictory images.

After removing this double deduction, the fact is this.

/kloc-0.4 years ago, Murdoch suddenly divorced his second wife./kloc-0.7 days later, the news of a flash marriage with a China woman 38 years younger than him shocked the world. From mainstream media to fashion tabloids, this tall and bright oriental woman named Deng Wendi was instantly illuminated by transparency and details. Under the eyes of the whole world, she came with great ambition, holding the arm of the most vocal old man on the planet.

The jaw-dropping news never left the well-matched couple: soon after, Murdoch, who was infertile due to prostate disease, once again showed his amazing vision in reproduction. By cheating his ex-wife's frozen sperm, he helped Deng Wendi become the mother of two mixed-race descendants in this family. After that, the Queen became the chief strategist of MYSPACE, a new media division of News Corp., and began to intervene in the Mohs family business ambitiously. Later, it was reported that Deng Wendi did not get the shares of News Corporation as she wished. Her two underage daughters for Murdoch are only beneficiaries of a non-voting fund worth $8.7 million. Murdoch's decision almost immediately put their marriage in trouble; Later, it is said that the two appeared at a charity dinner of a luxury cruise ship. The two couples are expressionless and have no interaction from beginning to end. This scene appeared seven years ago; Half a year ago, Murdoch suddenly filed a divorce lawsuit, which made Deng Wendi feel unexpectedly shocked and ended in a quick decision of 10 minutes at the end of the year. The BBC said, "The atmosphere was harmonious. Murdoch, 82, and Wendi Deng, 44, shook hands and simply hugged in court." At the same time, what remains in people's field of vision is Murdoch's smile after he completely went to Deng in the news empire, and his impressive face when he left because of the overcast clouds.

What happened during this period is unknown to outsiders. All we know is that 14 years have passed, and Deng Wendi's bright and clean face has been replaced with a new one. This new face says win or lose, and you will sulk after winning or losing.

I think she should have inhuman difficulties in these years.

Everyone is talking about Wendi Deng, and most of them are about winning or losing. From slapping an opponent to save her husband in court two years ago, she was praised as "the best husband care product of the year", and now she has been cleaned up and become the heroine of the most high-profile divorce case of the year. Wendi Deng's image in the eyes of the public and her husband has been turned upside down. But whether she slaps her opponent or is cleaned up, it is good for Murdoch. As can be seen from the market performance, two events led to the news corporation's share price stopping falling and rebounding twice. Murdoch is by no means a loser in this wars of the roses from Moody's.

There are many ambiguities about the gains and losses of Wendi Deng. Some people think that Deng Wendi lost, she lost to the years, tied her whole youth to several old people and prospective old people, missed the perfect match and enjoyed the ordinary but right happiness of the young couple. However, in 14, we finally get only two real estates that have nothing to do with the overall situation. The only difference between this and an ordinary divorced middle-aged woman in Beijing is whether to book a room for one person in Anhui Beili or Fifth Avenue. Some people applauded Deng Wendi loudly, praising her for her talent and knowing how to use her talent to maximize its effectiveness; Her eyes are firm, fearless and enterprising, and it is not easy to kick out a piece of heaven and earth in a man's world as she wishes. She worked hard and killed the Buddha on the way forward, which is an example for women in the new era to follow.

It is easy for people to despise Deng Wendi's idea of marriage by constantly borrowing men from the upper class, but it is also risky. The risk lies in whether the smug moral superiority after monopolizing the truth will expose your fantasy instead. Because you despise Wendi Deng, you despise the diversity of life choices. Do you think marriage should be rooted in love or two of a kind? However, it must be more noble than being rooted in the attachment to dragons or practical interests. Maybe. But it should be judged by morality. I'm not sure.

What can be evaluated intuitively is the price she paid for it.

If one word is used to describe Wendi Deng, people will think of a strong, successful, resourceful or, as Americans like to say, a great woman more easily. However, few people will say, hmm. This is a good man. I have never met Wendi Deng, but I always feel that she is like a bow with full strings, jingling.

From the less controversial part of the media's description of Deng Wendi, we can see that she likes her new class and tries to integrate into it. For example, she will naturally tell reporters that she and Blair are friends who can be funny on Facebook; For example, Hugh Jackman was a guest who spent the weekend in * * * last week. For example, she talked privately with Ziyi or Bingbing's best friend, for example, emphasizing the partnership with Rupert rather than the master-slave relationship ... Her strength and self-confidence are often seen in newspapers. For example, the hired nanny was sent away because she fell on her daughter's car, and the compensation was very small, which attracted media attention. For example, with the deepening of marriage, in public, the tough attitude towards Murdoch's words has made the elderly husband more and more silent and thoughtful.

As an outsider, there is no way to tell the truth of Deng Wendi's story. What about feelings? One thing is certain. After 14 years of running-in, the difference between them has been at the same level. The man proved that after he was 70 years old, he still had a chance to make a big mistake in his life choice, while the woman proved that although he tried his best, some things were beyond his power in the end. It's like being outside a giant.

But what I want to say is another matter. I want to talk about this unrecognizable face. This face and brow reveal undisguised resentment, cool thin and unhappiness. This expression obviously contains more secrets than a 500-page personal biography.

Maybe you said, it looks good Why didn't I notice what you said about hating cool thin and being unhappy? Ha ha. This is normal. This is the difference between you and me.

I care whether a person looks good or not. Almost only choose to associate with good-looking people. Especially those over forty. There is a simple reason. After 40, a person must be responsible for his face. Because phase is born of heart. Because his appearance is the appearance of his soul.

This kind of beauty is not beauty, but the breeze and bright moon in the eyebrows, which is pleasing to the eye and looks very comfortable. I don't believe that a person who describes the head of a wretched prisoner will be an open-minded and open-minded gentleman. If you really want to find an example, look at the current affairs column in the newspaper.

Wendi Deng is no longer pretty. Personally, I think this is the biggest price she paid for this marriage. None of them.

This is a bit costly, and it also explains many problems. The most remarkable thing is that there is something wrong with her heart. This situation must be enough for herself and the people around her.

Have you ever seen that kind of woman, that kind of amazing woman, one of your bosses, supervisors, peers, or celebrities passing by? They always come with dark clouds, and they are shrouded in darkness. They set goals, build models, move forward like a bamboo, and crush other people's lives and their own hearts like bulldozers. They are race against time, race against time, and fight for land. This material benefit is mine, this glory is mine, this position is mine, this person is mine ... They are ten-mile long streets, not winding paths leading to secluded places, and their lives are an ode, but they can't move down a bit. They act like arrows, and there is no time to delay. Their consciousness is often particularly strong. Smart and powerful. But how strong the consciousness is, the separation is heavy. There are only two kinds of people with them: useful and useless. So you are either ignored by her and have no sense of existence, or she chooses to build it into her life and become a brick and tile of her life building.

Therefore, I often feel that the more successful men are, the more popular they are, and the more successful women are, the less likely they are to be loved. There are reasons for social prejudice in system design and our own limitations. This limitation includes obsession with the established goals of so-called successful women.

I find that how successful we live is often as absurd as itself. I have a mansion near the Forbidden City, and my apartment on the Upper East Side of new york is worth 44 million yuan. So what; I became a social butterfly known all over the world, wearing only the fashion designed by verawang. So what; I used to be the most successful businessman in the world, such as my wife, who taught me by hand, so I still have the opportunity to trade in the largest multinational enterprises. So what; What kind of life is a life that can't stand doubt. After all, it is a new land.

Everything is nothing, and all glory is nothing. More importantly, you persist in making progress, devote yourself wholeheartedly, and finally get the success you want. As a result, you find that this thing you have worked hard for is not this thing. Whether it's the CEO of the media empire or the gender of the former prime minister. Moreover, at the end of your life, you find that everything you have in this world is not yours. Only you are yours.

This is a somewhat disappointing discovery and a reality.

If you have to choose, is it more sophisticated or clearer? Is it enterprising or kind? If you have to trade your soul for the devil, you won't. This is a problem that a professional woman, a successful professional woman, may face every day. It is not sharp, but it always exists, unconsciously, wearing your heart, or softening your heart.

Is it necessary to uproot a tree to make a masterpiece? If so, do you have the courage to say no to such carving?

As a woman, a woman in her forties and a successful woman, I think the most urgent and only important thing is to dress up first.

What kind of face will a woman with inner anxiety look at Wendi Deng today? This is how many top cosmetics and cutting-edge beauty are helpless to face. Hatred is the easiest way to disintegrate a woman's beauty. It makes you look a little uncomfortable anyway. And this discomfort comes from an overly clear purpose. Fundamentally speaking, beauty and purpose are incompatible. Beauty has no purpose, but a complete and safe existence. Beauty is an end in itself. The sense of purpose is like an external carriage, and it is difficult to decorate it naturally.

This deviation also happens to many successful women. They are great, but they can hardly be defined as good people. Moreover, no matter what cosmetics are used, a face always looks dull and ferocious. I'm afraid this is due to their strong purpose.

It's hard to be a good person. Maybe. However, at least it's not as difficult as a successful career or catching a rich husband. However, on our utilitarian scale, it is more cost-effective to be a good person or a successful person.

We need to be good people. This is another topic, but an answer is needed.

There is a judgment that you must agree with. There are many smart women in this world, but few smart women. I wonder if there is a through train from wisdom to wisdom. But I think, if a smart woman is smart enough to quit, such as never trading souls and never climbing with the devil, she may be one step closer to wisdom; If you can still allow a moment of peace in your life, Zhi Zhi won't dance with foreign objects with it, but he can calm down and spend two hours picking a bunch of purple leeks and wrapping them in a big jiaozi to spend an afternoon full of fragrance. Or spend a time with a pen, listen to the sound of flowers, and kill an unintentional morning. I don't know if it is life wisdom, but I know that when everything around you is quiet, happiness is just around the corner.

Divorced Wendi Deng is 45 years old this year, which happens to be the last age to make herself look good again. It is not too late. If she believes that happiness is the best health care product.

Mr. Chen Danqing wrote Retrograde Collection. I like it. Backwardness, and retrogression, is not for accumulation, nor for broadening one's horizons. Leave some space for yourself and let that heart have a rest.

I have a small request for 20 14. If someone points out whether my life is successful or not, I will tell him not to mention success to me. Be a good person if you can be a good person.