Hu Ziwei, Gong Li.

When people reach middle age, there is a word called? The relationship between heart and heart is about a person's good or bad face and good or bad mind.

So women over 30 or 40 will have to pay for their face.

Many women cut their faces in order to stay beautiful. The New York Times also reported that after the United States and Brazil, China has become the third largest plastic surgery country in the world.

However, there is a good saying: the beauty of women is pure in heart, China and the United States are silent, and beauty lies in appearance.

There is another sentence, called? The most advanced plastic surgery is the whole heart? .

Because the mind is cultivated, the soul can be at peace. Peaceful people know how to get along with themselves calmly, and they will not bother themselves between right and wrong, nor will they be happy for what they get, nor will they be sad for what they lose.

Zhang Jingyue, a medical scientist in the Ming Dynasty, said: If you want to live a long life, you should only be happy. If you want to be happy, there is nothing better than kindness.

Looking around, most of the women who live a full life around them have kind and open-minded souls. Always gives off a warm and comfortable light.

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In an article, Hu Ziwei, the host of CCTV, deeply analyzed the changes of Deng Wendi's appearance.

She said, if you describe Wendi Deng in words, what do you think more easily? Strong and fierce? .

Indeed, in the eyes of the world, Deng Wendi will always be like a bow with full strings, clanking and like a sample that can't be covered. It's always hard to exist, because that hardness is often seen in newspapers.

The nanny she hired was sent away with little compensation because she fell on her daughter's child's car and caused a comminuted fracture, which attracted media attention.

With the deepening of marriage, in public, the tough words about Domec made the elderly husband fall into silence and think for a long time.

/kloc-After the dissolution of marriage in 0/4 years, Deng Wendi's bright and clean face is like a stagnant dark cloud, full of ferocity and ferocity, because she has exhausted all means and scheming to collect all her desires and greed.

This beautiful girl, once described by the media as the rise of Ran Ran in the East, is full of undisguised resentment, cool thin and unhappiness.

Hu Ziwei said that this sentence contains more secrets than a 500-page personal biography.

In the end, she lost her years and herself.

Of course, later she reappeared in the camera with her young boyfriend, smiling, and life seemed to get better again.

Life is like this, you return innocence, it returns romance, you reciprocate, it returns Qiong Yao.

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In this world, there are too many beautiful women, but few women can be beautiful enough to be old.

This kind of woman can accept herself frankly, be loyal to herself, stick to what she likes, discard what she doesn't want, keep a kind and soft heart, and even her soul exudes fragrance.

Gong Li has always been called by netizens? Oriental goddess? In addition to her acting skills in the textbook class, her role is flesh and blood, and her quality is also commendable.

Liu Peiqi, an old opera player, once talked about the touching details of his filming with Gong Li in an interview program promoting "Flowers Bloom that Year".

She brought a washing machine to the scene when filming. The other actors were so busy discussing the script that they didn't even have time to wash clothes. Gong Li helps them wash clothes every day. When filming, someone had a fever, so she asked Liu Peiqi to buy medicine together.

It was very cold at that time, and they went to the county town to buy medicine in costumes from the play. Even so, she was recognized by a radish vendor in the market.

Gong Li told the stall owner not to get excited and shout, and he would definitely sign his name.

But there was no paper and pen at that time, so she asked the stall owner to find a pen, picked up a cigarette case from the ground and spread it out, then signed it.

At that time, Gong Li was already an international superstar, but Liu Peiqi's awe was hidden in the kindness and humility of grounding gas.

Youth is fleeting, youth is fleeting.

Although she is now in public, her figure is bloated and her eyes are wrinkled, but the whole person is still low-key and luxurious.

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Look at a person, look at the face first.

Because the face reflects the heart, those who look young and beautiful are mostly simple-minded and kind-hearted, which is the projection of the heart on the face for a long time, so the appearance can tell a person's future.

Only when a woman's mood is stable can her soul get close to herself quietly and keep a quiet space when facing the impetuousness and noise of the outside world.

When people reach middle age, they should learn to be decent. When they encounter setbacks, don't hide, learn to face them and never give up, never back down. They should have hobbies, keep their hearts clean and interesting, and read more good books, which can not only benefit others, but also please themselves!

Don't promiscuous friends, don't close yourself; Don't have too many friends, and don't be chaotic in circles;

Be self-disciplined, learn to break up, and don't let your emotions be immersed in pain; Work hard and have a career you like.

To have the beauty of restraint, we should not only keep our appearance light and healthy, but also reflect it in our life. Restraint means to have a humble heart when getting along with friends, not to be arrogant and willful when getting along with relatives, not to be unreasonable when falling in love with lovers, not only to restrain your weight, but also to restrain your emotions and always reflect.

Learn to love and be loved, so that your heart can always be full of gratitude and kindness.

After all, beauty will grow old with the years, and only the purity and beauty of the soul can last forever.