Me, Moon Aquarius, Him, Sun Aquarius

Generally speaking, the moon constellation of girls and the sun constellation of boys are the same, so they will be more suitable for each other. Because the emotional expression of boys is mainly the sun, and girls are mainly the moon. So from this perspective, you are a good match.

As for you saying you don't want to be led, I guess your sun sign may be a fire sign or something. Aquarius boys are actually very reasonable. They are definitely not as autocratic as other constellations. If you don't want to do it, they will never force you. What Aquarius needs most is actually psychological communication. As long as there is enough communication with each other, there will be no problem.