"Husband, my brother has no money. Please lend him some." Why did her husband's angry words wake her up?

When the girl you love marries you, your love for him will fade away with trivial things. When your wife borrows money from you, you should also consider your real situation. In real life, many husbands don't want their wives to mention their family at all. You'd better not mention your parents' money to your husband. The wife's brother was short of funds, and the wife took the initiative to mention it to her husband. A husband with high emotional intelligence will choose to appease his wife, and then raise some money for his wife's younger brother according to his own ability, provided that the younger brother is in trouble, not his mother-in-law. A husband with low emotional intelligence will directly reject his wife and say to her, "I didn't marry you to put my money in other people's pockets, even though your brother is short of money!" " But my money didn't come from the wind, you black sheep. "

Many men don't want to marry a girl whose brother is idle. This society is cruel, and it is not always possible for you to realize your dreams. I once met a family from which I was born, because my parents gave birth to a son very late, which led my parents to give all their love to their son, but ignored their daughter's thoughts. My daughter was admitted to a very good school. Because my brother was going shopping with friends, my parents gave all the money to my brother, which eventually led to my daughter being admitted to a free normal school. After my sister works, she should not only scrimp and save, but also send the extra money home.

His daughter was eager to buy a house in a big city, so he explained his situation to his parents, who didn't understand her and just asked her to send money back to her hometown. My daughter changed her contact information in a rage and successfully found her sweetheart. As a result, the registered husband broke up with the woman immediately after hearing about her family. That's because the woman's brother is a bottomless pit Even if they have a better life, they can't send needles into a bottomless pit.

Although the man can try his best to help the woman's family, no one wants to fill this bottomless pit. Whether it is a rich man with a successful career or a small boss who is starting a business, everyone is pursuing higher income and profits. They are using their own experience to complete innovation and reform. Although some boys can exert their best ability and self-motivation, these self-motivation can't make up for the bottomless pit. There are always some people who have nothing to do, and parents can't bear to blame each other. They can only pin their hopes on their daughter. What's more, today's society is full of profits and interests. Even boys and girls with the best skills are unwilling to put all their energy and efforts into the bottomless pit.

Her husband's angry words made her realize that she thought there were always many disappointments in real life. A husband who speaks in a very angry situation is likely to hurt every wife's young heart. A wife and a husband are the same. The wife's brother borrowed money from his sister, and the wife gave it to his brother without telling her husband. They will definitely quarrel with each other afterwards. It is better to be honest with her husband from the beginning. I didn't expect her husband's angry words to let her know that her feelings have been smoothed by life, and even began to doubt what she entrusted.