My home is in the countryside. Eighty percent of the villagers are surnamed Yue, and my girlfriend is surnamed Qin. Because Qin Yue didn't marry, my family opposed us.

First, when parents object, as children, we must not contradict them.

Because the more you resist, the more intense your parents' reaction will be, and the more intense it will be, the easier it will be to deepen the contradiction. Therefore, when your parents object, we should treat it coldly first, and finally walk away before we feel that we can't control our emotions, and then talk to our parents when both sides calm down.

Second, we must prove ourselves with actions.

A hundred kind words are not as convincing as one of your actions. If you love each other and want your parents' blessing, then prove it with actions. As for what can be done to impress them, just know that you love her. I never approve of temporary flattery. After all, it takes a long time to see people clearly. If you really want to be nice to a person, you will definitely try to get his parents to give her to you safely. You love her.

Third, make your own decisions.

No parents can control their children's marriage. Parents will listen to their opinions, but the decision is up to the children. It depends on whether what parents say makes sense. If it is the idea of parents, parents only look at each other's money, house and family, but ignore their own personality. In this case, it still depends on them. Parents' opinion is to analyze the problem from the standpoint of children. I think I'll listen.

What I like is a person's sense of responsibility, whether he is comfortable with others, and a little skill to avoid hunger and cold. Really, if parents and children's ideas are far apart and can't be stopped, I hope you can all stay with the right person until you are old.

Reasons why the descendants of Yue Fei don't intermarry with Qin surname;

Yue Fei is a hero who resists gold and is admired by the world. However, the hero does not have a good home. Although he led Yue Jiajun to fight hundreds of battles with the enemy, he also won great victories. But fate is tragic. Zhao Gou and Qin Gui were killed on trumped-up charges, and Yue Fei's eldest son was also implicated, both of whom died with a swallowed their anger.

The descendants of Yue Fei kept this hatred in mind, never married Qin for generations, and passed on this unwritten family rule from generation to generation. In the long river of years, they persisted unconsciously for more than 900 years. Because there is blood feud between the two families, it is reasonable not to get married.