How to start chatting with girls

How to start chatting with girls? When boys want to pick up girls, they must master the skills. Many boys don't know how to start chatting with girls. I've compiled some information about how to start chatting with girls. Let's have a look.

How to Start Chatting with Girls 1 Chatting Opening Skills 1: Extract clues from photos of friends circle and get information.

You can look at the photos of girls' circle of friends, collect information and create topics.

If the girl's photo album is full of photos of cats and dogs, then you can cut into the topic of small animals.

"It looks so cute. It seems to depend on you. "

"Your dog turned out to be black. I think it must have really given up. " You can arouse a girl's curiosity. When she asked you why you said that, you replied, "Because as soon as you let go, it disappeared into the night".

"This is definitely Ke Jiquan with the longest legs I have ever seen."

Through similar topics, girls' chatterboxes can be easily opened. You can also say something funny, or talk about eye color and hair length.

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If the girl's photo album is about music, fitness and travel, we can start from these aspects.

1, send her an interesting picture.

For example, send a girl a photo of the dog in her photo album with a caption: Is this your dog? Just like a human figure (smiling face). At this time, girls can't laugh or cry, but they will be angry on purpose. Then, you apologize to her and invite her to dinner.

I seem to have seen you in the street today. Is that you?

In this case, it will definitely arouse the curiosity of girls. After all, everyone is curious.

Girls will definitely ask: Where is it?

Pick up hot chicks is an extremely brain-burning activity. In this process, you have to consume a lot of brain cells. Many times, the high-level love expert you meet is actually IQ. On the other hand, if you have the ability to chat, you don't need these opening skills at all. These are completely unnecessary. When you meet a girl you like, all you have to do is learn an opening remark, and then take the initiative to say hello to her: "Hi ~". Then you can start a conversation, have a pleasant chat with girls, and then there is nothing to worry about.

Chat opening skill 2: appropriate flirting

Boys should never think that "flirting" is a derogatory term. It is a very layered and directional behavior in the process of picking up girls, and it is also the touchstone of whether your relationship can continue. If you say you are interested in feelings, it may lead to misunderstanding between you, and you will consider how to make your feelings go further. And then flirt with her properly before that, which can be completely indirect. Whether the girl hesitates or refuses, it means that you all understand. Then you need to seriously consider whether to continue or stop next.

In fact, there are many skills to pick up girls. The most important thing is to internalize the skill into his own ability, instead of copying the example all the time. Of course, the process of internalization requires a lot of practical experience, rather than memorizing the opening remarks like memorizing lines. If you want to make a quick decision, don't hesitate to go up and have a chat, and then you can continue to mature in your relationship.

Wechat chat opening skill 3: Q.

In fact, the most important thing to chat with girls is not to be smart, but to let girls have something to say and keep talking. Therefore, asking questions is a good way for you to ask and answer each other.

First, you need to know what girls are good at, and then start asking questions.

For example, "I've always wanted to have a golden retriever. Do dogs need me to walk every day? What should I pay attention to when raising golden retrievers? I think this kind of dog is very human. " If that girl loves dogs like children, your chat will be smooth.

"succulent gardener, do you know which succulents are better to raise? I am a person who can raise a cactus to death. What kind of meat do you think is congenial to me? "

How to start chatting with girls II. How to start chatting with girls

1, new girl

Recommend simple and clear opening remarks:

Hello. hello. . .

Greeting expression. . .

2. Girls who have talked several times

1, you can share yourself.

Although it is said that you should not check your account when chatting, nothing can stop you from sharing yourself with girls.

The girl you just talked to a few times is still in the unfamiliar stage. You can take the initiative to share yourself with girls and enhance understanding. For example, you can share your work life, interesting things around you, or your current situation with girls. . .

For example:

I received a courier today, and the merchant gave me a package naughty, and got three floors in succession.

2. Start with the girl's nearest circle of friends.

Although I don't want to check my account when chatting, I can still talk about some topics that girls are willing to talk about, such as the recent friend status of girls.

For example:

M: I found one of your characteristics.

Woman: What?

M: Look at your circle of friends and find that you are a foodie.

Woman: Ha ha ha, you caught me.

3. Talk about some topics that girls are interested in.

I know you must want to know what topics girls are interested in. The enthusiastic conductor has prepared a topic of interest to girls for you. : food, travel, pets, constellations, entertainment gossip, psychological tests. . .

For example:

For example, if you brush Tik Tok and see an interesting pet video, you can send it to a girl.

4. Ask girls what they are good at

Although I don't want to check my hukou when chatting, asking girls what they are good at will still give them a little value satisfaction. For example, when strangers ask for directions, we will give them enthusiastic advice.

For example:

Do you know how to apply for your club?

Do you know how to press the chords of the guitar? (If a girl can play the guitar)

5. Arouse girls' curiosity

Every one of us is curious about the world from birth, which arouses the curiosity of girls and makes chatting easier.

Example 1:

I found a feature that you are different from others.

I can't believe you appeared in my dream yesterday.

6. Universal emoticon pack

Although it is said that you should not check your account when chatting, nothing can stop you from using Yan characters.

3. Girls who like you better.

I have a good impression of you. Girl, you can drive directly, but remember to take the girl's feedback as a traffic rule.

Girls just get on the bus and drive slowly, so that girls think you are a reliable driver.

Example 1:

Man: Can I start playing tricks on you?

Example 2:

Man: I talk to you and you ignore me. Can't you type?

Woman: I will.

M: I don't believe it. Just say I want to go to the movies with you.

Woman: Routine.

Man: Yes, just because you are good-looking.

How to chat with girls at first 3 How to chat with girls at first

1. Tell me about your hometown. Whether you are from the same place as a girl or not, you can talk about your hometown. If you are a fellow countryman, there will naturally be more topics. If you come from a different place, you can talk about the human geography of your hometown, local attractions and snacks. Many topics can be extended from the local customs of your hometown.

2. Tell me about childhood. If you are about the same age as a girl, you can tell some stories about your childhood and the process of reading. Many similar experiences can be found in the process of chatting about interesting childhood stories, which can stimulate common topics and open the floodgates.

3. talk about interests. Everyone has his own hobbies. You can talk about some interesting activities you are doing recently, such as traveling, sports, singing, watching movies and so on. Young people usually have a wide range of hobbies. By talking about hobbies and finding the same hobbies, you can move from chatting to activity interaction.

4. Chatting with friends, chatting with girls can talk about your circle of friends and personal network, and maybe you can find friends that everyone knows. If you have common friends, the distance will be closer, and there will be more questions around friends, and the two will talk more and more speculatively.

5, talk about hot topics, girls are usually very interested in the current hot topics, such as talking about recent popular variety shows or movies, TV dramas and so on. , from which we can find some common topics.

Skills of chatting with girls

1, when chatting with a girl, when talking about her views and opinions on some issues, don't deny the girl's views, so that she will feel that everything she says is wrong, she doesn't want to say anything, and her words are getting less and less. Affirm her point of view and praise her ideas, so that she will feel that she has your affirmation and support, and gradually, she will trust you and be willing to tell you her psychological words. In this way, we can bring you closer.

2. In the chat, you can guide the topic, talk about what you are interested in and what you are good at, try to arouse her interest and let her get to know you gradually.

3, chat, you can make some bad jokes, even a little funny, not bad. Girls are generally not so stingy. On the contrary, these jokes can make them happy and have a good effect.

Sometimes, you can find opportunities to try to shift the topic to your strengths and increase girls' goodwill towards you.

5. A topic that is too professional is hard to resonate. At this time, you can talk about the most familiar topic, which must be their recent work and life. Really not good. Starting with today's weather, and then talking about climate deterioration, environmental problems, small animals, small pets and so on, very good.

6. Girls generally like to talk about life problems. You can also talk to her about these problems. But you must add your own understanding and opinions, which will make you more independent and mature.

Talk to girls about what?

1, keep pace with the times and keep up with current events: you can talk about news, (hot) sports, community or politics (political topics should avoid choosing controversial content, which may lead to too intense debate)

2, moderately praise each other's clothes or decorations: you can ask each other where to buy, why to buy, how much (joking, don't ask) and so on. When chatting with people you don't know, you must observe carefully.

3. Be good at listening: When chatting, always show concern and interest in each other's topics. For example, if another person says, "They are simply wonderful", you can then ask, "Why?" Or ask "Where can I try these great things?" If the other person says he is tired, the topic of "tired" will continue. Remember, successful small talk and good relationships are actually very simple, not as far away as you think.

4. Share your experience with the other person: You can share some trivial things in your life, such as losing your keys, finding $65,438+00, or finding a nice new restaurant or a new CD recently.

5. Ask the other person what movies or books they have seen recently: The first time I was asked a similar question was at a party. I admit that when I heard this question, I felt that the other party was very artificial, but later on, the topic of books left us both unfinished and very happy. So chatting also needs to try new topics.

6. Ask some open-ended questions: For example, "How are you?" It's a closed question, which doesn't give the other party a chance to say more. But it is much more effective if the questions are set to be open-ended, such as "What's going on with you and _ _". ; "Hello (_ _ _ can be work-related, family problems, financial investment, etc. )? Remember, anything can be a potential topic. You can even tell the other person that you are not good at chatting with others, or you can ask the other person how to do it so well.

Skills of talking to girls

1, before talking to anyone, be sure to be polite and keep smiling, especially to your daughter. Maybe your behavior will become a good impression like a gentleman in her eyes.

2. Secondly, we should pay attention to controlling the tone and voice when speaking. Generally speaking, girls don't like boys who speak too loudly, and their tone should be as gentle as possible.

Actually, you don't need any professional knowledge to talk to girls. You can talk about family, entertainment and small things around you at will. Talking about these topics can make both sides feel relaxed. It is not as heavy as talking about professional topics, and there is no need to find a topic specifically.

4. Don't be too stiff when you speak. Say something light-hearted from time to time. You can tell some jokes, cooperate with body language, and don't exaggerate your actions.

In the process of chatting, pay attention to what you say. Once you hear a girl's tone is impatient or her expression changes, you'd better stop your current topic. Maybe girls are not interested in what you are saying now, so consider changing the topic.

Finally, don't be afraid of failure when talking to girls. It is possible that the first time you speak is not ideal, but you should be patient. More importantly, you should have confidence. After a long time, self-confidence will be reflected in your appearance. Most girls like confident boys.