Be a wandering parent who finds the "bright spot" of his children.

I learned the direction and orientation in math class. One day after school, as soon as my son entered the house, he shouted happily, "Mom, look at the first map in my life. This is not the homework assigned by the teacher! " "The child looked proud and excited.

I quickly leaned down and saw a very detailed road map to school, which clearly marked the main units and buildings near the school, and also intimately marked the orientation "East, South, West and North", and even the topographic map zigzag restored the route to school.

I couldn't help shouting excitedly, "Wow, that's great! The first map in your life is really detailed and accurate, and people who don't know the way can understand it at a glance. " At this time, I found that the paper on which the child drew the map was wrinkled. I thought this guy who loves to tear up his exercise books and knead paper would still hold back and pretend to be calm and puzzled and ask, "Why did you draw the first map of your life on this crumpled paper?" The son happily explained, "Mom, do you know why?" Seeing that I shook my head doubtfully, my son said more excitedly, "Because ancient maps are all wrinkled and made of parchment. I tore off the paper, wiped it, wiped it and made this map. How's it going, mom? Did I make the first great map in my life? "

It turns out that my son deliberately made a map with crumpled paper in order to make an antique map. I'm really glad that I listened patiently to my child's words and didn't prejudge the child because he tore his homework and rubbed paper. I am really happy and proud of his creativity. Observe children attentively, listen to children attentively, and feel children attentively. Parents can find the bright spot of children every day and see their progress and growth every day. Even if there is only a little bit, parents can give encouragement and affirmation in time to help their children grow up healthily and happily, and parents can get rid of anxiety and spend every day in parenting with a peaceful attitude.

I hope every mom and dad can get rid of anxiety, keep a peaceful mind, polish their eyes every day, observe their children carefully, listen attentively, feel attentively, find the bright spot in their children every day, and reflect and improve from their parenting mistakes every day. I hope that every parent can make a little progress every day on the way to raising children, and be a caring parent who can find the "bright spot" of children in time to help children grow up happily every day!