The dubbing of Wei Zi's Persuasion

The manners on the wine table are really exquisite. If you propose a toast to another person, he won't drink it. Unless he really doesn't drink it or is unwell, it is understandable to explain it, otherwise it is disrespectful to the toaster. Or it is disrespectful for the other person not to stare at your mobile phone after drinking your toast. Such people are not worth socializing with. If that's the case, then you shouldn't take part in such a wine game.

A popular saying now is: If it's not your circle, don't put it in it, lest you ask for it.