Did Wei Zi really entrust herself to each other?

"Little girls have nothing to repay, only committing themselves to each other." In film and television dramas or novels, every time when they are bullies and bully beautiful girls, heroes appear in time to save weak women, they will say this sentence.

Then, with the development of the plot, these two people will generally become good stories that others envy.

"All's well that ends well for lovers" comes from "it is difficult for men and women to become bosom friends, and all's well that ends well for lovers", which is the sincere call of the author Wang Shifu for the hero's beautiful love in The West Chamber, and has now become an idiom and common language. Nowadays, when people wish a beautiful love, they often say: Everything will be fine, and all shall be well.

See the fourth fold of the fifth volume of The West Chamber: "Never leave the old, often get together. May all beings in the world get married. "

Then, if there is a lover, everything will be fine, and all shall be well. Was there such a good marriage in ancient times?

The answer is yes, but rarely.

Why do you say that?

It has been an axiom since ancient times that beauty loves heroes. However, in front of them, it is these six "roadblocks".

First, you gave birth to me before I was born, and I was old when I gave birth to you.

If the knight-errant who saves lives is a knight-errant who knows his destiny in his fifties, or a knight-errant who is over sixty, it is difficult to be together. It is basically unacceptable that you can pass this level and your parents can pass that level.

Second, Luo Fu has a husband, so that you have a wife.

If the rescued young woman is married, or the rescued knight is married, then it is basically impossible for both parties.

In ancient times, there was a custom of engagement. If one of the two parties has an engagement, this sudden love may end in vain.

Third, the life of parents, the words of matchmakers.

Marriage in ancient times was the fate of parents and the words of matchmakers. As a woman, there are cases of being with the man I love, but more according to the wishes of my parents.

Parents agree, but with the parents' consent, the little husband's family background is not too good, at least he can get by, otherwise his parents may disagree. Unless you meet enlightened parents.

Four, eight characters.

Also, before men and women got married in ancient times, they asked the matchmaker to exchange the birth time of men and women, and the two sides signed the eight characters. Only when both sides have figured it out can they get engaged and get married next. Therefore, astrology is the most important custom of ancient marriage.

In fact, if you really love, let's be together. There is a sentence in Vae: "The horoscope says that we are inconsistent, and I am not good enough for you in Taurus. After I felt sad, I thought maybe it was just a coincidence. How does our story writer understand it? The horoscope said that we were inconsistent, and finally I secretly tore up that page. "

It takes courage to love someone. If two people are interested in each other, but one is active and the other is passive, or neither of them is active, then a good fate is likely to slip away from the fingertips of time.

You had me at hello.

If the knight-errant who saves lives is old or unhappy, the girl may not say so. But "the hero saves the United States, and the little girl doesn't want to repay her kindness. Only in the afterlife, she made a cow and a horse, and reported this great kindness. "

Sixth, the fallen flowers are intentional, and the water is ruthless.

There is a saying that "the fallen flower intentionally follows the flowing water, and the flowing water has no love." Sometimes the rescued woman is willing, but the knight-errant doesn't have this idea, or the knight-errant who saves lives is willing, but the woman has a heart. She only has gratitude to the knight-errant and has no other ideas.

It is a pity that beauty can't find it if she has a heart to fall out of the flower, a heart to run water, or a heart to help the king and a heart to help the goddess.

People in ancient times regarded marriage as a lifelong event. Therefore, there must be an ultimate goal, that is, to grow old together, unlike the current high divorce rate.

Therefore, it is very cautious to treat marriage. Basically, these six "obstacles" have been eliminated, and if the chivalrous man and the hostess take a fancy to each other, they can tie the knot and become a much-told story.