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How to deal with those who love to talk about constellations?

Have you ever had such a moment:

At a party, a group of people are discussing the characteristics of horoscopes, this month's fortune, the rising horoscopes, and you just yawn and stare blankly?

Friends always lose things. You reminded him to put things away many times, but he said that our constellation is like this and cannot be changed.

Chat with the goddess

"You have a big temper in this constellation?"

"The constellation has no scientific basis at all. This is pseudoscience. Are all false ... "

"......."

Then you were hacked.

At such a moment, can you only look at the sky and sigh? Why are constellations so boring in the world? Why do so many people believe in things that have no scientific basis?

Don't worry, don't worry, there are still many people who are so disgusted with the constellation, but in fact, as long as you know the constellation a little and use it a little, you can use it as a social weapon to solve 80% of your troubles.

But first, we need to find out why constellations are still popular for so long.

In fact, there are only two reasons: 1 How to face outsiders II. How to face yourself?

1. How to face outsiders

Interpersonal communication is the most important aspect of life, and the constellation seems to solve the complex problem of reading people in a simple and rude way. Pisces is gentle, Cancer cares about the family, Libra has a phobia of choice, Virgo will be more perfectionist ... These contents can easily divide people into 12 kinds, and each kind is labeled with a fixed label, which will represent the unique characteristics of this person, so that we can know how to get along with him and explain some of his behaviors.

This is why many people hate constellations. People who are superstitious about constellations always put various labels on people they meet for the first time, and then judge the individual's behavior with their inherent impressions.

However, is there a way to understand other people's personalities more easily than horoscopes? The formation of a person's personality is an extremely complicated process, which is closely related to the environment and past experience background besides congenital. But these are not what we observed when we first met. Besides the constellation, what else can make a lovely girl know how to face the person in front of her?

2. How to face yourself

Knowing yourself is something that everyone has to face. There was a time when a chicken soup was particularly popular: "May you eventually become what you want". But many people don't know what they want. In this way, they are likely to become like in the constellation book.

There is a word in psychology called self-fulfilling prophecy, which means to arouse a new behavior without a definite prediction, and this behavior makes the prediction come true. Translate it, put the description in the constellation book on yourself, and do it intentionally or unintentionally. After a long time, it will become what it looks like in the constellation book.

For example: Aries is paranoid and enterprising, and I will work hard!

It turns out that our Virgo is a detail control, and I can't stand this flaw.

Taurus likes romantic work. I think this job is too boring for me.

So the more you believe in constellations, the more you put these qualities on yourself, and the more you put them on yourself, the more you look like them. At this time, the horoscope book becomes a guide, a psychological suggestion, in which people unconsciously change themselves.

In addition, the constellation has also become an excuse for people to escape when they encounter difficulties.

For example, it's not that I have a bad temper, but that we Leo have it.

Sagittarius has poor self-control, and I can't help it.

Therefore, the constellation helps you to become a person with certain characteristics, and also makes you self-consistent. As many people who give up halfway say, I am a XX constellation, so I can't persist. Instead of admitting that you are just lazy.

Speaking of which, you may understand what kind of people will believe in constellations, right?

A wet behind the ears!

Yes, that's why people who are confused about communication and themselves especially believe in constellations. Then how can we, as smart people, use constellations to help ourselves?

1. Break the chat deadlock and see your heart as soon as possible.

You: "What constellation are you?"

Girls who believe in the lovely constellation: "XX constellation"

You: "Oh, the character of this constellation is XXXXXXX" (of course, this XXX can be made up or prepared by you in advance)

At this time, whether the other party admits it or not, it has already exposed itself. Admit it and you will know some characteristics of her personality. If you don't admit it, you will know which features don't belong to him.

Pretend oneself

This is easier to do, such as lying about your horoscope, or deliberately saying what characteristics your horoscope has, and labeling yourself to prove that you are such a person.

I believe my colleagues in Constellation: "Are you serious and responsible for your work?"

You: "Of course. I am a Virgo, and I am very pursuing perfection. " This astrological book only needs to be read for five minutes in your spare time, and you will know it soon. )

3. treat the constellation as a social currency

Sometimes, constellation features can become a social coin, and when you are too lazy to explain certain behaviors, it becomes your shield.

Friends who believe in constellations: "Oh, why don't you get married?"

You: "We Aquarius are born to love freedom!" " "Then open the search software, 1 minute to send an Aquarius personality analysis. Solve it!

4. It's more convenient to look at people

According to the above theory, people who believe in horoscope are almost transparent in our eyes, because their personality characteristics are written in books. As long as we spend a little time looking at the horoscope, we will have a preliminary understanding of her personality and behavior, but we are unpredictable in their eyes. What could be happier than this?

So, stop rolling your eyes at people who love to talk about constellations. They are actually simple and lovely people.