In a relaxed family, children will not be embarrassed in their later lives.

Both parents can say, "You make your own decisions, and parents are only consultants, not decision makers". Children who are respected and free really don't need to fight for their rights with rebellion.

The child dozed off in physics class.

Parents should not scold directly, but ask calmly, "Why do you sleep in class?" ? Don't you like it? I really don't like it. In the future, I will go to the upper class and my parents will help you.

Don't put a psychological burden on this. Don't compare your own shortcomings with others' strengths. Your Chinese and English scores are still very good. 360 lines is the best anyway.

The child said that he failed the exam this time.

Parents should never criticize and nag at once. You can analyze the reasons with your children and say, "Learning is a marathon. Being behind temporarily does not mean being behind forever. It will be better to make progress next time. " In this way, the child will focus on the next progress.

When a child receives a love letter

Parents can say, "Which kid is so open-minded, how did he notice you?" No matter what happens, children can keep close relationship with their parents without embarrassing them.

When children encounter setbacks and doubt themselves,

Parents can smile happily and say, "Even if you are a stupid child, so what?" In this way, children can truly believe in themselves without burden.

When children's grades drop and they are sad.

Parents can smile and say, "You are so old, even if you really can't get into college, what should you do if you cry?" We can still write novels and be writers in the future! You can still live a happy life. "In this way, we find the child's bright spot and let its aura shine on the child's life.