Lagerstroemia indica with stepfather

Growing up in a happy family is a very lucky thing.

However, in the new era of higher and higher divorce rate, many people have to face the problem of parents' divorce, or grow up in single-parent families or reorganized families.

Ordinary people are like this, and so are many stars. The following five celebrity parents remarried after divorce. They grew up in a reorganized family, some were held in the palm of their stepfathers, and some became stepfathers because of their stepmother.

0 1, Chen Kun: Mom was unhappy after asking Dad for money, and she was beaten the next day. The mastermind behind this is her stepmother's son.

Chen Kun 1976 was born in Chongqing and has a younger brother.

At the age of seven, his parents who had quarreled for a long time finally chose to divorce, and he and his brother were sent to grandma's house. Parents soon formed their own new families, and they became children whose parents ignored their mothers.

Four years later, the remarried mother took their brother back. At this time, the mother and stepfather gave birth to another son. A family of five is crammed into a house of 13 square meters. Mother, stepfather and brother live in it, and he and his brother set up a bunk bed in the corridor outside.

In his memory, the winter in Chongqing is particularly cold. The neighbor made a fire with a coal stove, and the smell of smoke always filled his room. The paper stuck on the window always rots. Friends reached into the window and patted him on the head: hey, come out and play.

Children from poor families are taken care of early. Chen Kun will help her mother to take care of her two younger brothers after school, do housework as much as she can, and realize the hardships of life early.

And his memory of his father is fixed at the age of seven. It was a hot summer. His father went to see him at his grandmother's house. After waking up from a nap, he saw an old house with a bowl of cherries in the dim backlight. The two men looked after each other silently. He eats cherries grain by grain, and his father eats one occasionally. This is the most beautiful thing in his memory and the most loving eyes of his father.

After that, his father lived in his heart for many years, but that was just his imaginary image.

My father remarried, his second wife, and he had a brother who was one year older than Chen Kun.

In junior high school, one year during the Spring Festival, he went to his father's house to ask for lucky money. When it comes to money, my stepmother is unhappy and my father is afraid to give him money. At that time, he didn't know how to look at his eyes and continued to ask his father for a red envelope. The scene is very embarrassing under the stalemate.

When his father scolded him, Chen Kun, in a hurry, said something unpleasant to his father and stepmother and left.

He went to school the next day. After class at noon, he was preparing to go home for dinner when he was suddenly beaten by a group of senior classmates. Just like the movie plot, he was beaten in a mess, holding his head and aiming at their feet with the corner of his eye before running back to the classroom. He hid for a noon and didn't eat lunch.

As soon as class started in the afternoon, he ran to his stepmother's son and told him about the beating, hoping to get his brother to support him. My brother looked calm and said exemplary: I'll solve this matter.

Later, no one really bothered him again. He once thought it was the result of his brother's reconciliation.

Not long after, Tomb-Sweeping Day, who went to his father's house to worship his ancestors, met his brother, who mysteriously said, "When you 18 years old, I will tell you a secret." . He kept asking questions that day, but his brother pretended to be old and didn't tell him.

It was a long time before he knew that the secret was that the group who beat him was found by his brother.

Of course, these are just an episode in his hard growth. After attending vocational high school, I began to stand on my own feet. I went to computer vocational high school during the day and worked as a waiter in a nightclub at night. At that time, he was envious of those singers. He can work for a short time after singing and earn a high income.

He wants to learn to sing, but he has no money to pay the tuition. A singing brother introduced him to Mr. Wang of Chongqing Opera House. This teacher is an important person in his life. Even though he was judged to be "tone-deaf" on the first face, he taught him and took care of him as carefully as his mother, which not only gave him the opportunity to sing in nightclubs, but also admitted to the Oriental Song and Dance Troupe at the age of 19 and rushed to Beijing from Chongqing.

Soon the song and dance troupe declined and the students began to find another way out. A friend went to Nortel and accompanied him. His friend failed, but he did it.

In his words, "fate is sometimes strange", he made a living as a singer, dreamed of becoming a designer, but finally embarked on the road of an actor.

He became famous very early, and the juvenile film "Like Fog, Like Rain, Like Wind" gained a certain fame. At that time, Zhao Baogang paid him 3 100 episodes, and a drama earned 90,000 yuan. Later, the "Golden Powder Family" became popular, and he suddenly became an "upstart".

Probably when I was a child, I had a shadow on the flat house of 13. When he got rich, he bought a house for himself and his mother.

The relationship between him and his father has been very distant, and it was not until 20 15 that he returned to Chongqing to shoot "Hot Pot Hero". At that time, his 70-year-old father went to the crew to bring him soup. He teased his father that "I only drank your soup once in your house", leaving his old father speechless. Later, watching his elderly father busy for him, he suddenly realized that he had not made any mistakes.

In the same year, he also bought a suite for his father.

It is said that an unfortunate childhood needs a lifetime to heal. He made up with his father, which was a relief.

02. Adi: Stepfather is more than father. He once publicly confessed his stepfather that "you raised me small and I raised you big".

In May, 2020, the second program of Mango Reality Show "My Girl" ended. Adi said to her stepfather "You raised me small, I raised you big" in the program, which made countless viewers cry.

This is probably the best example of stepparents getting along with their children.

Adi, 1988, a native of Harbin, Heilongjiang. In a patriarchal family, her birth became "unpredictable" from the moment she learned her gender.

She has been beautiful since she was a child, and she will get countless praises when she goes out for a walk, but only her grandmother doesn't love her father. 13 years old, her parents divorced, she lived with her mother and changed her surname.

For a time, the life of mother and daughter was very difficult. My mother works hard to earn money to support her family. Because of her outstanding appearance, she was excluded from school by teachers and students. Some boys are called "foxes" by teachers because she ran away from home. Her grades are not very good, and they are getting worse and worse after being excluded.

It was not until the appearance of stepfather that the status quo of their family was changed.

At that time, Adi was already a slim girl, and she had some rejection of the sudden "dad". Stepfather didn't force her, but knocked on her heart with love bit by bit.

Later, she wanted to apply for Nortel, but her mother disagreed. Stepfather accompanied her to report classes and take exams everywhere.

After entering the entertainment circle, she did not rise to the top. On the contrary, when she first made her debut, she was scolded and cried by the director because she couldn't act.

At this time, it was her stepfather who enlightened her and gave her the motivation to continue.

In 2020, Adi took her stepfather to watch a reality show. The warmth of their interaction in the show made everyone feel that they were not their own at first.

Adi choked several times when he talked about his stepfather in the program. She said that although he was not her real father, he gave her correct guidance and support at every critical moment of her life.

She is over 30 years old, and her stepfather never urged her to get married quickly. He always told her: you should find someone who knows you to accompany you through this life. Understanding is more important than love.

He even worried that she would miss giving birth because she couldn't find a suitable partner for a while, and suggested that she oocyte cryopreservation.

The so-called parents love their children, which has far-reaching influence. No wonder Adi is moved to tears every time he mentions his stepfather. She said that she was lucky to meet a stepfather who loved her very much. She said that the grace of nurturing is greater than the grace of bearing.

03. Sun Jian: The stepfather gave all his biological fathers the missing love.

Sun Jian, male, 1983, from Xi, Shaanxi. He is the only child in the family. His parents opened a restaurant, and the business was good, and the family of three was happy.

But this happiness only lasted until he was three years old.

Later, catching up with the demolition, Sun Jian's father decided to do big business after getting a demolition payment, but he didn't have any business sense and lost every minute. From a rich man to a negative man, Sun's depressed father was infected with something that should not be contaminated.

Sun's father's poison X is almost a devastating blow to this family. Since then, Sun Jian's life has become gloomy. He was left by his mother at his aunt's house, aunt's house, sister's house, brother's house ... and he has tasted the hardships of being a sponsor. Sometimes the police station came to arrest Sun's father, and he even followed, because only in that era when communication was underdeveloped did he know his father's whereabouts.

This kind of life lived until he was 16 years old. That year, Sun's father suffered from tuberculosis. It was not a fatal disease at first, but because there was no money for treatment at that time, it died after a while.

Sun Jian politician, a sophomore at that time, received a phone call from her mother and learned that her father had passed away, which was a sigh of relief. He doesn't know whether he and his mother can live a good life in the future.

After Sun's father died, Sun's mother fell into great grief, and her family had fallen apart, so Sun Jian politician had to leave the campus and start working.

When he was defeated by society, a man ten years older than him appeared in his life. That's my mother's new boyfriend, a country man with a big beard. He doesn't like it at all. On the one hand, he thinks that this man is not worthy of his beautiful mother. On the other hand, he thinks his father is no longer reliable. He also has a father.

He said to the man angrily, I don't like your beard.

The next day, the man shaved his beard clean.

Sun's mother knows that Sun Jian likes to listen in disorder. She spent two or three hundred dollars to buy one for her stepfather and give it to Sun Jian. When Sun Jian saw the gift, he accepted it without principle.

Stepfather brought a son younger than Sun Jian. Their arrival finally made this family feel at home. Finally, they stopped being displaced and finally started to make a fire to cook. Finally, mother's face began to have a smile.

After learning that Sun Jian had a host dream, his stepfather took him to Beijing to be admitted to Beijing Broadcasting Institute. They slept together in the upper bunk of the cold and humid basement in Beijing. It was a sad day, but Sun Jian had the warmth from his father that he had never had before.

But unfortunately, he didn't take too many cultural classes. Later, I went home to repeat my studies and was admitted to Chinese opera. He, Wen and Bai Baihe became classmates.

Unfortunately, his stepfather suffered from glioma before he became famous. At that time, he didn't have much money In order to treat their stepfather, mother and son borrowed money from relatives and friends. But the disease was expensive and difficult to treat, and finally my stepfather didn't survive.

Years later, when Sun Jian talked about it on the show, tears welled up in his eyes. Both fathers were stumped by money.

Later, he was filial to his mother and bought her a house. He paid attention to the pots and pans in her kitchen from beginning to end and even bought her a rolling pin.

He said that his mother had a hard life and both husbands had no hope. He hopes he can make her the happiest woman.

04. Monica: My stepmother went against her wishes, and my father took her to court for her stepmother.

Monica once dominated the screen for a period of time, and her plays such as Happy Everyday, Living Buddha, Peacock Feather, etc. Have achieved good ratings. But then she worked hard for three years in a row, but none of them were broadcast. She was a little disappointed with the market and slowly faded out of the screen.

From being a popular actress to retiring from the competition, this calm Chongqing girl actually had a riddled childhood.

Monica was born in 1984. When she was less than one year old, her parents' marriage broke up and the role of mother disappeared from her life. I saw her again when she was ten years old.

Monica, who was sentenced to her father, didn't have much happiness in the ten years when she lived alone with her father, but at least she had no worries about food and clothing and was not bullied. 10 years old, suddenly there were two more people in the family. My father married a new wife and had a free one with an elder sister three years older than her.

Since then, Cinderella's story has really been staged in their home. She always has endless bowls and clothes to wash and endless floors to mop. In winter, her fingers were rotten and purulent, so she had to bite the bullet and put her hand into the biting cold water.

Not only that, the stepmother still has two faces, showing the appearance of loving mother in front of her father. As long as her father can't see, he will stop acting at once.

After several times, she became a rebellious and disobedient bad girl in her father's heart, deliberately contradicting her stepmother. However, my sister is pleasing to the eye, not her own.

The days in that house could not go on, so her grandparents took her across the street. For custody, my father and grandparents had a fight, and finally they died of old age.

The more unfortunate people work harder, Monica gets particularly good grades since she was a child. In the third year of high school, she suddenly wanted to take the Nortel exam. After months of cramming for courses such as physical fitness, she was admitted to Nortel with excellent results. In my junior year, I began to have a play appointment and officially started my acting career.

During this period, his relationship with his father's stepmother was neither salty nor light, but an interview made her father completely turn against her.

It was after she became popular that a talk show asked her to record it, in which she revealed her growth experience for the first time. After the fig leaf was torn off, her father became angry from embarrassment. He thought she was talking nonsense, slandering her stepmother and exposing her family's dirty laundry.

He was so angry that he called her after watching the program and threatened to sue her.

After this incident, the father and the daughter became more tacitly alienated, and then no one contacted anyone, as if he didn't have this daughter and she didn't have this father.

20 15 Monica, who was filming on the set, learned that her father was ill and had an operation, probably because of blood relationship. She dialed her father's phone without thinking. She said she would take time to see him, but he refused.

It's not easy to leave the crew for a while. A few days later, I finally got a leave. When she contacted her father again, he gave her a feeling of dying: if you can't get along with your mother after you come back, then you don't have to come back.

At that moment, Monica smartly wiped away her tears and closed the ticket purchase page she was browsing.

After many years, the knot between her and her father has not been opened.

On Father's Day in 2020, she shared a dynamic in Weibo. She said that the contradiction with her father and stepmother remains the same, but she still hopes that her father will be healthy.

05. Guo Qilin: The stepmother was afraid of hurting him and didn't give birth to her own child before he spoke.

Of all the stars in the second generation, Guo Qilin won the most praise. Although his education is not high, his words have connotations. He is humble and courteous, and his professional ability has also been affirmed by the public.

His growth is inseparable from the company of his stepmother.

He has a good relationship with his stepmother. He said "my mother" in the program and envied others.

Guo Qilin was born in Tianjin on 1996. When he was 4 years old, his father Degang Guo and his mother Hu Zhonghui broke up peacefully, and then Hu Zhonghui went to Japan.

In 2003, Wang Hui, who had known each other for many years, married Degang Guo, who was not a big hit at that time. From then on, she gave up her drumming career and devoted herself to the management of Deyun Society established in Degang Guo. She is not only Degang Guo's career wife, but also takes good care of Guo Qilin's daily life for many years.

When Guo Qilin came to power for the first time, Wang Hui and Degang Guo had been waiting in the background. Guo Qilin is a big man. If she doesn't come home at five or six in the evening, kill her.

If the stepmother can do these things in life with snacks, then for Guo Qilin, who has never given birth to a child, it is not something that ordinary people can do.

When Wang Hui married Degang Guo, Guo Qilin was only seven years old. Later, Degang Guo became popular. The media asked Wang Hui more than once when she wanted to have children. Wang Hui said, "I'm afraid my son will feel bad. Whether I have children or not, I will mainly listen to my son. "

Guo Qilin/Kloc-dropped out of school at the age of 0/4 and started a new life journey in Deyun Society. He took the initiative to ask his stepmother to give him a sister, and Wang began to prepare for pregnancy. Wang Hui was born in 20 15. He was born in Guo Fenyang at the age of 39, and Guo Qilin 19.

Perhaps in the eyes of outsiders, Wang Hui is a stepmother, but in the eyes of Guo Qilin, she is her own mother.