I don't want to be a virgin, what should I do?

Left him. You have a strong sexual desire, but he is cold. If you get married, it's over. It is killing you.

For your own good? Do you think he is hard? If not, there is something wrong with him.

If he is hard, is he usually timid? I don't have the guts to bear the responsibility and consequences after I get you.

If you must give yourself to him: buy him a drink, order leeks (fried eggs and octopus) for him to eat, and then take him home to make out, if he can still control it. Take him away. That's not a person.