How to make lazy cancer Leo take the initiative to undertake housework?

? Lions are lazy, but few people can see this side of the lion. Many people see the enthusiasm and diligence of the lion, because enthusiasm and diligence can satisfy the realization of self-worth. So if you see the lazy side of Leo, it means that you are very close to Leo, because in front of people who are not close, Leo will be very diligent.

So since you are a very close person, I wonder if you have noticed what Leo needs most. Yes, it is a sense of accomplishment. If something can make him feel fulfilled, he will take the initiative to do it even if no one asks him to do it. So if a Leo doesn't like housework, or his enthusiasm for housework is not high every time, and he needs three invitations and four reminders, then you can actually think about whether there is a sense of accomplishment in doing housework for the lion.

Did you often praise or reward him when doing housework before? If not, it is difficult for the lion to insist on doing one thing, because in the lion's view, it can't reflect his value, so it doesn't matter to him whether he does it or not. It was a waste of time and energy to do it, so he simply gave it up. Because the starting point of all lion actions is to reflect self-worth.

Therefore, if Leo wants to take the initiative to undertake housework, he should find a sense of accomplishment and his own value in doing housework. You can praise him more in this respect and give him recognition. In this way, the lion gradually has a sense of self-satisfaction, and then naturally takes the initiative to undertake housework without your invitation. This is also called "there is a way to control the lion".