Did Wang Qiuyu really love Zhu Yaqiong after watching Goodbye to My Lover?

What Wang Qiuyu loves most is his career and children. The essence of career is money+self-realization, and the essence of children is the continuation of his life.

Wang's personality has two obvious characteristics: inferiority and arrogance.

This part of inferiority is reflected in psychological motivation: "You let me express my love and make me feel weak. I don't want to be that weak self, I am strong. " Only when the achievements brought by the cause are visible can we prove our value and gain self-affirmation.

The arrogant part is that he thinks that "I gave you my whole life, and I gave you the most reliable and beautiful life, which is the greatest love for you", while your other spiritual needs, emotional needs and value needs are all excessive demands, and you want too much.

So everything he loves is his own needs, and he is only willing to give Zhu Yaqiong the minimum needs (survival needs). Moreover, his love in this way is also centered on his own needs. Its essence is that my career and life need a solid background of a "happy family". My son needs to love his mother most, and my body and social role need a woman who loves me.

What Zhu Yaqiong wants is not a sense of ceremony, but love, real love. What is important is your heartfelt love for me, which includes: treating me as an equal soul, appreciating, distressed, longing, and a strong desire to grow up with me, understand the true meaning of life together, and become each other's spiritual partners. Not a life partner.