How to ask for help?

How to ask for help: be kind, don't say unpleasant words, be positive, don't say anything frustrating, don't say anything demeaning to yourself, don't say anything that makes the other person worry, doubt or urge, and don't say anything ambiguous and specious.

1, speak kindly, don't say anything unpleasant.

Since you are asking for help, you should have an attitude of asking for help, be as kind and humble as possible in language, let the other person have a good impression on you first, and then he can help you. On the contrary, if you speak too directly and always say something disgusting and unpleasant, then no matter how important and reasonable you want to do, the other party will often disagree.

2, a positive attitude, don't say depressed, discouraged.

Walking in the society, as long as you choose to ask for help, you must have encountered some difficulties that you can't solve yourself. At this time, there will inevitably be anxiety, pain and depression, and it is understandable to say something depressing when dealing with people around you.

Don't say anything to belittle yourself.

Some people always look condescending when asking for help, which really demeans themselves to the dust. We don't deny that we must keep a low profile when asking for help, but we can't belittle ourselves and blindly raise others. If you belittle yourself too much, you will inevitably appear timid and unconfident, which will make the other person look down on you. Therefore, sometimes, it is better to seek truth from facts and not to belittle yourself blindly.

4. Don't worry, doubt and urge each other.

When you ask for help, you are often anxious. It is understandable to hope that the other party can promise and help you do it at once, but it is best not to say anything that is eager to achieve success and urges the other party, nor to say anything that is worrying or doubtful that the other party can't do it.

Don't say ambiguous and specious words.

Since you are asking for help, you must make it clear to get the other party's approval. If you feel embarrassed, make your words ambiguous, specious and secretive, so that the other party can guess your heart.