92-year-old grandfather remarried and was scolded for hot search: Why don't old people deserve love?

92-year-old Grandpa Jin and 78-year-old Grandma Liu got married, and they got married on 20 18, from which a romantic relationship began.

Grandpa Kim's wife died, which made him very lonely. When he met grandma Liu, he rekindled his hope for life.

Two people live in an apartment for the elderly, support each other and spend the rest of their lives together.

How rare it is to meet love in old age. Grandpa Jin and grandma Liu are both old, so it is not easy to accompany each other in the last journey of life.

But under this news, I saw some bad remarks. Some people say that your wife has been with you for decades, and you turned to marry someone else as your wife. This is disloyalty to love.

Others say that children are married, grandchildren are so old, and they are still married. There is no shame in losing. I don't know if there are any old people in these people's homes, and if they see the loneliness and helplessness of the old people.

I don't know what their love means Don't you have the right to pursue happiness when your wife is gone?

Love is not calculated like this. When an old man meets the right choice to remarry, it doesn't mean denying everything with his ex-wife. Such remarks are definitely not a case. In rural areas, if you get married at the age of 92, people often say that you don't respect your age or think about your children.

As a result, many elderly people choose to live alone, and even if their wives leave, they dare not look for them again. The elderly are definitely a neglected group. When they grow up, their needs are ignored and even automatically reduced to the point where they don't need love and companionship.

However, old people are human. They also need someone to pay attention to and talk to. When they are sick, they also need someone to bring tea and water.

More families, children regardless of the elderly, do not let the elderly find a partner, which is the sorrow of the whole society.

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"My First Half Life" Many people are concerned about the emotional trend of Luo Zijun, but they ignore one person, Luo Zijun's mother Xue.

Her husband absconded with the money when the children were young. For so many years, she raised her two eldest daughters by herself.

Until the two daughters got married, she also wanted to pursue her own happiness.

Xue is an interesting old lady. The hardships of life did not crush her. She cleaned herself up, took an active part in the activities of the elderly and wanted to find another wife.

So she met Cui Baojian, a man who also had no wife. This man has lived abroad, with elegant speech and high income. They hit it off and decided to live together.

Luo Zijun and Luo Ziqun knew that their mother had been lonely for many years and longed for a companion. They didn't stop her, but supported her more. Cui Baojian's children disagreed, thinking that Xue Pearl was greedy for their money and forced her to sign an unequal treaty.

Compared with Xue, Cui Baojian is pathetic. His children are very promising, live in a big house and have a lot of property. They can let him live in the best nursing home, but they don't agree with him to find a wife.

Cui Baojian was very angry and broke up with his son without hesitation. He was in poor health and fell ill in various quarrels and contradictions.

In the hospital, my son and daughter are busy at work and can only hire a nurse. Only Xue accompanied him, fed him, scrubbed his body and talked to him. Soon, Cui Baojian passed away.

When Cui Baojian was sent away, Xue also fell ill. The two old people struggled for most of their lives, running around for their children, but in the end, they failed to have a good end.

In real life, there are countless old people like Cui Baojian. They are old and their wives are gone. In their later years, they just want to find someone to accompany them, even if it's cooking, buying food and wandering around.

Just such a small wish, not every child can satisfy his parents. Sometimes I think this society is ridiculous. Children talk about filial piety, but they are always busy with their own lives and have no time to accompany the elderly. At the same time, they are not allowed to find someone to accompany them.

Twilight love is always labeled with various labels, which makes more and more old people afraid to pursue love and express their needs until they die in depression and darkness.

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Why do old people always want to find a partner? Because of loneliness.

Su Daqiang in "Everything is OK" always makes a fuss, making children worry and stamping their feet with anger. The most typical plot is that he wants to marry Cai Xiao, the nanny.

Cai Xiao is not a reliable person. She not only made false accounts, but also added her name to the real estate license. However, Su Daqiang turned a blind eye. No matter how his children persuaded him, he had to get a certificate with Cai Xiao.

Even if Su Mingcheng blocked the door with a kitchen knife, so did Su Daqiang. It is true that Su Daqiang is stupid, knowing that the nanny has bad intentions and is determined to jump into the pit of fire.

Sue's children are smart, and so are the audience. Is Su Daqiang a fool? No, he's just so lonely.

After his wife died, he lived in Su Ming and became a family, but he called Su Mingzhe every three days and asked him to take himself abroad. He himself bluntly said, "I am so lonely."

When everyone objected to his being with him, he gave the reason: "You are not here, only you, Aunt Cai, are with me. It's okay to work hard and complain about three meals a day. I need company when I am old. Except for you, Aunt Cai, who can always accompany me? "

Su Mingyu exposed the nanny's scam and drove her away. Su Daqiang collapsed. He said with red eyes, "Cai Xiao just took some money from me, and I am willing. She can accompany me, be considerate and take care of me. Which of you can? ! "

Does Su Daqiang really love Cai Xiao? It may not be obvious, but what is certain is that he is too eager for this company. Even if the other person is greedy for his money, as long as he can cook for him and talk to him, he thinks everything is worth it.

He also said that Su Daqiang's children are very promising and can give him a lot of money. Why is he still unhappy? But for the elderly, what they want most is companionship. The so-called filial piety of Su Daqiang's children is to keep giving money.

No matter how rich you are materially, you can't make up for the emptiness inside. Do you think Su Daqiang is stupid? He knows better than anyone. Even if Cai Xiao has other plans, he doesn't want to give up this warmth.

For Su Daqiang, Cai Xiao has done far more for him than his children. His children just don't like him. Cai Xiao will accompany him from morning till night, cook him three meals a day and accompany him to the supermarket. This kind of satisfaction is not available to children.

Not only Su Daqiang, but all the old people are the same. They look clumsy, difficult and lengthy. In fact, they are telling you that he needs attention, warmth and companionship.

It is understandable that modern people are very busy and have no time to accompany the elderly, but can they respect the choices of the elderly? If they meet someone they love in their later years, let them do it.

They only have a few short years, so it is better to make them smile in the last journey of their lives than to be harsh.