What do you think of people who want everything first?

Bai once wrote a letter to his children, mainly about their growth. Some of them expounded the "first" situation.

In his letter, he said that life is not a competition, and there is no need to compete for everything, because being the first is not necessarily the strongest. On the contrary, such people may be the most vulnerable, because they can't bear the pressure of not being the first, and they can only constantly strive for the first.

But the way for these people to win the first place is not only their own efforts, but also the possibility of being enslaved by the first unscrupulous means, thus losing their lives and becoming the "first puppet." I have been troubled by the first place all my life.

People who are forced to be the first, their focus is only the first, not development, not growth, not benign ability improvement, but a perverted mentality. In order to get the first place, they will do their best. In the process, they may be covered with wounds. When they see their wounds in the dead of night, they can only grieve secretly.

So, why should we take the first as the ultimate goal of life? Everyone should face his life correctly. After all, life is long, and we don't have to worry that we are not the strongest. As long as you can constantly improve yourself, it doesn't matter whether you are the first or not.