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What kind of experience is pregnancy? How painful is it to have a baby? This article is too complete.

Actually, my pregnancy didn't go so smoothly. I am 1 20 17 months pregnant. At that time, I found that I was very excited. After telling my husband, he was also very happy. We also fantasized about being parents.

However, this excitement didn't last long, because when I went to the hospital for the first 1 b ultrasound, the doctor told me that there was no fetal heart rate and embryo bud (from the last menstruation, I was probably pregnant for more than 50 days. Under normal circumstances, the fetus will have embryo bud in 50 or 60 days, but everyone's menstrual cycle will be different. It is recommended that pregnant mothers remember their menstrual date clearly so that doctors can accurately calculate your gestational age in the later period.

At that time, my mood became uneasy, and the doctor asked me to check again 1~2 weeks. You can imagine how complicated my mood was in those two weeks. Unfortunately, when I checked two weeks later, I still didn't see the fetal heart and germ. At that time, I was nearly 70 days pregnant, and the doctor made a diagnosis: the quality of the embryo was not good, and abortion was recommended. The longer I wait, the worse it will be for my health.

In desperation, with grief, my husband and I decided to have an abortion. I still remember the moment I walked out of the hospital, I cried, and my husband comforted me. He said: nothing, maybe our baby is not ready yet. When you are ready, he will definitely come back to us.

It's hard to get and lose. I hope all your precious mothers will never have this experience in their lives.

After the abortion, I rested at home for half a month, and then I returned to work. After I went to the company, I heard from my colleagues that there was a colleague in exactly the same situation as me. Of course, his son is over one year old now, which is undoubtedly a great encouragement to me. I know that since it doesn't help, the most important thing is to adjust your mood and make persistent efforts, and the child will definitely come back.

After more than a year of adjustment, I drank Chinese medicine halfway, ate folic acid in advance, and often ran and skipped rope with my husband to strengthen my exercise, feeling fully prepared.

In the first half of 2020, I found myself pregnant again. I was so happy. I feel that my child has come back to me. This time, I was very careful and thought I must not lose it again.

Since I found out that I was pregnant, I have been taking my car to work, and no one has ever gone to work again. Some people may say: too melodramatic, not pregnant. But for our mother who failed once, she really can't stand the toss, so she will be extra cautious.

Fortunately, the fetus developed well this time. I have seen the embryo buds of fetal heart for more than 50 days. When I heard the doctor say "everything is fine", I really burst into tears, no exaggeration.

However, something worrying happened again. The doctor told me that "the child has choroid plexus cyst". 1 The first time I heard the word cyst, I was at a loss. I thought about what was going on, but the doctor told me, "It's not serious. Most fetuses will have it. With the growth of gestational age, most of them will slowly absorb it."

In this way, I feel uneasy again 1 month, and I have absorbed it when I review again.

After going through these two times, although I finally saved the day, I really deeply felt that sentence: having a child is to constantly upgrade and blame, and the test is the mother's endurance.

In the first three months, my morning sickness reaction was not so great, my work intensity was good, and I could go to work normally, so everything was within tolerance. The only change is that I sleep more every day, and I fall asleep after eating at home, so that I gained 8 pounds when I was filing for three months. Compared with the normal standard, 8 kg is already a lot. It is normal for many pregnant mothers who have a large reaction to morning sickness to lose weight in the first three months.

So at that time, the doctor reminded me to exercise properly every day and not to go to bed after dinner. If my weight grows too fast, it's not good for the fetus.

From then on, after eating every day, I walked around the house properly to prevent excessive weight gain, but it was all under control.

In terms of diet, the taste of pregnant women will change with the secretion of estrogen in your body after pregnancy. For example, I used to love eggs, but I couldn't smell them after I got pregnant. This is a normal phenomenon. Pregnant women can choose nutritious food according to the change of taste. In the first three months, there is no need to make up. You should supplement protein and eat more beans and vegetables. You can also download a pregnancy APP, which has everything, just what you should eat and what you shouldn't eat.

After three months, the morning sickness reaction will basically be greatly relieved. For pregnant mothers with heavy morning sickness, three months is a threshold to return to heaven from hell at once. At this time, you can do what you want. Of course, it varies from person to person. Some pregnant mothers will not relieve morning sickness until the fourth month.

After that, we will reach the stage of steady growth, that is, we should have a physical examination on time, pay attention to diet and rest, and the most important thing is to keep a good mood, which is really important. Mothers are all blx, but whenever there is any abnormal reaction, they will wonder if there is something wrong with their children. In fact, this mentality is not good, so it is most important for pregnant mothers to maintain a stable mentality. If you have nothing to do, you can listen to music, take a walk with your husband and chat with your baby, which is good for your child's development.

Perhaps the most exciting thing is that when the baby has fetal movement, most of them will have fetal movement around 19~20 weeks. That feeling is completely different from what I felt before. Children are walking around your stomach like elves, which makes people feel extremely excited.

I still remember that time 1 when I felt the baby's fetal movement. I ate a little pepper and suddenly felt as if I had been kicked in the stomach. That's the beginning of fetal movement. I also joked with my husband: did I heat the child, so he was kicking me.

After the fetal movement, the mother can want to interact with the child, play prenatal music for him, or ask the father to tell him stories. These are all effective ways of interaction. Children really have feelings. At that time, after 7 o'clock every night, I asked my husband to talk to the children. Every time I speak, the children react greatly. This really seems to be a tacit understanding between father and son. That's great.

Three stages of pregnancy: pre-NT, mid-ovulation and less ovulation, and late color Doppler ultrasound. After these passes, pregnant mothers can feel at ease and wait for labor.

In the third trimester, many pregnant women are in a difficult time, and their legs and feet will be swollen, accompanied by other discomfort, such as pudendal pain, restless sleep at night, and difficulty breathing.

So at this time, the husband's role is very great. On the one hand, he wants to give you psychological comfort and companionship, on the other hand, he wants to help you reduce some burdens physically, such as pinching your shoulders and legs.

As the saying goes: what kind of husband to marry, once pregnant, you will know. It's true.

In the pre-production period, mothers who are pregnant 1 time will be very nervous, which is understandable, because after all, everyone has never experienced such a big event. But the more this time, the more you should have a fearless attitude, because the more nervous you are, the worse your production will be.

I saw red eight days before the due date. At that time, I immediately told my husband that it happened to be Saturday and my husband didn't go to work. After I found myself red, I took a shower, thinking that if I had a baby, I wouldn't be able to take a shower for a few days.

But at that time, there were no other symptoms except redness, so we considered whether to go to the hospital, and finally we decided to go to the hospital to be on the safe side. I went to the hospital, and the doctor gave me fetal heart monitoring, and everything was normal. But because there were no contractions, the doctor asked us to come back and said that we would wait until there were contractions before rushing to the hospital.

After returning home, I also quietly waited for the children to start. Irregular contractions didn't appear until the next morning, but when I thought of going to the hospital, the doctor would definitely let me wait, because the hospital we went to was a provincial third-class first-class hospital, and the beds were very tight.

The team also asked the doctor, who told us to go to the hospital as soon as the contractions were normal.

Wait until after eleven o'clock in the evening, the contractions will be every ten minutes, every ten seconds, and we will go to the hospital quickly. Go to the hospital for emergency treatment, go to the hospital. The doctor in the hospital gave me an internal examination first, saying that the palace was a little eloquent.

I still remember the feeling of internal examination, which is sour and refreshing, and will really be unforgettable for a lifetime. And the most embarrassing thing is that a handsome male doctor gave me an internal examination, but I didn't care so much at that time and didn't think there was any problem. I also understand that doctors have no gender.

The contractions in the back continue to strengthen, from the first ten minutes to the back five minutes and then to three minutes. It hurt badly. I went to the delivery room three times during the period, and asked the midwife to do an internal examination every time to tell me how the cervix was opened. From one point to one finger, the midwife keeps encouraging you: "Come on! Two fingers can be painless! "

This sentence is like a bright lamp, guiding me and giving me strength.

Four hours later, I finally touched the second finger. The midwife asked me, "Is it painless to open the second finger?" "fight!" My answer has never been so loud and urgent, because it is a fact! Yes! Also! It hurts! Yes!

When I expressed my needs, the anesthesiologist quickly came to the delivery room. It can be said that painless is simply the greatest gospel for pregnant women. After painless, I feel from hell to heaven. The pain stopped immediately and the doctor told me to go back to the delivery room to rest. When I came back, I slept until dawn.

The next morning, the doctor gave me a lot of internal examinations, from 4 fingers, 5 fingers to 8 fingers, and I was pushed into the delivery room. The moment my amniotic fluid broke, it was like a warm current flowing out of my body. To be honest, I panicked.

But think about having a professional team in a top three hospital, what is terrible. I really can't think so much about that meeting. Anyway, there is a feeling of "I am a swordfish", which is no exaggeration. It is said that when a woman gives birth to a child, it is the least solemn time, because you are lying naked on the delivery bed, and there is nothing to be ashamed of. There is only full cooperation with what you are asked to do, thinking: everything goes well! Everything goes well! The child is very healthy! The child is very healthy!

After a long period of hard work, breathing in, breathing out, and methodical rhythm, under the unbearable shit and urine, the child's crying declared your victory, and instantly felt a lot lighter, and his stomach sank a lot immediately.

Although there are some operations such as umbilical cord cutting and tearing, the body will be numb and the pain will be relieved a lot.

The doctor brought the child over, touched your face and told you the sex. I just glanced at my side face, a wrinkled little face with a lot of sticky liquid on it, like a little old man.

But as long as you are healthy, everything else is secondary, and the safety of mother and child is the greatest blessing.

The doctor pushed the child out first, and I stayed in the delivery room. We have to observe it for two hours before going out. So I didn't see the cruel picture of the legendary wife and children going out together, and the husband ran to the children and ignored his wife. I thought it was a test for my husband to see what his reaction was, but unfortunately I didn't have the chance.

After two hours of observation, there was nothing unusual. At the moment when the nurse pushed me out of the delivery room, I went out and saw my husband standing outside the delivery room. To be honest, the soldiers returned home in triumph, which is a sense of pride. At the same time, the big stone in my heart finally fell to the ground, and my heart was a lot easier.

Husband took the nurse's hand and pushed the wheelchair. "Wife, you have worked hard." A few simple words are enough to make people feel warm.

This is probably the whole process of giving birth, and now the body has recovered almost. Looking back now, I still feel that everything is in a trance, thus completing a major event in my life.

Fortunately, the result is not very bad. At least now my husband is considerate and ready to help you share the hard work of taking care of your baby. My mother-in-law gave me strength, did all the housework at home, and took care of me after giving birth.

Therefore, having a baby is not so terrible. Women are pushed by life and gradually become fighters of life. We cut through thorns, put on heavy armor for the children and the family.

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