I am a Leo boy. Can I be a Capricorn?

Leo men think he is the most practical person. He looked in the mirror and saw his handsome and heroic face, gentle and calm. He obviously has these. Such a comforting image is reflected in his consciousness and applied to dealing with people who do not have these talents. He fell in love with a Capricorn girl without warning. He felt that all toes and fingers were so unruly, so impulsive, unrealistic-even a little stupid. For Leo, this is a very unpleasant and complicated feeling.

Of course, he won't let her feel his unhappiness right away. Is he worried about something? He will grin and think about his position to dispel his anxiety and pretend that he doesn't really want to be indifferent and confident. The unpleasant beginning is that when he thinks she is an eccentric "educator", he can't draw a conclusion, whether this makes him feel that he is dealing with his mother, or like his fourth-grade teacher, or his sister. Who told him to calm down? She reminds him of his father? No, of course not. That's ridiculous. How can such a soft-spoken lady remind him of his father? But he wants to know why she decided to visit places of interest when she began to trust him and began to talk about her abstract artistic views. What's wrong with the current education system? How can she have more enthusiasm and experience to build her own home than buying or renting someone else's house? His powerful gentleness made her trust him so much that she told him all about it. Generally speaking, she won't publicly express her views or talk about her private affairs, so he should be deeply moved by her decision and trust her thoughts and views on him. This is also a cautious "security check" that this timid girl conducted before she fully trusted him. So is he like this? No, generally speaking, he is not. He is more concerned with the needs of his own masculinity.

He listened to her conversation friendly and patiently, which made her feel that she should concentrate on showing the charm of women. But he was thinking about attractive tactics in his mind, calculating how long it would take her to lie in his arms satisfactorily, and then he would ... Wait a minute, she had stopped again and again to see if he had listened carefully. He will kindly but firmly point out the mistakes in some of her views and confidently point out where they are to prove that he has not missed a word. Then they were happy again. He told her what kind of hairstyle to cut and what kind of sweater to wear would be more suitable than what she is wearing now. He didn't interrupt her because she was quiet. He will summon up the courage to tell her how to improve her ideology, appearance and even health-let him be her guide in life now.

Something's wrong. She is so quiet. He thinks she has such lovely eyes, so gentle and bright, and subtle humor ... but why do these suddenly remind him of two iron bullets-or a pair of shiny glass bullets? When talking well, her eyes are as cold as her voice.

These embarrassing and stupid confusions stumped him. He felt abandoned and humiliated. He should not think so, because her actions are controlled and guided by Saturn's nature. She is very good at self-protection, and has the common sense to quit fighting before being seriously hurt or killed by love problems. If he doesn't take his own problems as secondary problems and think more about her, he will be inspired by her silence-"Let's take some time to think about it, because I really don't want to stop loving you. If you can persist, I will continue. You almost made me afraid to trust you anymore. Please think about what you are doing. I don't want to go back to my lonely life Maybe after a week or so, you will understand that what you did and what you said hurt me. "

If he can take a look at her window on the night she left, he can see that there is no heartless indifference in her eyes, only tenderness and brightness-shining with tears. It is difficult for her to stop crying, and she usually keeps doing this until she eliminates her inner feelings. If he could see her that night, he could see that she had been crying for a while. She controlled and suppressed her crying with a pillow, as if it were him. Only the lion can truly understand this quiet "creature". She always seems so cold and calm. When she thinks she is completely alone and no one can see or hear her anxiety, the way to observe her and understand her is through the window of his heart. The nameless fear left by her childhood has been lingering in her heart. She did as the adults asked, and Saturn kept whispering in her ear, "What a good boy." They always say this and nod their heads in agreement. So when I was very young, I knew that she was very popular with others and had the capital that all children sought silently. Saturn taught all Capricorn to behave properly in public from a very young age-they will never forget these teachings. Capricorn subconsciously thinks that if she makes a mistake in expressing her feelings publicly, she will be scolded. So her habit of self-control is deepening every year, which also offends some people-when she is sad alone, she wants to know what she did wrong.

She's not the only one. In our situation, Leo will also painfully want to know what he did wrong. If he can seriously reflect, he will realize that he and Capricorn have several common mistakes: he thinks that he can make her obey orders with his absolute apparent strength, and he doesn't pay attention to things that are crucial to her new life and her.

This woman is not a mass of wet mud waiting for Leo to change her shape. It is made up of solid rocks and mounds on the earth (but remember that the earth is also a warm, safe and protected place). A chisel, maybe some explosives can change her way of thinking and habits (slightly), but nothing else can change. Of course, she won't change anything because of a complacent Leo's reckless and arrogant preaching. She won't change her dress, hairstyle or opinion for any man, even the man with elegant steps and strong jungle attraction can't do it. She does not deny that when he smiles at her, her legs are a little weak when she walks, and when she feels that he is sad, she will feel depressed, whether verbally or not. Maybe he will change her slowly-very slowly-one small step at a time. But he doesn't remember any immediate changes. Capricorn women will not do anything at once, even if they receive orders from the royal family or even their relatives.

However, his cheerful and confident temperament infected her, much more than he imagined; At the same time, it inspired and dispelled her Saturn-like worries more than she admitted. When he talks about his lofty goals and future ambitions, she will listen carefully. She is optimistic, so his ideals will make her happy-and she will fully support his ideas. The bigger his goal is, the more she will support him, although she will not hesitate to point out some shortcomings that are difficult to achieve. He should thank her for her advice and pay attention to her unique and wise views instead of resentment. Capricorn people have a strong ability to turn their dreams into reality.

Similarly, she should always follow the example of his confident personality. They think that using such opportunities often can make life more interesting. Leo people know that the kingdom of happiness is not full of insurance policies against disappointment and disaster. He is the king, so he can teach her the subtle differences between nobles. But he should lead her from the dark and desperate dungeon to the lovely light.

Leo men who fall in love with Capricorn women should still remember the fable of the race between the tortoise and the hare, although the ending will make him angry. Remember that she is a turtle and people are rabbits. If he really wants to win the game, he will have magical power to turn his body into a turtle. Don't be too slow, Capricorn. She will cross the finish line. Time is her friend.

On the issue of money, these two people have similar quarrels almost every month. This not only wastes time, but also easily affects the realization of some plans. It has nothing to do with him that she has mastered the use of her own money; How he spends money has nothing to do with her. Why did you quarrel? For Leo and Capricorn, the simple solution is to completely separate their economic expenses. She will try to earn her share of the money. If she is married or living together, should he ask to share the income with her? She can accept it.

However, they solved the problem. She should spend her money freely, and when she is happy, she can invest. If she wants, she can calculate the profit from her savings every night without being tortured by his preaching. Similarly, he is free to use his money where he needs it and buy extravagant gifts for himself or others without being bothered by her opposition. This is the only way. Money, the madman, will kill love. Only love is real. Money is an illusion and a mirage. Try to separate them, then forget it, ignore it and never talk about it again.

Because they are very different in nature, their physical contact mainly depends on all aspects of the planets in their constellation. If these aspects don't hit it off, he may feel that she is irresponsible for his need for caress and emotion in sexual life-and she can't express her love for him through physical contact, that is, when he makes her feel dissatisfied in sexual behavior. This will break her heart and freeze her feelings.

There are a small number of Capricorn women (few), and their sexual behavior has become somewhat abnormal. To some extent, this is because they were abandoned by their families, which is a serious psychological harm to Capricorn people. This rare insensitive Capricorn woman's acceptance of sex, just like her agreement to shake hands, is an attitude negatively influenced by Saturn, and it also numbs her emotions and consciousness. She repeated mechanical sexual behavior, which made her companions feel cold and empty.

This kind of Capricorn women generally do not attract proud and jealous Leo men, but most Capricorn women represent the opposite of casual sex-romantic, shy and loyal sex. If there are positive and harmonious aspects of the planet in the constellation diagram between Leo and Capricorn, and she has trusted him while he is waiting for her tightly controlled emotions to gradually release, then their sex life will be a fascinating process.

She should put a small card in the notebook of her savings account (this is where she can often see it), which reads: Don't drown his enthusiasm and generosity with excessive pessimism, despair or unnecessary caution, and never hurt his self-esteem and pride with cold criticism, he will refuse.

He should pin a small card on the mirror of his car (this is where he thinks he can often see it), which reads: be friendly and respectful to her family, put away your preaching, be gentle with her, and understand that her conservative temperament comes from her inner fear of poverty and loneliness. Don't forget that she needs sincere praise and praise, more than you can do, and remember that she just pretends not to like pity and warm hugs.

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