Constellation with a calmer age _ Constellation woman with a calmer age

Learning to be calm is the key to a person's maturity. Which constellations are calm and wise?

A person's maturity is not only the numbers on his ID card and wrinkles on his face, but also the way and thinking mode of dealing with people. A person's manners and attitudes directly show a person's maturity. "Life is impermanent, and things are unpredictable" is sometimes one thing. It is really one thing to know that you can calmly face the wisdom that needs calmness and a mature and powerful heart.

We may not lack confidence and hard work, but too many things have changed unexpectedly. Faced with sudden disasters and changes, it is a test of a person's ability and literacy to deal with emergencies. Disaster is the blow of the weak, but it is the tempering of the strong. For setbacks and blows, the weak see pain, and the wise see opportunities. The strong are not simply temporary strength, but inner maturity and calmness. They know how to be rational and try their best to resolve the crisis. Even if they can't, so what? A lot of things are best.

Therefore, in the face of sudden disasters, a person is not hesitant, not angry, not complaining, but calmly facing it, which is the real maturity. As the saying goes, something always seems to be prepared, so as to avoid unexpected changes; When something happens, it is often as calm as nothing happens, so that the crisis in the game can be eliminated.

At that time, the light slipped from the fingertips, how many lovers finally got married, and how many heartless people eventually became strangers. The saddest thing in a relationship is that two people who once loved each other have become the most familiar strangers. Haruki Murakami said: if you love each other, you will grow old together; If you miss it, keep her safe. If we can't have spring flowers on the road of love; Then, can we walk on the road of friendship forever?

Whether you understand this world or not, it won't let you. Even if you fall to the bottom endlessly, even if you feel innocent and really wronged, no one will understand your mind. You're standing on the edge of a cliff. If you are not careful, you will fall into the abyss and disappear without a trace, so please cheer up.

Of course, solitude and loneliness are completely two concepts. Loneliness is beautiful, but loneliness is painful. I have a friend who likes to beat around the bush and doesn't like being alone at all. Only in the circle can he feel his value. In other words, the reason why he mixed circles was to brush the sense of existence.

I mentioned this problem to him and thought it didn't make much sense to his life. But I never thought that he had his own set of logic. He thought it was good to do so, so our persuasion was useless. The friend said, "One more friend is one more road. Maybe someone will help me when I need it. " Some people may think that it is disgraceful for the host to be a waiter.

However, there is no hierarchy, and not everyone needs to do the work recognized by everyone to succeed. After all, unhappy, everything is empty talk. People's choices should be multi-directional. A truly mature person is not absolutely obedient to what everyone agrees with, but knows what he wants and can choose the way he likes to stick to it. Always remember that life is your own, be loyal to yourself, be responsible for yourself, and have no regrets.