What should I say when I meet my son's girlfriend for the first time?

You can tell the girl about your family.

It shows that your family attaches great importance to her. By the way, ask about the girl's family. Of course, this situation does not refer to the economic situation, but to how many brothers and sisters there are in her family. Never use that interrogation tone. Be calm and smile.

Don't ask her face what she is doing at home or what she is doing. It's really bad to get to the bottom of it This may be a question that most parents will ask, either directly or obliquely. This kind of question is a bit "utilitarian", so ask your son privately.

Opening remarks when I first met my son's girlfriend.

1. Vaccinate your girlfriend by exposing your son's shortcomings.

Love is blind. Many people pretend to be themselves when they are with their lovers. Once they are familiar with each other, they will contradict each other because of some unexposed shortcomings. Although everyone has shortcomings, different people have different tolerance for the same shortcomings.

2, first suppress and then promote, and set off advantages with shortcomings.

In many cases, disadvantages and advantages coexist. Die-hard loyalty corresponds to a dead end, and it can also correspond to this person looking for something and not letting go and sticking to it.

3. Observe whether the son's girlfriend's reaction cares through the shortcomings.

Now that I have met my parents, it means that at least there is a good chance of getting married. Through the exposure of some of the above shortcomings, girls can have a better understanding of their sons and families. At least she will think that her in-laws will not be the kind of person who protects her son in the future.