Will girls from poor backgrounds marry well? Why are "Born in a Family" all bad girls?

Introduction: Many women attribute their unhappy marriage to their family background and think that the reason for their unhappiness is that they are dragged down by their family background. Will all unhappy women in Descendants suffer for life?

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May is coming, and many things have happened, but one thing has attracted the attention of the whole world, and that is the wedding of Prince Harry, the British royal family. This big wedding is very dramatic, and it is definitely the most discussed wedding in the history of eating melons. Everything comes from Prince Harry's wife, Megan from America.

Let's not talk about Megan. Let's start with two women who are close to her, the dead mother-in-law Princess Diana and Xiaomei's one-year-old sister-in-law Princess Kate. Many people think that Princess Diana is a modern Cinderella. When she married Prince Charles, she became a phoenix. The marriage broke up because of the wrong door.

In fact, this statement is incorrect. Princess Diana's background is definitely not low, and she is regarded as an aristocrat. Of course, it is a little lower than the princes and princesses of other countries who were married before the British royal family, but it is definitely not a modern Cinderella. Princess Diana's two daughters-in-law are unprecedented in the British royal family.

Princess Kate, the eldest daughter, was born in the middle class, and her family was engaged in the party accessories business. Kate was able to become a princess, and her mother contributed a lot.

Some people say that Kate's becoming a princess is the result of the United front efforts of the whole family, which is undeniable. Of course, Kate herself is also a very hard-working malicious character. After she entered the royal family, all her actions were in line with the royal family. When she first got married, she was a little round. Now that I have given birth to three babies, I have lost weight, because from the perspective of the royal family, the figure of women also represents the class.

Megan, the second daughter-in-law, is unprecedented. Not only is she divorced, but Prince Harry is 3 years old and has black blood. But so what? Harry refused to sign a prenuptial agreement. When Harry looked at Megan fondly at the wedding, it was an appropriate overbearing presidential line.

But Megan is definitely not Mary Su's silly and sweet. She is an inspirational teaching material for walking. I think the legendary Lady Wendi Deng can only compete with her.

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In the late 1990s, the Internet was underdeveloped, but some experts spread a shocking news through channels. The third wife of Rupert Murdoch, the president of media tycoon News Corporation, is actually Wendi Deng from China. Who is this Wendi Deng? Whose rich woman is she?

A few years later, shocking news came from time to time. Wendi Deng was born in an ordinary family. She is not good-looking, but she is very tall. She quickly reached the high position in life through several marriages, and gave birth to two daughters for her husband through modern medical technology, which is legendary.

In recent years, consultation has also developed. We know that Ms. Deng and Murdoch are divorced, and how many people are waiting to see Ms. Deng's jokes. But what do we see? Ms Deng and ivanka, the daughter of the current President of the United States, are best friends. Even ivanka's marriage with her husband is due to Ms. Deng, who meets her girlfriends from time to time.

After the divorce, Ms. Deng did not give up on herself. Instead, I wore a bikini and walked by the sea with my boyfriend in his twenties. It really doesn't feel good.

Many people are full of yearning for Ms. Deng's life and want to take her life route. However, whether it is Ms. Deng or Megan, their life course can't be learned as ordinary women.

We should think that Ms. Deng will bravely go to the other side of the ocean when she is about 20 years old, and continue to study in colleges and universities after arriving in the United States, because she knows that going to the United States does not mean that she has reached the peak of her life.

Even though she married Murdoch, Wendi Deng didn't stop her progress. She has always had her own set of values and development routes. In the process of development, her husband is a network resource, so there is no need to have nothing.

Megan is similar. Her family of origin is in pieces. Before the wedding, all the wonderful half-brothers and sisters came to smash the venue to make trouble for themselves. So what? Megan still wears the queen's important crown to get married and let others make irresponsible remarks.

Such a woman has a strong heart and a clear goal. Can I say that what Harry said at the wedding is absolutely true? He just needs such a strong woman to comfort his insecurity. So he is really "so lucky".

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Many girls say I can't be Wendi Deng or Megan. I'm just a hotel waiter, and I can only earn 1500 a month. I still have my parents working at home and my younger brother and sister are at school. Can my life be bright?

Yes, yes, you can't be a princess or a legend, but you can be the hostess of a happy family. Next, let's tell a story about grounding gas.

Xiao Xin was born in the countryside with three children. She is the second child.

Xiao Xin's parents are ordinary farmers, and their families are very poor. Xiao Xin's mother went to work as a garment worker in other places soon after giving birth to her younger brother. Xiao Xin's study is very poor. She really can't learn anymore in the second day of junior high school. She will hardly leave school before the end of the nine-year compulsory education. Her parents think it's good for girls to graduate from junior high school.

Before graduating from junior high school, Xiao Xin gave up the senior high school entrance examination and went to the factory as a worker with his mother. Don't ask the boss why he hired child labor. It can only be said that this phenomenon was very common at that time. Parents take their children to work in the factory. After children start working, they gradually follow their parents to work. Anyway, it's a piece-rate salary, and everyone in the family is the same.

Xiao Xin was only 15 years old when he went to work. She worked for two whole years and was almost isolated from the world. She goes to work every day and sleeps in the dormitory after work. All the money she earns is in the charge of her mother.

It was not until one day that Xiao Xin contacted her junior high school classmates on QQ that she realized that their life was really wonderful. Some of them are selling clothes, some are selling wine in bars and some are working as waiters in restaurants. Life in Xiao Xin is so monotonous that Xiao Xin proposed to go out and look for a job and stop being a female worker.

After several days of discussion, my parents agreed. Xiao Xin went to a clothing store as a shopping guide. After three months, she met many unhappy things.

Xiao Xin really came into contact with the basic features of society in those three months. It turns out that there is really cheating and cheating. Three months later, Xiao Xin resigned and went back to work in the garment factory where her mother worked.

Do you think Xiao Xin will resign himself to fate? No, Xiao Xin knows that she has no skills, no diploma and she is still young. She deserves to be bullied in society, so learn some skills while she is young.

Xiao Xin negotiates with her parents. Work 1 year, she saved 1 million, and her living expenses were 5000. The rest of the income was given to her parents, and she was going to take this 1500 yuan to study technology. In 2007, graphic design was still a relatively easy-to-learn technology. When Xiao Xin returned to her hometown, she enrolled in a private school for one year.

A year later, Xiao Xin mastered the basic software and young capital of graphic design, and 19-year-old Xiao Xin went to work in Shanghai. First do Taobao customer service, then do Taobao art design. Although it was hard, I met many interesting people and met her the only thrill.

Xiao Xin's husband is very handsome. He is in the same place as Xiao Xin's hometown. A few years ago, Xiao Xin could not imagine that she would find a husband who was born in a city and had a good family. Because almost all my classmates and friends are looking for a rural guy to marry, after marriage, the girl will have children, take care of them at home, stay at home with a haggard face, and wait for her husband who works outside to pay living expenses every month.

Xiao Xin changed her job after marrying her husband, and started her own WeChat business, selling ladies' underwear until she gave birth to a child. After the child was weaned, Xiao Xin began to plan again. This time, she started her own manicure and small tattoo business.

Xiao Xin studied graphic design before and has his own ideas about color, creativity and aesthetics. Plus, she always likes to dress herself up after marriage, so her nails and tattoos always attract customers.

At first, I promoted myself in my circle of friends and served myself at home. Although it's hard, I can really make money. After doing it for a while, Xiao Xin rented a small storefront and managed it well.

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Now Xiao Xin is a role model for female students. Although she only has a junior high school education, she found a handsome husband with a junior college education. Her husband moved back to the house without paying the mortgage, and her mother-in-law took care of the children.

Compared with her classmates and friends, Xiao Xin is undoubtedly lucky and a hard-working girl. A girl's greatest success is to seize every opportunity and create one if she doesn't have one.

What is an opportunity? Keep learning, keep working hard, and strive for what you want by proper means.

Xiao Xin's family is not good, but she still hasn't given up on herself. She runs hard, keeps healthy and takes care of her skin. She can wear her own style and fashion in dozens of Taobao products. Even after giving birth, she still looks like a girl. She also has her own determination and responsibility, and will use her own advantages to make money and cheer for herself.

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Whether you come from a poor or fragmented family, those are things you can't choose. Since you can't choose, sort out the resources you can have and live the rest of your life to the maximum.

The unhappiness of being born in a family has an inevitable influence on everyone, but whether you can get out of the family or even get rid of the influence of the family requires personal efforts and efforts.

Many people attribute their misfortune and unhappy marriage to the influence of family background and the drag of family background. However, as far as many real story examples are concerned, not all women from unhappy families will suffer for life.

After all, fate is in our own hands. Although the influence of family background exists, you can still have a good life and a happy married life if you make efforts to change and bravely walk out of the unfortunate family background.

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