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It is difficult to talk about first love at the beginning of everything. What are the reasons why I can't fall in love?

What are the reasons why I can't fall in love? It is the season when trees are going to blossom and people are going to fall in love. Unfortunately, the grass in the western suburbs is green every year, and tourists are more or less like last year.

Single mothers and fetuses are jealous groups. They watch the tourists in the western suburbs leave. Although I have never been in love, I have experienced some normal emotional fluctuations, such as temptation and unrequited love. However, the feeling of heartbeat is fleeting, and wasting time has become a lonely feeling.

Indeed, among many types of problems, the difficulty of love can definitely rank among the top three. No wonder many young people simply give up love and say, "It's better to have sex than to make money."

However, even if we shake the wisdom of the whole world, we will still feel lonely. Who wants to fall in love on and off? When he saw a masked man with beautiful eyes on the subway, he began to think?

Show sincerity and learn to love. The love theory is too dogmatic, the sweet pet plot is not credible, and the love of ordinary people is always possible? Open it. People dare to touch each other's hair the first time they meet. Is this the boss I can face in the novice village?

In this sense, Youku's first love variety "I have never talked about love", whether really inspired by social platforms or the feelings of creators, is an effective feedback to social reality and a timely rain for us "old bachelors". Several people around me ran to sign up.

Moreover, as Friends really lost the election, the program finally started, and the problem to be solved became clearer: why is a person always single? TA how to take the first step of love; Will eating the first love candy be less sweet and sour than those who are good at "pushing and pulling", or too bland?

The most important thing is: can the program help me take off the bill?

Why can't I fall in love?

In Zhihu and Netease Cloud, every lonely night, every parent will inevitably ask: Why can't I fall in love?

In The Art of Love, Fromm tries to tell a truth: what people lack is not the object of love, but the ability to love; Love is a flower that grows in the heart, not a net to catch prey.

Smart young people will only feel embarrassed once they come to love. In the online crowd that emphasizes data privacy, few people will take out the chat screenshots of their favorite objects and read them online.

"Crushing, does this mean that he is angry?" "My boyfriend who didn't go ashore for postgraduate study comforted me, but I let him ignore me for 24 hours. Too much. " "It is very interesting for me to refuse blind date AA."

As Internet aborigines, young people have weakened their skills of foreign communication and interconnection while strengthening their discourse expression. Either there is a heart without courage, and the other party has struggled for 800 times without realizing it; Or love is incompetent, and it is impossible to love a real person at all.

All kinds of "symptoms" are shown in I've never been in love. The program invited several single young people who have never been in love, and took the first step of romantic island life. Whether it is social fear, social bull, introversion or straight ball, we can see the shadow of their social personality, and the immersive experience is like being there.

First of all, people clap their hands with seals to resonate. "Cows outside the society are afraid inside" Yang. Because Mr. Hard Candy is the same, actually the seemingly crazy output inside has escaped. Yang looks energetic and keeps talking, but he forces himself to be brave and doesn't want to embarrass others.

Facing Cao's forced smile, Yang is still trying to make girls fall in love with international economic and trade work. It was good to meet for the first time and completed the "business negotiation". In other words, there are still a lot of "point-to-point" boys this year, and they are definitely rare animals. The appearance of Oba in South Korea+the core of Grandpa China's quadrangle, Cao Can said more.

On the first day, Luo blew himself up, claiming that he was "lazy, homesick and afraid of socializing". He is not good at words, but he envies others at heart. "eager to get rid of social fear" type. What is rare is that Xu Wenting's EQ is super high and can be used. "I met the most special person as soon as I started" is easy to resolve.

When we first met, the boys were confused, while the girls were still walking around. However, the contrast between girls is also unexpected. Xu has a high demand for his partner's emotional value and never flinches from the "passive type" without positive response.

Cao is an active person in society, but he is passive. Cai is a passive socialist, but when he shows goodwill, he is straightforward. These contrasts make me look like a social picture book: don't judge young people easily, because they can only define themselves.

Through the observation of social behavior, I have never talked about love and clarified many stereotypes and misunderstandings. When they get up the courage to tell their inner cowardice from time to time, this is also the positive value of the project's active guidance. Grow up before falling in love, and find a better self while looking for love.

If you want to be loved, please love first.

Others laugh at my mother-in-law, and I laugh at others for not wearing it. Stay single because it's right. Don't you like Sweet Love? After reading "I have never been in love", 80% of them feel weak. No wonder some sociologists feel: "Many times, people say that modern people are not romantic. In fact, we don't give ourselves romantic opportunities. Don't be fooled by the appearance of lying flat after 00. In fact, they are seriously in love. "

I have never been in love shows the common mentality of young people in dealing with intimate relationships: resistance and desire. They need to take off the protective "social mask" first and pursue love with more real and calm performance. The hut on Nanmenwan Island in Fujian only constitutes an imitation environment suitable for gentle communication. Scene promotion and small games encourage excited but inactive guests to trot faster.

If there is no special activity in the bonfire square, how will they spend this wonderful evening? Yang must open snacks to replenish energy, while the girls share their experiences today with their best friends. But it is through reading A Letter to First Love that they have a chance to explore each other's inner world-and once they do, you will find that everyone's heart is a treasure.

Yang, dressed in red, appeared romantically in front of his girlfriend. I'm sorry, Xia Zi in A Chinese Odyssey is automatically substituted here: "My lover is a hero, and one day he will marry me in golden armor with colorful auspicious clouds."

Girls' letters are also breaking the defense. Cai quoted Shu Ting's To the Oak Tree: "Although it seems like a farewell, it is a lifetime." Xu Wenting, on the other hand, compared intimacy to comrades-in-arms who can go back to back. How many times has he choked emotionally: "I like to eat spicy food, eat sweet food and entertain myself, and I like you very much."

I have to say that "hanging wind chimes" is a great measure to encourage Xiao Bai to express his feelings in love. Their sensitivity and fragility are not suitable for the expression of open cooperation like other love complexes. A little trouble may destroy not the climate, but a heart This way of expressing feelings and avoiding embarrassment only protects the bud of love.

Under the careful care of the program, he and Yang, who are new here, have a spark. After Luo fled from his seat, Cai still firmly wrote down each other's names. In Encouragement of Love, we also learn more and more about the young people's advance and retreat, love and fear.

Love Xiaobai's first love story is not only an attempt at intimacy, but also the beginning of breaking social isolation. Seeing the sadness and embarrassment when the heart comes, the crystal beauty when the fish ruler sends vegetarian food, and the sadness and melancholy when he expects failure, everything is the most beautiful appearance of love, and everything happens in the intoxicated night of spring breeze.

What do you want? What do you want when you are together?

Food decompression, chicken soup treatment, terror stimulation, each entertainment product has a clear tonality and audience. What do we want when we look at love? Is it the experience of emotional compensation after substituting into the role, or is it just the fun of eating sugar, or is it really the secret of learning to love vertically and horizontally?

I'm afraid neither. "I've never been in love" was defeated in the second guessing group, which still proved the cause of love, just as Wang Cong summed it up as "unpredictable and elusive". In this uncertainty, the only certainty is "the courage to love", "the ability to love" and "the perception of love". Grasping the certainty of personal happiness may be the social value of love in the uncertainty of the torrent of the times.

What are the reasons why I can't fall in love? For fear of not being able to blend in with everyone, Luo once wanted to escape. If love incompetence is regarded as a symptom, open it, such as People who have never talked about love, Watching the World, and Today I met a crush group, the dating posts of straight men will find that people's ability to deal with intimate relationships has a trend of intergenerational degradation.

Just like this song, love is not a warm dinner, okay? Don't imagine that you can get love by doing nothing, and don't take risks, thinking that netizens can really help you complete the flower path. When you are in a hurry, you should face the lack of ability.

As a social phenomenon, the observation room set up in Love Synthesis is often analyzed from the perspective of the diversity of guests and pays attention to some symptoms of the times. Just like Dayu's flood control, guiding the situation according to the situation can relieve depression.

In Never Said, he often interprets the thoughts and ideas of the guests from the perspective of the mother list. Don't say that. Sometimes he guessed it himself. Sure enough, mothers know the list of mothers best. Zhai analyzed the behavior choice of the guests from the perspective of young people. Zhong's point of view is intellectual tenderness, while Wang hates iron and wants to teach young people in the program.

Is it the lack of love object or the lack of love energy? "Never been in love" and "grow up" complete the answer. On the one hand, it is to give advice to young people, let them see the beauty of love and encourage them to try and change. This is personal psychotherapy. Young people might as well start to change themselves when they see ordinary guests become brave.

On the other hand, it explores the social influence factors of young people's singleness, such as the stereotype and incomprehension attitude towards young people with single mothers, and advocates a more tolerant public opinion environment. After all these years, I finally have a comprehensive love that can understand my mother's singleness. Being single is not because I am strange, but because I need love more. With a little courage and proper soil, maternal love may be sweeter.

What are the reasons why I can't fall in love? "If someone thinks that all fruits are ripe strawberries, then he knows nothing about grapes." Encourage late-maturing single youth not to be unloved. "I have never been in love" is obviously a good guide-about love, about being loved, about opening up and about understanding others, we need to take the first step bravely.