How to reduce friction when living with mother-in-law?

Although many young couples choose to live separately from their parents, they will still live with their parents-in-law for a long time after having children, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law becomes an inevitable problem. Although I don't talk about getting along with my mother-in-law, I will be much more relaxed and happy at home if I can reduce the friction between them. So how to reduce the friction with my mother-in-law? This reminds you what details you should pay more attention to in your life. (Please refer to my mother-in-law's life palace star)

Don't treat her as ignorance. Even if she really doesn't understand anything, don't say "you don't understand", otherwise she will think it is a great contempt for her. 2, don't be too strong in front of her, and don't get carried away, because she is more stubborn than you, showing weakness in time, and occasionally coquetry is more useful to her. 3, this kind of mother-in-law is jealous, don't be too close to her husband in front of her, otherwise she will think that you are deliberately fighting for her son.

Lian Zhenxing, wolf star 1, mother-in-law impatient. After you tidy up the housework, you should tell her where to put the items in time and put the commonly used items in a conspicuous place, so as not to make her lose her temper if she can't find anything. She is impulsive and willful, and she gets angry easily if she is not satisfied. If you find that her face is wrong, you should make fun of her immediately, and more than half of your anger will disappear. She loves "tossing" and doing unreasonable things. Don't give her a hard time. Stop her. If you can't convince her, just accept it.

Ziweixing, Tianfu Star 1, Wei Zi, Tianfu's mother-in-law is a little conceited. You should praise her more and make her feel her authority, but you can't pander to her blindly, so as not to make her think that you can't achieve great things. Don't order her son to do things in front of her, and don't rush to refute your husband in front of her mother-in-law before you close the door. Even if you think she is too extravagant and wasteful, don't say her fault to her face. You can pretend to remind her casually and leave some money for more important things in the future.

Wu Quxing, Tianxing 1, honestly let your mother-in-law know what you don't like and your living habits, otherwise she will completely follow her own interests regardless of your feelings. She always has a serious face, which makes it difficult for you to get close. At ordinary times, she smiles at people regardless of her seriousness, which is conducive to relaxing the atmosphere. Mother-in-law will be rude to the interests. It's best not to have a conflict of interest with her. If you live together or let her take care of the children, you should give her food expenses.

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