The first half of my life

Many soft articles I have seen recently are about full-time wives VS working women, mostly about the transformation of Luo Zijun. What I want to talk about here is Tang Jing, a woman called a goddess by Lolo, and a professional Bai Gujing.

Tang Jing VS He Han, what can be done to recover the lost 10 year?

He Han said, it's time to get married, afraid of walking for so long, and finally separated. Because of Vivian's words, Tang Jing, who had promised, didn't go to the engagement party. It seems to be Vivian's anger, but it's not. Tang Jing couldn't open up.

Women's obsession with love and fear of marriage just need the sense of security given by men. However, in love, being too rational is cruel. He Han's didactic rational workplace thinking gave Tang Jing enough time to think and prepare, but ignored the true meaning of love and the passion that love needs to pay.

He Han loves Tang Jing. Tang Jing was transferred to Hongkong, but He Han was drunk and didn't attend the farewell party. He told Chen that he loved it deeply and thought it was his most proud work, so he couldn't bear to get married and delayed his development in a better direction. On the other hand, for He Han, Tang Jing is like a work of art, because he is afraid of destroying the perfect female image he has carefully created for many years. One he Han PK and the other he Han, this may be an interesting thing, but it will also be a bloody thing.

Ten years, her ten years, and his ten years. How many decades can there be in life? Even if one side is willing to put down its pride and keep the other side. Maybe he is too stubborn, maybe he Han is too rational? They are lovers, apprentices and competitors, but neither of them puts love first.

Two people who have always felt too similar are not suitable for being together, perhaps because they have been in love for a long time and unconsciously lost their original passion, and their feelings gradually faded. It seems that there are more and more external factors, and they will disperse when they walk.

There is no lasting love in this world, but both sides need to run in, and at least one party can make a certain degree of compromise to achieve harmony. In today's commercialization, feelings are not as pure as in the old society. Even the ancient palace gardens have some intrigues, not to mention the temptations now.

It may be best to cherish the people in front of you.

Tang Jing VS China's best friend Luo Zijun.

Tang Jing and Luo Zijun in the play are simply models of girlfriends. There is a great contrast between two people with such different outlook on life, but it is better to be closer than the two sisters.

"Tang Jing and I are completely different women. Convinced that love is perishable and marriage is fragile, she pursues material and spiritual independence day and night. She said I was a frog in the well, and I said she asked for it. " -Luo Zijun

It is not difficult to see that their three views are not consistent, but the friendship when they were young is lifelong. After Luo Zijun got married, Tang Jing stood up for the first time, not only taking care of her daily life, but also giving her the direction of life.

Life needs a confidant, but that's all.

Tang Jing VS Laozhuo

Lao Zhuo, the boss of Japanese material. Tang Jing often chats with Lao Zhuo (the protagonist in the play seems to often have a drink with Lao Zhuo). Lao Zhuo's careless words sometimes bring humor and clarity.

Tang Jing VS Tang Jing, a smart and capable workplace demon.

Yi Shu's Tang Jing is beautiful, capable, independent and proud. She has been working hard for her career and constantly surpassing herself. She is tired and cruel, but she is also beautiful and cool.

Everyone will grow up. With the development of the plot, it is said on the Internet that Tang Jing is gradually blackened, and it is difficult to distinguish between true and false, but the growth and change are inevitable.

Tang Jing is a strong woman on the surface, but she is resolute and vigorous. However, the most easily overlooked "fragility" in the role is wrapped in a strong sense of professionalism and may often be ignored. On the surface, she is domineering and strong, and can control her life, but at the same time, there is a lonely little shadow in the inner corner.

In fact, when dealing with feelings, her inner thoughts are not much different from those of ordinary women. She will be jealous, she will be angry, she is dealing with this relationship with He Han, and she is also eager to be concerned and loved, always struggling with contradictions. But in the end, he Han left because of persistence and other fetters.

A confident woman is the most beautiful. From the beginning, we can see that Tang Jing is always a energetic and proud woman, and she has a clear and definite life in high life.

So is it worth the effort? Nothing is absolute, there are relative gains and losses, there are good and bad, mainly depends on whether it can reflect its own value and satisfy personal accomplishment.

As for the ending of Tang Jing in the novel, it is said that she married Mo Qianjia, who is far away. Since then, the days when she lived alone can only be left in memories and become a permanent concern. So in the end, Tang Jing, a woman who will never get married, finally got a wife. The TV ending is unknown.

Woman, it's important to manage yourself. Only by staying energetic, keeping up with social trends and striving to manage yourself can we live as confident and beautiful as Tang Jing. If you can live so freely, why bother about your love and your life?

"No one will be your safe haven in this life. Only you are your last refuge. " A brilliant life is in your own hands.