Small contradictions are difficult to solve.

Who are the three constellations that will not take the initiative to reconcile when there is a contradiction? Many people will have conflicts with others, while some people like to be honest with others, and then they can solve the disputes quickly. But some people are stubborn and often make some grading behaviors in contradictions. Let's take a look at these twelve constellations that are not good at solving contradictions and will never take the initiative to mediate with friends!

When you have a conflict with Aries, whether it is a quarrel or cold violence, it is bound to be difficult to calm this dispute in a short time. Because Aries people care enough to spend time with you and have enough confidence not to take the initiative to mediate. No matter who is right or wrong at the root of the contradiction, Aries belongs to the kind of people who don't like to bow their heads and show weakness. The fiercer you are to him, Aries can only be fiercer than you, and it is impossible to take the initiative to ease the dispute. It's not that they don't want to relax, but that they don't want to encourage each other's strength and mania.

In short, Aries people are not good at solving contradictions. Once their differences are in a confrontational situation, they are likely to gradually become cold and violent, and then they will fight you desperately. Before you take the initiative to lower your head and mediate with Aries, Aries will care enough to fight them all the time. Not that Aries is unreasonable. We just don't want each other to feel afraid of each other, and we don't want people to think that you are your own fault. So I will never do anything positive mediation, but I can't think of other ways to deal with it.

Virgo Virgo people don't like long-term contradictions and conflicts with others, but if they really encounter contradictions, they will never tolerate and give in. They know how to be honest with others, but they are not going to pay for others' mistakes. As long as you are not the producer of contradictions, Virgo will never take the initiative to mediate or even take the initiative to alleviate. Because Virgo needs the other person to admit his mistakes with a correct attitude, instead of tolerating each other with his own grievances.

In short, Virgo doesn't like to breed contradictions, but she is not good at solving them. Once they meet the clamor and stimulation of others, they are more likely to turn contradictions into more intractable family cold violence or consume each other with confrontation. If they are really allowed to ease their differences by presenting facts and reasoning, they are likely to say some harsh words to arouse more intense contradictions. Therefore, Virgo slowly learns cold violence, and soon becomes inarticulate when there is disagreement, waiting for others to take the initiative to solve it.

Gemini Gemini people are impatient and outspoken. Once you two have a conflict, don't expect Gemini people to take the initiative to mediate before you show weakness, because they are not good at dealing with conflicts, especially when they are upset. Even if they have a small mind to ease their differences, they don't have to make positive concessions. Instead, we will determine our attitude according to each other's mentality. If she is domineering, he will not give up first, and then the contradiction will intensify again in this confrontation.

For Gemini people, contradictions must be solved together, and there will never be unilateral mediation. Because we are worried about deceiving ourselves and others, and we are also afraid that our goodwill will be ignored by the other party. Gemini people don't care about maintaining a confrontational state, and then quietly wait for each other's next move. If the other person steps down for himself, there is no need to confront himself; If the other party has no idea of mediation, Gemini people will not care about making trouble again.