How long do you think it usually takes lovers to fall in love?

The so-called love period is mainly the intersection of physical habits, thinking habits and behavior habits. The definition of habit formation in psychology is 1 month or so, and the stability of a habit is about 3 months. For example, newlyweds will choose honeymoon, which can also be said to grasp the emotional enthusiasm of revisiting the love period.

Love period is not fixed in a certain stage of feelings. Love can be love at first sight or marathon. There is no fixed pattern and time limit, depending on the situation.

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According to New Scientist Maraziti, Malac, an Italian female scientist, found that the gender difference in love is not so obvious, because during the period of love, the levels of male hormones in men and women tend to be the same. In other words, men are more like women, and women are more like men.

Men will become more tender and affectionate, and women will become more affectionate. In addition, some social and psychological factors also affect this change of men and women in love.

First of all, this is the different requirements of social traditional culture for men and women. In our cultural tradition, men are always required to be generous, generous, calm and tolerant, and don't haggle over every ounce. For women, society can accept their changeable personality.

Secondly, when there is a dispute in love, men and women have different endurance, and women are more vulnerable and angry.

Thirdly, there are some differences in self-confidence between men and women. With the development of sexual psychology, adolescent girls pay more and more attention to their gender roles and physical characteristics. Whether they are slim or beautiful is something that worries and annoys her. Women in love are anxious about more things, which is why they love to be angry.

Finally, men and women have different roles in love. When a man exerts his initiative, the more eager he is to pursue, the more nervous he is, and the more gentle he is than usual. In love, women will intentionally or unintentionally set some obstacles for their boyfriends to see if they can tolerate themselves, or simply test them by playing with their temper.

Psychologist Jung once pointed out that men have some feminine psychological characteristics, and women also have masculine psychological characteristics. In the special situation of love, these characteristics have been fully displayed.