12 constellation women will be confused?

With the progress of the times, modern mothers have different ways to educate their children. In recent years, the most popular education method is called "cold treatment". Mothers want their children to face the cruel life since childhood, so they don't pay too much love, even if their love is so subtle, we call it "cold mother". Then, who will be the cold mom after marriage for the girls with different constellations? Go and have a look with Bian Xiao!

First place: Virgo mother, a virgin is meticulous in nature and very strict with herself. After marriage, children gradually replace themselves and become the focus of life. Virgo mothers will definitely spend a lot of time and energy educating their children. But Virgo mother insists on "cold mother culture education". In fact, they know that too much care for children will make them develop a series of bad habits such as arrogance, arrogance and arrogance. In the future, when they enter the society, they are likely to be devastated when they encounter setbacks, difficulties and hardships (pampered since childhood, their parents help them solve their difficulties, and their inner endurance is getting lower and lower).

Therefore, Virgo's mother cherishes her children, but never dotes on them. It's about letting go of your hands and letting them grow. Don't replace everything with children, but assume your obligations as soon as possible through children; If the right to make mistakes is returned to children and treated correctly, children can also feel something in this stumbling, and then grow up more effectively.

Second place: Capricorn mother will try her best to create a good growth environment for her children after marriage, but she will never spoil them. Because Capricorn mothers naturally like to obey rules and disciplines, they will inevitably put forward the same or even higher requirements for their children. However, it does not mean that Capricorn mothers will always be as strict as "fierce mothers". Rational and sober, they will always keep a clear head. When they have unreasonable rules, they will directly refuse, and meaningfully attach reasons for the child to understand, help her distinguish right from wrong, and gradually develop his good habit of observing discipline; When children perform well and have low test scores, they must be warmly praised, but when children do something wrong (especially when their personality is very serious), they must also be severely criticized or punished.

For this kind of cold violence culture education, if children don't know much about it and feel that their mothers don't cherish themselves enough, they can only set their own requirements. In fact, behind Capricorn's "unfeeling" and "not gentle" mother lies a deeper and stronger love for her children. Cold culture education can encourage children to be tenacious and independent, and they can better integrate into this society when they grow up.

Third place: Taurus female Taurus mother takes into account the multiple identities of mother and strict mother, but strict mother status is likely to account for a larger proportion. Taurus mothers are naturally anxious. They are anxious about their children's education and foresee some setbacks and inconveniences that children may encounter during their growth. Therefore, Taurus mothers, who firmly believe that people have no foresight and gentlemen are harmonious but different, have established parenting experience with local characteristics and carried out practical activities early according to their own characteristics. Their attitude towards children is very strict, and they will also use setbacks to hone their children, just like a cold mother.

The reason why children are often given such cruel cultural education is because rational Taurus mothers know that social development is cruel and they have to bear many shocks, so they must be prepared in advance. In order to integrate children into various social regulations and learn various survival standards to follow development, only by strict management and strict requirements with a rational attitude can children benefit for life, so they can bear hardships and stand hard work early (not to mention that in the eyes of Taurus mothers, they have a lot of cold violence.