Why do men work so hard, but you think it's better to do it yourself?

According to the statistics of the famous sexologist Dr. Kinsey, masturbation, caressing, heterosexual and homosexual are the main sexual behaviors of human beings. Female masturbation is the best way to reach orgasm.

According to a foreign research data, among the women who explicitly answered masturbation in the survey, 96.6% women can have an orgasm during masturbation, and 90.3% women can even describe their specific feelings.

Heidi Sexology Report: Women also pointed out that women can reach orgasm through masturbation in 85% cases, but only one third of the time is with men.

Have you found in the above data that masturbation is easier to reach orgasm than snapshot?

It is easier to masturbate than slap in the face.

That's why, every time I use various postures and exciting methods to catch male tickets, I try to extend the time as much as possible, just to give you an orgasm. As a result, he really couldn't help but release himself, and you still didn't have an orgasm.

Seeing each other's hard work, you can't bear to tell him that you didn't arrive at all, and you are even happier than yourself.

In fact, the reason is related to women's physiological structure and psychological factors.

Physiological structure

As the pioneer of female sexology, the famous Royal Princess princesse marie began to study the relationship between pitch and vocal tract because she didn't get the climax of vocal tract in traditional slapping. Although her theory finally deviated, the starting point was correct.

Masturbation is easier to reach orgasm than snapping, precisely because of the difference in pitch and channel sound.

Traditionally, between men and women, Tintin kept the piston moving when stimulating the vocal tract until his little brother reached orgasm.

Most women masturbate mainly by directly or indirectly stimulating small peas and lips.

In our female vocal tract, most nerve endings are concentrated at the entrance 1/3, and there are basically no nerve endings at the inner 2/3, so simple piston movement is not easy to reach orgasm.

There are more than 8000 nerve endings in the head of the tone pedicle, while there are only more than 3000 nerve endings in the head of the male reed. You can imagine how sensitive Indy is.

Therefore, as the place with the densest female nerve endings, small pockets can make you feel the stimulation more easily and experience the pleasure of sex more easily.

Some sisters here may say, why is your little pea insensitive?

This is related to the foreskin of female pedicel, which may be the reason why your pedicel foreskin is too long.

True pedicels and stems have similar physiological structures. Do boys have foreskin protection when they have no blog? So is Katie.

Pedicle wrapping is to protect the pedicle head from direct contact and friction.

If the prepuce of the tone pedicle is too long, you can gently pull the prepuce in the pubic direction to expose the small peas, and the sensitivity will increase ~

Therefore, compared with the simple action of the piston entering the vocal tract, it is of course easier to get an orgasm by stimulating the pea ~

The influence of psychological factors

Of course, masturbation is easier to reach orgasm, and psychological aspect is also an important factor. On the one hand, it is caused by your own sense of shame, on the other hand, some objective conditions have had a psychological impact on you.

1. Be ashamed of yourself

Heidi said in the report of Sexology that most women like the physical pleasure brought by masturbation, but it is psychologically unacceptable.

They use such words to describe the feeling of masturbation: loneliness, loneliness, no pain, anxiety, stupidity, discomfort, no sense of belonging, nausea, sickness, shame, emptiness, meanness, filth, self-centeredness, nausea and so on.

Even in the context of our love sutra, sisters often ask: I can only masturbate to orgasm, isn't that normal?

This is normal.

Betty Dawson emphasized that masturbation is responsible for one's own orgasm, which is the basic expression of individual independence and mutual equality.

She set up a masturbation studio in the United States to teach masturbation methods, including using massage sticks, artificial sound sticks, lubricants and other supplies. It was in her studio that many women experienced orgasm.

Therefore, masturbation is an important step for women to know their own bodies. Masturbation is not shameful, let alone normal or abnormal.

Even, women who develop through masturbation are more likely to have sex ~

2. The psychological influence of objective conditions on you.

On the other hand, in addition to shame, traditional slapping needs to consider a lot, such as the surrounding environment, your mood when slapping, the strength and action of slapping, and your gestures.

No matter how good your relationship with the other half is, the other party doesn't know yourself as well as you, and many problems need to be reconciled in the process of breaking up.

And when you don't take safety measures, you have to worry about getting pregnant.

In other words, if you are an old couple, you still have the problem of losing your freshness. With so many bad things, it is really difficult to devote yourself wholeheartedly ~

Seeing this, do you think it is not so easy to find someone to accompany you? )

However, masturbation is different.

As long as you like, you can open your mind at will. You can control the whole process by yourself, when, how to do it, who you are with, and how comfortable you are, regardless of the influence of others ~

So masturbation is easier to reach orgasm than snapping, which is quite understandable.

In fact, masturbation is a normal and natural physiological behavior. As long as you develop good masturbation habits, you don't need any psychological burden or pressure on masturbation at all.