Mom takes care of Wei Zi.

I saw an article by an author yesterday, especially from the heart.

The author said in the article that after the baby was born, she chose a stay-at-home mother. But after becoming a full-time mother, she didn't want to lose herself, so she began to pursue her own career and insisted on writing articles every day. Many times, when she is writing an article, the children will come and let her play with him. At this time, she really wants to finish the article.

However, the child kept asking her to accompany him. But she told the child: "Mom will come to play with you when she is busy." When the child heard what she said, she cried with grievance. At this time, she still ignored the child's inner feelings and was still busy with her own affairs.

In this way, every time the child asks her to accompany him, she will do so. Slowly, the child is used to it. He began to get used to playing alone and seldom asked her to play with him. However, at that time, she didn't care about the child's bad mood.

Until later, when children went to school, they always liked to play by themselves, rather than with other children. At this time, as a mother, she felt particularly sorry.

Once many things are missed, people will regret it. For a child, he only grows up once. When he needs his mother's company most, her mother ignores the child's emotional needs, which will make the child feel that her mother doesn't care enough about herself. Slowly, he no longer had some hope for his mother and began to adapt to the rhythm of playing alone.

When a child is always used to playing alone, he will lack opportunities to communicate with others. This will lead to children's reluctance to integrate into the group and fear of communicating with others. Over time, it may have a certain impact on the child's heart.

Sometimes, it is valuable for a mother to have her own ideas and pursuits, but the growth of a child is also very important. Think about the original intention of choosing to be a stay-at-home mother, isn't it to give children the best companionship and education? But in this process, in order to pursue our dreams, we lost our initial commitment and protection to our children.

Not only this mother, but also me. Sometimes in the evening, in order to reply to emails from foreign customers, I will let my children sleep alone many times. Although he always said, mom, please stay with me! But I always tell him that I will sleep with you when my mother is busy, but most of the time, he is waiting for himself to fall asleep.

Sometimes I watch him fall asleep with his toy "Bunny". When he woke up the next day, the first thing he did was say to me, Mom, can you stop working tonight and sleep with me?

I understood his grievance from his words, and saw his expectation and longing for me from his eyes. Many times, my heart is full of deep remorse. Many times when my father came back from work, he told me that it is most important to be with the children now.

But in the end, I still didn't give up my choice. Therefore, it is good to balance work and take care of the baby. Everyone wants to live a decent life, but in reality, such a choice is sometimes a dignity and sometimes a pursuit.

In our life, there are indeed many stay-at-home mothers who work and take care of their babies. At this time, they should not only do their own work well, but also train their children well. Such mothers are really great, so how do they do it?

Plan your time reasonably.

Some stay-at-home mothers do better in taking care of babies and working. She will plan her time, and at work, she chooses to work hard. When the child needs company, she will accompany the child with her heart. Mom can do this because she knows how to plan her time.

Mother had better insist on going to bed early and getting up early, because staying up late often is really bad for her health. Among a group of mothers, I saw a mother who planned her time very well. She insists on getting up at 5 o'clock every day and then starts to do her own work. She cooks breakfast for the children around 7 o'clock, takes them out to play in the morning, and when the children take a nap at noon, she chooses to read or study.

In the afternoon, she studies with her children, teaching them to draw, make handicrafts, read picture books and so on. Sleep with the children at 9 o'clock in the evening. In this way, I insist on it every day.

2) Dad's participation

Some stay-at-home mothers need their mothers' company when their children are very young, and they can't bear to leave their children there alone. So it is difficult for her to have more time to be busy with her work. Faced with this situation, if the father can help the mother take care of the baby after work, then the mother will have more time to do her own thing.

One of my classmates resigned and became a full-time mother in order to take care of the children. When the child was one year old, she wanted to take the postgraduate entrance examination, and her father supported her very much. He comes back from work at 5: 30 every day to help her take care of the children. In this way, she tried to be admitted to the graduate school with her father taking care of the baby wholeheartedly.

It's really not easy for every mother to take care of her children's feelings while pursuing her dreams, so as not to let herself regret it later. If your energy is limited, take good care of your children and wait until they go to school to pursue their dreams.

Do you agree that stay-at-home mothers should work while taking care of their children? What do you think of this? Welcome to share your views and opinions.