The First Half of My Life: Why did Tang Jing and He Han break up? Did you finally get together?

The first half of my life: He Han and I seem to be a good match. Why didn't we finally get together?

The domestic drama "My First Half Life" was loved by netizens as soon as it was broadcast. This urban emotional inspirational drama mainly tells the story that Luo Zijun, a full-time wife with superior and comfortable life, divorced her husband Chen, and everything went to zero. With the help of her best friend and boyfriend He Han, she broke through the predicament, entered the workplace, and moved towards the next stage of her life in self-growth.

At the end of the story, it is found that He Han played by Jin Dong and Tang Jing played by Yolanda did not come together in the end. Many netizens are curious, why did He Han and Tang Jing, who seem to be extremely well matched, finally break up? Let's analyze it together!

One is a successful, mature, considerate and single-minded bachelor, and the other is an elite and independent urban white-collar worker. In career, He Han and Tang Jing are peers who support each other, but in life, they are like-minded couples. Unlike those lightning romances, the two of them have experienced the test of long-distance love. In Bian Xiao's view, Tang Jing and He Han are a couple with high face value, high IQ and high EQ, which is very pleasing to the eye. Together, it really matches a face. But it backfired. The story ended with He Han breaking up with Tang Jing and finally getting together with Luo Zijun. No matter how you look at it, you are dumbfounded!

He Han, a high-quality male played by Jin Dong, should be a fan of The Cultivation Department and a typical controlling personality. He is decisive in the workplace and has more control than power. His way of showing kindness to friends around him is to give important advice at the right time. Ten years ago, Tang Jing was only a graduate student. It can be said that He Han and Tang Jing have also been teachers and friends in the past ten years. It was He Han who developed Tang Jingpei into an independent personality and economy. But when Tang Jing's personal consciousness is strong, their feelings are prone to problems.

Bian Xiao remembers a scene in which He Han congratulated Tang Jing on his graduation. In Bian Xiao's view, beginning means the end of their fate. This man's meticulous advice to women is actually the root of all the tragicomedy of He Han and Tang Jing. For men, when the progress speed of two people is different, the fast one will definitely leave the slow one behind and pursue a higher level of life. In fact, in the process of getting closer and closer, He Han's position in Tang Jing's heart began to gradually become an ordinary person. The moment of starting in Tang Jing actually means that He Han can talk more about Tang Jing, and there is not much extra power to help Tang Jing make progress.

Like the powerful He Han, she is a woman who is good at learning, high in IQ and ambitious, and also has a rational and tenacious side. The advice given to her by others can be quickly translated into her own skills at work. Yolanda's Tang Jing is simply a female version of He Han. Unlike He Han, Tang Jing is not a controlling person. She is sensitive, insecure and insecure. He Han is a rational person, while Tang Jing is an emotional person with a rational side.

Knowing the characters of He Han and Tang Jing, their relationship will gradually become clear. In daily life with He Han, it is difficult for Tang Jing to really relax. The two of them spend far more time talking about work than life. He Han once expressed a similar view that "all relationships are like investment", but Tang Jing asked very sensitively: What about our relationship?

Observing the relationship between He Han and Tang Jing, it is not difficult to find that these two people are not equal. He Han is the absolute leader. He is Tang Jing's boyfriend and Tang Jing's life mentor. He Han helped Tang Jing grow up every time and made Tang Jing a more independent person. This also led to a rift in their relationship. In the eyes of others, this pair of lovers who seem to be well matched are not strangers who are drifting away.

Two people's three views, abilities and personalities match, and they can get stable feelings together. If the lover pays too much for the other party and changes himself too much, it will not last long after all. It is He Han's responsibility that the relationship between Tang Jing and He Han has reached this stage. As the leader of their relationship, he let Tang Jing get too involved in his life and work. In fact, from this time on, the relationship between two people began to be mixed with too many interests. How can I live a pure life in the future?

The most important thing for men and women to help each other is not to lose their sense of proportion and not to interfere with each other too seriously. In fact, this is the same reason that Luo Zijun and Chen divorced. What a man needs is always a woman who is confident, believes in herself, accompanies herself, is a teacher and a friend, and can confide in her. Women, too, will always be tired.

The relationship between people is really subtle. However, it is nothing more than "long-term points must be combined, and long-term points must be divided." Fate is really wonderful.