What do you think of a boy who asks a woman for tea after a failed blind date?

? Nowadays, blind date has become a way for many single men and women to meet each other. In the past, it was generally difficult for single men and women to find a partner. Nowadays, blind date has gradually become a trend. Regardless of age, family background and education level, you can participate in blind date as long as you are willing. Blind date has become a popular way for single youth to make friends with men and women.

? A few days ago, the netizen "Little Ziweihua" told the story of her blind date-the blind date was ignored all the time, and she was asked to refund the tea fee after meeting for a week.

"Little Ziweihua" said that she met the boy on a blind date website. Boy/Kloc-0 was born in 983, and his hometown is in Jiangxi. He claimed to be a doctor of Zhejiang University. The boy introduced himself as a doctoral student at Zhejiang University and planned to continue his postdoctoral studies after graduation next year. In China, the treatment of studying for a doctorate is still good. Every month, the school will give him 4,000 yuan for living expenses, and usually help his tutor with research projects, and he also has a salary of more than 5,000 yuan. Together, these two parts are equivalent to a monthly income of nearly 6.5438+0 million yuan, and there is no need to pay taxes. The cost of living on campus is also relatively low, and life is still good.

"I thought people with such a high degree of education should be more educated. We chatted for a while and made an appointment to meet at the weekend afternoon. As a result, he was late 1 hour, and I waited for him for more than an hour. It's past 4: 30 when we met, and it's almost evening ... "Little Ziweihua complained. After waiting for an hour, the two finally met in the coffee shop of the mall. The boy ordered a cup of coffee and the girl ordered an ordinary pot of tea. Little Ziweihua feels good when chatting, but she feels that boys are a little "self-righteous". Because he talked about school life, he thought he was a doctor, and he was so conceited that he didn't even look at me at first. Later, I also said that I graduated with a master's degree and my family is also a scholarly family. His attitude is much better. "After the boys finished their coffee, they drank the black tea ordered by the girls together, and the atmosphere was very harmonious. When two people meet, the total consumption is less than 80 yuan, and the boy pays the bill. Because the boys were late, we talked for a while until after 6 pm. When it was time for dinner, we went back separately. The boy didn't say what he would do in the future, nor did he say that he would contact him later.

A week after they met, the male doctor never contacted "Xiao Wei Zi Hua" on WeChat again, so the girl greeted him without waiting for the other party to reply. "Later, I saw that he never contacted me and sent him a message. He deleted it without contacting me, and then I deleted him. " The girl said, I didn't expect that as soon as I deleted my friend, the other party immediately added another WeChat, saying: Since you deleted me, I am not a friend, then I will compensate you for more than 30 yuan.

Speaking of this, "Xiao Wei Zihua" can't help but vomit this blind date-it's really funny that the blind date has never met such a beautiful person, hahaha. Then listed the other party's three "crimes":

First: people with high academic qualifications, when they meet for the first time, girls wait for you more than 1 hour late;

Second: two people drank this pot of tea together and asked the girl to pay the full amount of this pot of tea;

Third: after meeting, he never contacted me again. It's been over a week. During this time, I greeted him and he ignored me. Most people will think that he is not interested in me, so he deleted it. Before deleting him, I told him politely. At this time, he was anxious and spoke. He added me another WeChat and asked me to pay.

Different people have different views on this. Some people think that 30 yuan can recognize a person, which is worth it. If you really wait until you get married to find that your other half is so stingy and excellent, that's regret. Boys should be generous and generous. It is normal for two people to date together, and it is also a courtesy to pay the bill. A high degree of education does not mean a good character, and cultivation is not proportional to education. Some people think this is normal. Since two people can't be together, they have always been strangers, and there is nothing wrong with it. Maybe it's just that boys hate girls deleting themselves, so they find an excuse to add themselves back, but women think too much.

I don't think we can say who is right or wrong. This is just an accidental meeting. He is a stranger to you. If you think it is inappropriate for a man to pay for a gentleman, you should do it out of education.