What can I do to let my husband know what he wants?

The following is the advice of sexologists on bedside orgasm. Through their experiences and experiences, you can also easily climb to the peak of sex.

1. Ignite his desire in advance?

Skin-to-skin dating doesn't have to be shown in bed, and good sexual relations should be everywhere. Every time you touch the other person's body, it is an opportunity to show intimacy and also an opportunity to whisper. Seducing his soul with voice, roaming in his body with dexterous hands, liberating his whole body cells like magic, or a few charming eyes are all actions to reserve sexual energy anytime and anywhere. This suggestive body language, like warm-up activities before sex, is more like an infinite extension of sexual relations. In private or public places, cars, restaurants or cinemas, you can deliberately create opportunities for physical contact with each other. It usually takes a long time for a woman to fully reach the state of sexual excitement, so why not get ready before going to bed? Take a fragrant bubble bath half an hour in advance, flip through pleasing pictures, listen to gentle music, and make yourself a food to replenish energy. In short, relaxing and caring for your body can help you get into the best condition. Most men like women to take the initiative. Why not create an opportunity to let him know your longing for him, send a sentimental email, secretly put a small note in his wallet, or even say a few words, and any provocative words can convey your thoughts of loving and missing him at any time, just like treasure hunting. Your love words are clues full of surprises, and he is willing to be in such a search.

2. create an atmosphere of ecstasy and bone erosion?

Don't turn off the light as soon as you go to bed, because you are afraid of being naked. Most men prefer visual enjoyment and use their eyes to reflect the external environment. When you go to bed to have sex, you might as well leave a small lamp for him to see your enthusiasm and the way you are fascinated by him. If you are rather shy about your figure, keep your clothes semi-faded and shine in dim light.

Naked in front of your lover, you have a naked aesthetic feeling, but exposing your figure in a subtle way can often stimulate the other person's strong will to explore, even stronger than showing the curve at a glance, especially when you have no confidence in your figure or are quite embarrassed about naked performance, then a set of obscene clothes with sexy style and ambiguous colors can also tease men's wildest sexual fantasies, such as black lace, empty bra, garters and stockings. Men also like women to wear his clothes and nothing in a shirt or pajamas, which is like a symbol of accepting and surrendering to him, and he will want to be integrated with you more; In addition, after taking a shower, leave your bathrobe on your body and let him undress. The fragrant smell will be exposed with the carcass, which will make you feel like dying.

3. endless fun?

The following secret can help your orgasm, by going up one flight of stairs, and make your orgasm last longer before it breaks out. To achieve this goal, two people must have a good tacit understanding and can always pay attention to each other's progress and feelings. Before one of you reaches orgasm, stop vaginal penetration or masturbation, exchange sexual positions with each other, or spend a few minutes massaging each other, so as to relieve the high sexual desire first, and then go into battle before the sexual desire has completely subsided. In the case of making love or pleasing each other, you will panic because you are worried about your poor performance, so you forget to adjust your breathing rate. When masturbating, it is the best time to practice deep breathing, concentrate and lower the breathing to the pelvic cavity, and then slowly apply it to vaginal intercourse; Take a deep breath during sex, so that you will feel relaxed and reach the peak of orgasm smoothly.

Use your intelligence, make use of the characteristics and corners of all kinds of furniture at home, and try various sexual intercourse postures. For example, having sex by the window that you can see but can't see from the outside, under the piano, on the dining table, on the sofa in the living room or on the edge of the hidden balcony, you can take various postures to increase your pleasure. Over time, the whole family will have memories of your orgasm, and everything you see is sexy.

4. Dare to try toys?

Even a soft toothbrush can be a very useful sex toy. Let your man gently brush your whole body with his mane and put special pressure on your sensitive parts, such as breasts, vagina or places you are only familiar with. You can exchange such actions, take turns to bring climax to each other with this prop, and develop each other's sexual sensitive areas. This kind of sex toy is easy to buy. Hanging a string of pearls on his head will drain the smooth touch of pearls on him, or slide up and down around his penis to make him feel more intimate. When you open the refrigerator, you will also find many available tools, such as cucumbers, grapes, celery or chocolate powder and honey sauce, which will bring different pleasure and fun.