How to overcome the shortcomings of Pisces?

Everything is wonderful.

Pisces is a natural dreamer and hopeless romantic. They often think that as long as there is love, they have the whole world, but they ignore the reality in love. Thinking too much is the biggest achilles heel of Pisces.

After having a boyfriend, I unconsciously became else, which seems to automatically relieve the freedom of "psychosexuality". It's nice to love only once in your life, but you love a man who deserves your love all your life.

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disadvantaged

1. Life is unfair, get used to it;

The world won't care about your self-esteem, and the world will expect you to have self-esteem before you feel good about yourself.

Achievement;

? You won't become the vice president of a company as soon as you graduate from high school, until you get this position;

If you think your teacher is tough, wait until you become a boss.

If you get into trouble, don't whine about your mistakes, learn from them;

Before you were born, your parents were not as boring as they are now. They have become what they are today.

Because they have been paying your bills, washing your clothes and listening to you.

How cool;

7. Your school may no longer distinguish between winners and losers, but life is still making similar distinctions;

8. Life is not divided into semesters. You don't have summers off and few people are willing to help you find yourself.

Me;

Television is not real life. In real life, people actually have to leave the coffee shop to work.

One's own work;

10. Be kind to boring people, and you may end up working for a boring person.

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Main star: Neptune

Four images: water

Jewelry: ivory, blood stone

Lucky number: 1 1

Characteristics: change

Ruler: Neptune

Yin and yang: negative

The biggest feature: promiscuity.

Representative Day: Thursday

Metal: copper

EQ index: 80-90

In charge of the body: feet, lymph glands

Lucky colors: various mint colors.

Lucky place: seaside or water.

The city

Features: strong inclusiveness and weak will.

Personality characteristics: On the surface, Pisces people are introverted and shy, but their hearts are often complicated and contradictory, and there are opposites between good and evil, spirit and material. Although the imagination is rich, it is relatively easy to have unrealistic reverie about the appearance of Prince Charming (Snow White), while ignoring the fate in real life.

Interpersonal relationship: Don't be afraid to express your opinions because you care about others' face, and say something with unclear position, which makes people feel at a loss. Besides, you are too simple and easy to be deceived.

Dressing points: You are a natural clothes hanger, which is very suitable for soft and fit clothes to show chic and elegant feeling.

Advantages of Pisces: 1, rich in feelings; 2. Kind-hearted, giving up others, not selfish; 3. Have imagination; 4. Understanding; 5. Strong intuition; 6. Know how to be tolerant; 7, gentle and polite; 8, easy to trust others, not suspicious; 9. Romance;

Disadvantages of Pisces: 1, not practical enough, too many fantasies; 2. Not having enough danger awareness; 3. Too emotional and sentimental; 4, the will is not firm; 5. Lack of courage to face reality; 6, easy to fall into depression and can not extricate themselves; 7. It is easy to form the habit of lying; 8. Not good at financial management; 9, vulnerable to environmental impact; 10, irrational and emotional;

* Pisces vs Aries

* Matching score: 70 is a good pair.

* Constellation ratio: 54:46

* Analysis:

Pisces is the end of the ancient cycle, but Aries is the beginning, one old and one young, just like the feelings of grandparents and grandchildren. Some people say that the end is the beginning of another stage, so the two constellations seem to have some continuity in inheritance. The combination of "grandparents and grandchildren" is not bad for fish, as long as you can tolerate the thick lines of sheep and go your own way.

As a romantic constellation, sometimes it is quite nerve-racking and can't stand the entanglement of pursuers, especially when you meet a fierce, energetic, innocent and transparent sheep that is completely different from you.

* Note:

Pisces, you will always look at the sheep with pity and take care of everything patiently for them. Sheep can also understand your indecisive, unrealistic and daydreaming habits; When you think about this and that, but still stand still, he can encourage you with "rare" patience!

But in contrast, sheep are domineering, although they also stress freedom (especially their own freedom), but they are highly dominant; You are a sacrificial constellation. After getting along for a long time, you may often feel compelled. On the one hand, because of habit, on the other hand, because of carelessness, the sheep simply didn't find or couldn't figure out the grievances in your heart, which you should pay special attention to.

For sheep, you are a standard combination of rigidity and flexibility. As long as you try your best to learn not to be disturbed or mentally disturbed by the barking of sheep, give full play to your softness, stand firm and treat each other fairly, the road to love can go far!

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* Pisces vs Taurus

* Matching score: 90, ideal pair.

* Constellation ratio: 44:56

* Analysis:

You both belong to the negative sign, so in many performances, you pay more attention to your inner feelings and start from your heart; So once you pass the stage of first acquaintance, your relationship will proceed steadily under natural conditions. This is a world that combines sweetness and sweetness.

Niu Er's deep affection makes you feel at ease, and his possessiveness makes you feel valued. This is not to say that fish are masochists. It's just that fish are afraid of not relying on them and losing their sense of direction. Because of Niu Er's less aggressive exclusiveness and stable temperament, they can feel safer.

* Note:

Niu Er likes your romance and gentleness very much, and can tolerate your emotions more than others, so your love life is perfect. But for cows, don't often use emotional movements, or the power that breaks out after the cows accumulate will make you feel at a loss.

In fact, Niu Erhui is a good dream executor, who can seriously find feasible methods for every unrealistic dream. It is really a good companion for fish. Therefore, I advise you to develop a mode of getting along with him and let him know when you are angry. Don't play guessing games with the fish because of his fantasy habits, otherwise, you may be confused. If you break Niu Er's heart, he will "simply" end this relationship!

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* Pisces vs Gemini

* Pairing score: a pair of 50 points that need to be maintained.

* Constellation ratio: 58:42

* Analysis:

You in Pisces are a complicated personality of a fish in the south and a fish in the north, while you in Gemini are a dual personality of Dong Zi and western women, so complexity and complexity will make you fall into an extremely delicate and complicated relationship. If you can't even master your own ideas, it's really hard to catch Gemini who turns his face faster than turning pages.

There are split and contradictory factors in both your personalities, especially the variability of these extensions will attract you to each other; However, fish based on feelings will feel that Gemini is cynical and prone to uncertainty, and Gemini's sharp words will make it difficult for fish to parry.

* Note:

In fact, Gemini's acceptance and pursuit of new things can stimulate fantasy fish, especially in artistic creation; The fickle Gemini usually doesn't think your idea is unrealistic, and your sensitivity is no worse than yours, so you won't feel that casting pearls before swine is powerless to him. It's just that you must understand that your keenness is animal and his keenness is scientific, so he won't be "emotional" like you. You should make clear the difference between them.

Don't treat Gemini by crying twice and hanging up three times, which will only make him evaluate the situation faster and "rationalize" the escape; You must exercise your strong will and build your confidence before you can talk to Gemini! With your versatile and romantic personality, as long as Gemini doesn't think you love to cry and follow, you are an irrational doormat; They are fresh and easy to learn, and will be happy to accompany you!

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* Pisces vs Cancer

* Matching score: 100, perfect match.

* Constellation ratio: 48:52

* Analysis:

You are all water signs, and your personalities and thinking patterns are very similar. Crabs attach importance to stable and practical love, while fish require wholehearted love and care, and both sides lack sense of security; Therefore, if your love develops, it can become an inseparable love combination.

Although the crab is as easy to fall in love with people as you are, it is not like you will plunge into it and immediately dig out your heart for each other; He must observe slowly for a period of time before deciding whether to love you hard. Fish want to spend this probation period, but also on their own. Don't think that crabs are unintentional and inexplicably "walk" with others!

* Note:

Pisces and crabs are both romantic masters, and they are both typical of seeing flowers and tears and enjoying the moon. Although you all take perceptual emotions as the starting point of your behavior, and they are also not very stable, you should know one thing: the emotional changes of crabs are often more severe than yours!

Fish is compassionate and has a wide range of sacrifices, while crab's endurance is very narrow, so fish can be very happy and satisfied ~ If you are in the warm and inclusive embrace of cancer, the only thing you should pay attention to is to control the stupid action of "sadness element". You two should try to keep a low profile together and do some activities close to nature and sunshine, so that each other's living conditions will not be trapped in the spiritual level for a long time. A negative life that only uses the brain without moving the limbs will only be harmful.

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* Pisces versus Lions

* Matching score: 40 points. A couple with poor prospects.

* Constellation ratio: 40:60

* Analysis:

For your two constellations, fire and water are not the most appropriate adjectives. Unless you can recognize his domination over you-he will take care of you wholeheartedly, but it is difficult to understand your impressionable emotions and struggles.

A little fate. Eight and a half out of ten Pisces will like lions, and lions are as easily attracted to you as "flowers". It's just that once you get into the situation, the lion doesn't like the sloppy personality of the fish, and you can't stand his arrogance. Hey ~ ~ it's quite torture!

* Note:

Fish is gentle, romantic and considerate, standing with the lion, judging the strength of the size, making outsiders feel that the fish woman is like a kannika nimtragol, while the man shows his manhood even more (even the female lion and the male fish can still feel the contrast). Therefore, in the pairing of men and women, the male lion and female fish can create a happy future, with a low score of 40 points.

If you really love a lion, remember to establish communication methods first, especially your own expression. The biggest problem of many lion fish groups is that the fish are "soft", and they never tell their lovers clearly and forcefully, acting like they are forced by the lion, which makes the lion quite crazy and hurts his king's self-esteem! You should know that sometimes the carelessness of a lion doesn't necessarily come from nature, but is probably caused by your silence.

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* Pisces vs Virgo

* Pairing score: 60 pairs that attract and repel each other.

* Constellation ratio: 50:50

* Analysis:

Although the water sign represented by Pisces and the earth sign represented by Virgo are homologous and both are negative signs, your constellation arrangement is just diagonal, so there is also polarization interaction.

You all have a gentle, delicate, sensitive and dreamy nature, but the way and logic of expression of these two constellations are completely opposite; This difference can often make the other side shine at the moment, but as time goes on and communication deepens, this difference will also cause opposition. The only way to improve is to influence each other and achieve a balance between the two sides. Only complementarity can play a role.

* Note:

Facing Virgo, you have to be serious. His firmness and concentration should make you stable and stop flirting. Usually virgins don't fall in love with a person easily. She will slowly and carefully release her feelings, first to see if you are sincere or just having fun. Real virgins don't waste their feelings. Once she aims at you, she will take care of you more and more, and "correct" all your habits that he can't see with first-class "noisy" kung fu. Therefore, if the fish doesn't understand his painstaking efforts of "doing good for you", it is easy to be driven crazy by the strict standards of virgins!

In fact, a virgin's nagging will still help you deal with big and small things and treat you as a child; Especially for temptation, you are a child who lacks self-control. A caring Virgo demands less from her friends than from her lover. It will be much easier to be friends with him than to hold hands.

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* Pisces vs Libra

* Matching score: 40 points. A couple with poor prospects.

* Constellation ratio: 60:40

* Analysis:

Pisces and Libra are basically unstable constellations, and the arrangement and relative angle of constellations are not ideal, which makes you fundamentally different. Alas, both fish can't pull themselves, and they have to be weighed. What a bother!

Although you are both tender and romantic people, it is easy to attract each other, but the irresistible temptation of fish and the complex character of scales are the biggest difficulties to test them.

* Note:

Although you are a fish with a strong constellation and Libra is a gentle constellation, you can't get rid of an invisible pressure even if you are attracted by Libra's comfortable and even narcissistic self-confidence. Libra is not interested in sticking to his other half and always asks for care; He is busy pursuing physical and mental balance, reconciling ideal and practice, playing and working. How can he pay too much attention to the susceptibility of fish? If it is not acceptable, it will often lead to tension between the two sides. If you want to get along with Libra for a long time, first try to communicate with him in a "reasonable" manner, and don't tolerate him like a martyr, which will make Libra feel that you have become a burden to him physically and mentally. I want to be independent, at least it will not be an excuse for his imbalance.

In addition, Libra is usually a master of love. Don't compromise, don't force, you must see each other clearly, don't just be his "romantic" object. Of course, if this is all you want, it will definitely satisfy you! ^_^

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* Pisces vs Scorpio

* Matching score: 100, perfect match.

* Constellation ratio: 52:48

* Analysis:

People in water signs often fall in love for the sake of love, and rarely mix other purposes. Pisces and Scorpio are more prominent in this respect, and naturally they are easier to accept each other. They will definitely be a loving couple.

As long as the fish don't feel that scorpions seem to have too many secrets to hide in their hearts, you can easily feel the natural charm of scorpions. In addition, most scorpions have the characteristics of strong pressure resistance, which is really handsome for fish that are passive and silent under pressure!

* Note:

But the fish should not be too complacent, and throw it to him when encountering problems, especially the love problems caused by being too easy-going, too kind and too easily influenced. Scorpions are suspicious and alert, and cannot be betrayed. He can't stand the test in this respect. If you want to fall in love with scorpions, honesty and devotion are the key.

Fish have a characteristic of not calling their heads, that is, you have strong endurance (masochism), but when you encounter great pressure, you will swim away; This is nothing at first, but you fish often hurt others to escape. Please learn to be calm. If you really think the two are inconsistent, please let him know and never play tricks with him. Even if you didn't mean to hurt him, the scorpion didn't care much. It is his nature to fight back when he is hurt. Please remember this!

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* Pisces versus Sagittarius

* Pairing score: a pair of 50 points that need to be maintained.

* Constellation ratio: 42:58

* Analysis:

If the fire sign is the sun and the lion is the light of the sun, then the shooter is the heat of the sun. Pisces is like water. Once the shooter touches it, the result is like: the water in the kettle suddenly boils. Therefore, for a shooter, you are simply the weak among the weak.

To reverse this weakness, you must first be a curious fish, healthy and full of vitality; Besides, you should put away your sensitive thoughts, because he is quite nervous. If you think you have these conditions, then fall in love with him again!

* Note:

An indefinite shooter is like a hit-and-run hunter. You can't resist the temptation of Pisces. Therefore, sensitive and delicate Pisces must keep their eyes open. In particular, although shooters like to fall in love, they don't necessarily like to spend their lives with one person; To get this hunter, you must use tricks and be smarter than him.

For example, don't sacrifice yourself right away, you'd better hang his appetite first ... _ *

If you hope that he can always take care of you or keep track of his whereabouts, you may be disappointed and think that you have been abandoned; If you do the opposite, you may achieve outstanding results, but of course you can't go too far! The discretion depends on his extroversion and your own determination.

Also, I want to remind you that you are a person with very volatile emotions, but the shooter's temper is usually not very good, easy to be impetuous and straightforward; You have to learn to open your heart, your nerves are bigger and more balanced, and you will find that you are happy with the shooter!

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* Pisces vs Capricorn

* Matching score: 90 points, ideal pair.

* Constellation ratio: 56:44

* Analysis:

Pisces is a water sign, with many tears and a changing sign, so their feelings are not stable. Capricorn is a pragmatic and standard constellation. Fish and Capricorn are basically the same in life and personality development. But it may take some time and test, mainly because Capricorn is not awakened to love and has low mobility; He can wait behind you affectionately, but romance is frivolous to him. If you can adapt to Capricorn's conservative traditional way of love and open his heart, you will become a solid combination of mutual trust, love and understanding.

* Note:

Fish is not a constellation without a definite view, but it is easier to listen to one side of the story and change the original intention according to the situation. A thoughtful Capricorn can reconcile this shortcoming. You can find a safe parking place from a step-by-step, planned and strategic Capricorn.

His feelings are usually buried in deep places, and it is up to you to dig them bit by bit. He can feel your kindness to him. It may be a pity that he is not romantic, but the world he created with practical actions is very solid. It has a positive effect on you who like dreaming and are often confused by the atmosphere. Your artistic talent, thoughtfulness and tolerance will also make Capricorn feel that life does not have to be hard and serious, and communication with people does not have to have a purpose. Each other can make each other's life very happy, isn't it perfect?

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* Pisces versus Aquarius

* Matching score: 70 points is a good pair.

* Constellation ratio: 46:54

* Analysis

The pairing market between Pisces and Aquarius is often flat, because Aquarius likes to try new relationships and emphasizes that people are independent, and no one should give up their ideals and self for anyone, while Pisces is the temptation of an enemy. So you often look good, but in the end it's easy. However, from the point of view that water signs and wind signs will not naturally overlap, the combination of fish and bottles is one of the best combinations.

Bottles are broad-minded and don't like to change each other's characteristics because of themselves. They are really attractive in the early days. But his head is very strange at ordinary times, and often some ideas will make you wonder if you heard it wrong. ......

* Note:

Aquarius is full of fantasy, and it seems that life with him is full of possibilities, neither boring nor romantic. But he always takes reason and logic as the starting point, and his pursuit of freedom is often hot and cold, which makes it difficult for a fish with love as the starting point to understand. When you feel that something is wrong with the bottle, you don't need to panic or review yourself. Self-confidence is the key to getting along with bottles. If you always face him with a trembling attitude, it will only make the relationship between the two worse and worse.

Bottles can actually stimulate your potential. If you can build self-confidence, you can get along with the bottle in a healthier way. Know clearly when to collect it and when to release it, so as not to really lose him. Also, if we can cultivate feelings and complement each other with the role and position of partners, we will get along more easily and happily!

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* Pisces versus Pisces

* Matching score: 80 points is the ideal matching.

* Constellation ratio: 50:50

* Analysis:

The meeting of two water signs is ~ water plus water, which is very "water"! Especially for the two Pisces, emotions come from the linear reaction of inner emotions, sensibility and romance, which are easy to hit it off and will be a very flexible combination.

The emotional changes of the two fish will be obviously reflected on each other, resulting in a kind of stability of "you think the same as me", and it feels good to know each other. However, Pisces is the end of the ancient cycle and indulges in this world, so the conflict between emotion and desire is particularly obvious; To outsiders, you are like a pair of out-of-touch "heroes", which will be quite unfavorable to you in the competition in real life. It is better to be realistic.

* Note:

Romance and fantasy are the best adjectives of fish, and the emotional changes of two people are like a mirror reflecting each other; Compassion, kindness, extreme willingness to help others get rid of the burden, and even sacrifice themselves, is great enough! However, in the face of the real problems to be solved, they often have to hide, tangled in their hearts, and the more they think, the more complicated they are; Even worse, fish lack self-confidence, thinking and doing are often two different things, and may beautify the problem ~ that is, "self-deception"! Think about it: you two add up to four fish. How complicated will it be? It hurts to think about it!

Remind you: remember that another fish needs the encouragement and support of love as much as you do. Treat him the way you want him to treat you, and always open your heart and tell your fears, so that you can love health.

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The origin of Pisces ...

Fish also have tears, but we cry in the water, so we can't see them.

Cupid also has her own love. However, it was a long time ago, and no one remembered it or mentioned it.

The story begins with the beautiful god Venus. When Venus was very young, she fell in love with David, the most beautiful man in ancient Roman legend. David is perfect, but Venus is incomplete. She is a beautiful woman with a broken arm, but her deformity is so complete in David's eyes. Their union is the greatest love in the sacred world, which is why God gave them a gift that can best symbolize love, and that is their child Cupid.

Cupid is a lovely boy with wings. He has an exquisite bow. Everyone he shot will love each other and be happy forever. However, Cupid, who is also eager for love, can't bring happiness to himself because he can't shoot himself with an arrow.

At that God's banquet, Venus attended with her beloved son Cupid, and a girl with a special appearance broke into Cupid's heart. The girl is very beautiful, but her face is gloomy. Cupid came forward to ask why. It turned out that this girl was the daughter of the prophet Solomon, who predicted that this would be a disaster banquet, and she, the blood stone, would be the sacrifice of this disaster. Cupid was very sad because he not only sympathized with the girl's experience, but also fell in love with her unconsciously.

At this time, the terrible hundred-eyed monster appeared! It made a scene and made a mess of the party. The 100-eyed monster is a special enemy of the gods. It is so powerful that the gods have no choice but to flee desperately. Blood stone way: "can't go on like this. We must finally get rid of this demon. " She seems to have forgotten her father's prophecy and bravely rushed to the monster. Worried about the blood stone, Cupid shot an arrow at the monster in a panic. He just wanted to repel him, but he forgot what his arrow was for. Unfortunately, this arrow not only hit the monster, but also hit the blood stone running towards the monster! At the same time, Venus found her beloved son and dragged him into the river. They turned into two fish and ran away. Cupid can't get rid of his mother's hand. He looked back with tears, watching the blood stone leave with the monster and disappear into the vast universe. ...

Later, a constellation called Pisces appeared in the sky, but Cupid was not on it. He sits alone on Jupiter and sometimes shoots an arrow in the direction of the earth. Then, romantic Pisces girls will dance with strangers at the end of the world, fall in love with him, and then immigrate to another planet to get married and have children …

Pisces was injured because of Scorpio, because the scorpion stung her. Pisces swam to the depths of the sea to protect themselves, but their hearts were very contradictory, so they swam in two different directions. One still loves him, and the other begins to hate him, but no matter how much he hates, his love is just as deep. ...

-Pisces, and dreams.

Pisces is a changeable water sign. Pisces people are very addicted to their own world and reconcile in their own feelings. They often feel the other side of life that other constellations can't perceive and feel. In love, they are always full of beautiful ideals, endless romance, intoxicating fantasies and hopeful daydreams. When they can feel safe, understood and appreciated, they will be very willing to share their thoughts and dreams with this person.

Lose yourself or find yourself?

Of all the twelve constellations, Pisces needs the encouragement and trust of others most, so that it can be understood that you are really a real person and that your thoughts and dreams can really be realized.

They will be your happiest companions. They are soft, gentle and very easy to get along with. Especially when they have a feeling of admiration for their other half, they will treat each other more wholeheartedly.

This feeling of worship and even some dependence requires the efforts of Pisces to achieve balance. When they can use this kind of worship to motivate themselves to sort out their thoughts and generate their own motivation for progress, this kind of worship will produce a good interdependent pattern; When this worship makes Pisces refuse to accept their own life and their own ideas, it will lead them to lose themselves.

They will become young and frivolous, unable to accurately locate their position in the love relationship, and therefore unable to overcome the desire to temporarily get out of this relationship and seek self-confirmation outside the relationship. This phenomenon will gradually erode the original harmonious love relationship. Therefore, Pisces people need an encouragement to help them find their own answers in their own hearts. When they define their thoughts, feelings and views on life through one person, they will be the most deeply loved and devoted lovers in the world.

Pisces' sexual interest

Pisces' sexual desire is wrapped in their inner world. For them, sex is a voyage, which makes them feel intoxicated and passionate. However, they are very stuck in their inner world, hazy and mysterious. When their tentacles come out of this world, they find that they can't unify the external world with the internal world. They will be disappointed and even sad. And if they can learn to actively use their rich inner world to motivate their participation, they will create the most beautiful and exciting physical and mental communication with each other.

The love mode of Pisces

If you want to maintain a long-term relationship with Pisces, then this relationship must help Pisces unify their inner world with this relationship. They must be able to feel their happiness and inspiration in this relationship and find the answer to their life. Those who only obey Pisces and try to realize any unrealistic dreams of Pisces are as bad for Pisces as those who blindly think that all dreams of Pisces are unrealistic.

These practices will make Pisces doubt their own value and upset their inner balance.

When Pisces is in a good state, it can bring some psychedelic and mysterious atmosphere to this relationship and a harmonious relationship in the whole universe. They are so romantic and poetic that the world has become full of rich emotions and intoxicating passions; In an inappropriate relationship, Pisces will give up all self-beliefs, just grasp each other blankly, hoping to grasp the whole outside world by grasping each other. The result can only be that they are more and more wrapped in their own personal world and can't breathe.

The advantages of Pisces love: naughty, friendly, natural spirituality, acceptance, thoughtfulness, devotion, freedom, thoughtfulness, tolerance and charity.

Pisces' shortcomings in love: eccentric, somewhat unreliable, self-centered, indifferent, indifferent, difficult to promise, repeatedly weighing, fickle.

Pisces likes it.